Do you ever have a "rest" day ?

[Olddaddy]

Coming up to 3 weeks,I'm now staying in Pattaya 

I read on here how you guys fuck twice a day and even more .

Tonight I feel guilty, my Filipino bf is out at karaoke 🎤 and here I am in the Airbnb relaxing watching TV and eating 

I never even chased any boys today ,went swimming today ,gym 1

2hours 🏋️‍♂️🤸‍♂️and then came back to the room 

I even took pre-work out red bull 

I feel I should be out there dancing in the Cocka2 bar,singing with my Filipino boyfriend 🇵🇭 

I had 3 guys on Sunday 2 unpaid ( sansuk sauna) one older Asian and one older farang and one paid young moneyboy , I came twice Sunday 

Fast forward 2 days and I'm "fucked" 😴

Do any of you have a night off , I'm guessing in short trips you can't ,you have to keep going 

I have no energy or desire tonight ,I feel horny but no desire, I have stopped off the alcohol today as well ,taking vitamins 

Tommrrw I will have to make up for it and get fucked three times😜😂

I feel guilty 😭 ...

[floridarob]

I'm having one tonight...Just got in from Laos, BKK had no problem with my Emergency passport, not a word coming in from immigration.  Laos questioned where I was going, I told them back to the US, they were weird and India won't issue any type of Visa for this passport and Sri Lanka doesn't respond to emails and no one answers the phones.

SO I'm just hanging in the Tarntawan tonight, catching up on some TV shows..... no drinking or sex. 

[Olddaddy]

4 minutes ago, floridarob said:

I'm having one tonight...Just got in from Laos, BKK had no problem with my Emergency passport, not a word coming in from immigration.  Laos questioned where I was going, I told them back to the US, they were weird and India won't issue any type of Visa for this passport and Sri Lanka doesn't respond to emails and no one answers the phones.

SO I'm just hanging in the Tarntawan tonight, catching up on some TV shows..... no drinking or sex. 

but....others in here fuck twice a day X 14 days on their holiday 🏖️⛱️and still go out to bars at night 

A night off...for me 

I guess I could get a guy (Mb)  from Grindr but I'm not in the mood.   . I should be horny !!! 

[Olddaddy]

Speaking of the Tartawan I found hotel in Bangkok last,week better and same price called AT EASE hotel 

Swimming pool,gym ,big rooms 

[Raposa]

4 minutes ago, Olddaddy said:

but....others in here go twice a day X 14 days on their holiday 🏖️⛱️

People tend to exaggerate how often they cum and how little they pay 😉

[Olddaddy]

6 minutes ago, Raposa said:

People tend to exaggerate how often they cum and how little they pay 😉

Yeah I guess so ,

I guess as we say in the gym...we must have a "rest" day , I will have to come back bigger and better  tomorrow ,get those African money boys to gangbang me 

[Mavica]

6 hours ago, Olddaddy said:

but....others in here fuck twice a day X 14 days on their holiday 🏖️⛱️and still go out to bars at night 

Don't believe everything you read. 😁

Youth, stamina ... and endurance training obviously play a part.  Been there, done that.  I'm happy if I'd have a couple of good hook-ups a week when traveling. I don't do the bars much anymore, don't want an overnighter, and want to be home before 10 p.m. Yes, I'm old now. 🙄

[Olddaddy]

3 hours ago, Mavica said:

Don't believe everything you read. 😁

Youth, stamina ... and endurance training obviously play a part.  Been there, done that.  I'm happy if I'd have a couple of good hook-ups a week when traveling. I don't do the bars much anymore, don't want an overnighter, and want to be home before 10 p.m. Yes, I'm old now. 🙄

Wow😲

Thankyou for being honest 

[Olddaddy]

3 hours ago, Mavica said:

 I don't do the bars much anymore, don't want an overnighter, and want to be home before 10 p.m. Yes, I'm old now. 🙄

What do you do on your trips to Thailand?

Mostly day time events ?

[Mavica]

1 hour ago, Olddaddy said:

What do you do on your trips to Thailand?

Mostly day time events ?

I haven't traveled in Thailand for ... years.  But my travel style for my next trip there won't be different than it is in other foreign travel.

[Olddaddy]

Speaking of day time ,I'm finding money boys on Grindr during the DAY much lower price and MORE available than night 

So if your not a late night owl 🦉 or a bar fly🍷🪰then day time is the way to go 

 

[Mavica]

26 minutes ago, Olddaddy said:

Speaking of day time ,I'm finding money boys on Grindr during the DAY much lower price and MORE available than night 

So if your not a late night owl 🦉 or a bar fly🍷🪰then day time is the way to go 

Thank you.  Yes, that's what I've found elsewhere.  Though, when I lived in Mexico City I'd get middle of the night calls after bars closed from former tricks looking for a place to crash for the night, or a day or two ... and how they would perform in bed!  I turn my cell off at night now, wherever I travel (and at home).

My situation is a bit different than most others here.  In addition to being 75 y.o. (of which I'm only one of that group here), I've dealt with prostate cancer surgery - and the aftermath. I've gone from a sometimes-versatile anal top to engaging, primarily, giving oral (which I do enjoy). My field of play is narrower, though.  My sex drive is less than before.  Not to fret though. Some physical/body contact ... sucking some cock ... a bit of kissing ... I'm okay with it. Adapting to my environment.  I'm also focused on exploring the culture of the countries I visit, not just the sex opportunities (perish the thought!).  Therefore, a tryst before bedtime is satisfying. I enjoyed decades of a very active sex life, wonderful times; literally hundreds of sex partners ... all the while escaping HIV/AIDS during my most prolific years.  😁

[Vessey]

My typical holiday is 21 nights, occasionally longer and I try and have a succession of room visitors, mostly as singles, but often as threesomes; maybe a couple of afternoon/evening short-times and usually a long-time.

I try and 'perform' for each, but consider myself lucky if I can manage to 'cum' once a day. 

But I am getting older (71) and my energy levels are not what they once were. If I try and squeez in two ST a day, then I try and ensure that with one I will top and the other I will bottom.  With my long-times I either just cuddle and sleep, or arrange a threesome where I can play until I tire and then watch the other two go at it until they finish.

Not everyone's style I suspect, but it works for me and makes up for the months of lonely celibacy back home between trips.

So as to 'days off', well I try to have none, but tiredness/tummy troubles ususally conspire to enforce a 'day off' maybe once a week. For those days I revert to paying a boy 'cash for cuddles' or even just nurse/house boy for the day. 

I do plan 'short days' when I am back in my room when the bars close about 1am, but I try also to include some 'party nights' when I take a few friends clubbing or to karaoke. But I am finding that I can physically (and financially) manage less and less of those. 

[Olddaddy]

On 4/1/2025 at 10:30 PM, floridarob said:

I'm having one tonight...Just got in from Laos, BKK had no problem with my Emergency passport, not a word coming in from immigration.  Laos questioned where I was going, I told them back to the US, they were weird and India won't issue any type of Visa for this passport and Sri Lanka doesn't respond to emails and no one answers the phones.

SO I'm just hanging in the Tarntawan tonight, catching up on some TV shows..... no drinking or sex. 

I'm still in Pattaya tonight , hanging around the Cocka2 🪿🪽🪿bar in Jomtien complex