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Trip report April / September 2025 – Da Nang & beyond – Research if an elderly gay retiree can live comfortably in Da Nang, Vietnam

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49 minutes ago, Olddaddy said:

I wonder if you could do Borocay next ?🏝️🏝️🇵🇭🇵🇭

I hope you are kidding or you are not already suffering the effects of Alzheimer's or Dementia ?

Our gayguides.com forum is divided by physical nation states with different geographical locations - as shown below:

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Your reply about Borocay was posted in the Vietnam sub-division of our gayguides.com forum.  Boracay is part of the Philippines.

I already posted about my 4 days in Boracay (which you already commented on back in February of this year).  Below is the link to help you remember.

So, this thread is dedicated to Vietnam....

Thanks  🤩

 

Posted

Could you do comparison reports please on Cebu vs Da Nang in terms of

cost💲 , lifestyle,transport , gay life 🌈 especially for retirees 

Posted

Day 4 in Da Nang – 27 April 2025

 

Wake up with a subtle headache (hangover) and run over to my favorite breakfast place, An Food to eat my scrumptious : Bò né and drink a power wake up Vietnamese salt coffee.

Return to my room to write the 23 and 24 trip updates.

Hire a Grab car to return to the VinCom Plaza image.png.b5f8fc6226fc42a5747d8a2aa85dd3c6.png shopping mall to buy some miscellaneous stuff, get some more VND dong from the HSBC ATM, and eat lunch at Al Fresco's in the mall.

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https://alfrescos.com.vn/

Hire a Grab car to return to my My An neighborhood and I get out at the famous Bread & Butter bakery to buy some yummy take away treats. I buy 1 Coconut cake and 1 Chocolate mousse.

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https://www.facebook.com/bnbbakery2023

To appreciate what is on offer, I share the below TikTok video: 

                https://www.tiktok.com/@bnbbakery.danang/photo/7454493383147490568

Relax in my room and chat with many guys on the apps – but I am not in the mood – as one of my ex-Thai boyfriend’s dear friends has reached out to me via LINE and we chat a lot about what happened and life in general.  A great sweet guy – he is a sexy dancer at the Alcazar cabaret show venue back in Pattaya.  

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https://www.alcazarthailand.com/

I realize that it is already 9pm, so I hurry up and run over to the Country BBQ & Beer restaurant to eat my dinner.  But, I see that the street is blocked off for the upcoming 50 Year National Reunification Day celebrations and a concert and show is already underway.

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https://ioe.vn/chi-tiet/tap-chi-tieng-anh/vietnamese-reunification-day-celebrating-50-years-of-unity-5-7090

https://www.latimes.com/world-nation/story/2025-04-27/50-years-after-saigon-falls-vietnam-tweaks-story-of-victory

So, I seat myself at the BBQ restaurant where I can easily watch the show and be entertained.  As the crowd is very big, my favorite dishes are already out of stock and I have to settle for a salad and some French fries.

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Billboard & Facebook page of the 50 Year Reunification event that I witnessed.

What luck – when I was in Cebu – I encountered the annual Sinulog festival, and now in Vietnam I am encountering the 4 day Vietnamese Reunification Day celebrations, where 30 April 2025 is the actual 50th year anniversary – which is also my mother’s birthday (had she still been alive she would have been 80 years old).

All of these events brings me back to my childhood, back in April of 1975, when I came home from school on 29 April 1975, and my mother was crying on the sofa and told me – look at the TV son.  We have lost.  We are losers.  Son, this is awful what we did.

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Fall of Saigon 29 April, 1975 – last helicopters evacuating from the USA embassy

I sat on the sofa trying to comfort my mother, as I was too young to understand what was happening – but I knew that it was extremely important by the way my mother was an emotional mess and it seared into my mind this event forever.

I share with all of you a video that was prepared by a local Vietnamese drone blogger here in Da Nang of 1975 versus the Da Nang of today, 2025.

https://www.facebook.com/urbanistasean/videos/đà-nẵng-1975-2025celebrating-the-50th-anniversary-of-the-liberation-of-da-nang-c/1213598583652633/

 

So, in December 2019, during my first trip ever to Vietnam, I paid a tour guide extra money to get me up onto that same roof where that last helicopter took off, to pay respect for what we did wrong, pay tribute to my mother, and to have a moment alone in this surreal rooftop.

So tomorrow, on 30 April 2025, my mother’s birthday, I will rent a motorbike and drive up to the Lady Buddha temple here in Da Nang to pay my respects to both my mother (her birthday) and to Vietnam – on their 50 year Vietnamese Reunification Day.

What a moment to be alive and to live in this moment!!

Walk back to my room and call it a night.

 

End of day 4 in Da Nang – 27 April 2025

 

 

Posted

This is the most misidentified photo of the fall of Siagon. The building pictured is not the US Embassy. It's actually the top of 22 Gia Long Street (a half mile from the U.S. Embassy.

From Wikipedia

The image was widely misreported as showing Americans crowding on to the roof of the United States Embassy to board a helicopter.[2][1] In reality, the apartment complex, then called the Pittman Apartments, housed employees of the United States Agency for International Development (USAID), with its top floor reserved for the Central Intelligence Agency's deputy chief of station; the embassy was located at 4 Thống Nhứt Boulevard (now Lê Duẩn Boulevard), about 950 metres (0.59 mi) to the north-northeast.

The frequent misunderstanding of what the photograph shows stems from a change made to the photograph's caption at the Tokyo office of United Press International (UPI).] Although the photographer van Es submitted the photo to UPI with an accurate caption, UPI's Tokyo office changed the caption so it falsely read: "A U.S. helicopter evacuating employees of the U.S. embassy."[4] Although van Es repeatedly attempted to correct the error, his efforts were "futile" and he eventually "gave up."[4] Thus, as van Es has explained, "[O]ne of the best known images of the Vietnam War shows something other than what almost everyone thinks it does."

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Posted
2 minutes ago, reader said:

This is the most misidentified photos of the fall of Siagon. The building pictured is not the US Embassy. It's actually the top of 22 Gia Long Street (, a half mile from the U.S. Embassy.

Interesting that you share this with us.  Because I had to pay a tour guide a lot of money to bribe a security guard of the building to let us:

1.) Go up onto the roof so that I could have my photo taken on the roof of the supposed ex USA embassy,

2.) Take me to the area out back (on the ground level) where they had to burn important documents and bundles of USD banknotes.

All these years when I look at the photo of me up on the roof versus the 1975 UPI photo, the structure of the 2 rooftops never matched.  I always thought that perhaps I was ripped off because my photo did not match the UPI photo.

So @reader perhaps I was actually taken up to the actual ex-USA embassy rooftop?

 

Posted

I believe that you were taken to the offices of the USAID where the CIA occupied top floors.

Here's file photo of US embassy in 1975.

 

U.S. Embassy Saigon Fall of Saigon April 1975 Americans and their South Vietnamese dependents wait in line outside the U.S. embassy to apply for visas in Saigon, Vietnam, Saturday, April 5, 1975. AP Photo.

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Posted

Yes, you are correct.

So I was ripped off. Probably the security guard that initially denied us access to the building and elevator was perhaps a part of this "scam". He only let us in once he was paid a bribe.

The outside of the building that I was taken to did not look like what you show in the photo above 😪

Well, life is full of soo may disappointments and false illusions.

So, I was probably taken to the USAID / CIA building, as the rooftop matched the UPI photo - EXCEPT, the ladder up to the mini rooftop where the helicopter landed looked different in my 2019 photo versus the 1975 UPI photo.

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Posted
42 minutes ago, bkkmfj2648 said:

So, I was probably taken to the USAID / CIA building, as the rooftop matched the UPI photo - EXCEPT, the ladder up to the mini rooftop where the helicopter landed looked different in my 2019 photo versus the 1975 UPI photo.

The ladder in the original photo appears to be a 24-foot (three section) extension ladder that was hastily raised to convert top of elevator shaft into makeshift rescue platform. Ladder has likely been replaced several times over the intervening half century.

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From NY Times today

The Americans Fled Vietnam 50 Years Ago. I Visited the Buildings They Left Behind

By Damien Cave

Photographs by Hannah Reyes Morales

Reporting from Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam

  • April 29, 2025Updated 7:15 a.m. ET
 

On a rusty door at the top of a nine-story apartment building that no architect would admire, someone had scratched a declaration: “FALL OF SAIGON.”

Nguyen Van Hiep can still see it happening. On April 29, 1975, as South Vietnam’s government collapsed in the final hours of the war, he watched from next door as an American helicopter landed on the roof of the building’s elevator shaft, a space barely big enough to hold its skids.

A crowd of Vietnamese civilians squeezed their way up a narrow ladder to the military chopper, yelling and jockeying for position. An American with a white dress shirt ushered a lucky few onboard.

“Everyone was fighting to get up there,” said Mr. Hiep, whose father helped maintain the building known as the Pittman, where the deputy director of the Central Intelligence Agency lived and worked. “It was very chaotic, only people in the building could go.”

Continues with photos at

https://www.nytimes.com/2025/04/29/world/asia/vietnam-saigon-pittman-building.html

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