Deciphering Top vs T&B at massage places

[Raposa]

1 hour ago, vinapu said:

we can only imagine how hard they have it at home

Yes, people are desperate enough to crawl through deserts and jungles to work themselves into an early grave. A real beacon of hope there.

[zombie]

I will be in BKK after Songkran. Sometimes I like a massage but often its not worked out well as I am usually top but the masseur  is not.

( have tried to ask ..but)

any place that actually designates before having a massage which masseur is T or B or both?

Thanks any help.

 

 

 

[reader]

11 minutes ago, zombie said:

I will be in BKK after Songkran. Sometimes I like a massage but often its not worked out well as I am usually top but the masseur  is not.

( have tried to ask ..but)

any place that actually designates before having a massage which masseur is T or B or both?

Thanks any help.

Many places do in on-line feeds (particularly in Saphan Kwai and elsewhere). In the absence of that, you can ask manager--or boys themselves--of the all-male shops on Silom Soi 6--or contact shop by phone or LINE. Be frank and telling them what you're looking for is best way to avoid disappointment.

[Raposa]

Reader is right, but sometimes shops centrally located or higher end will not answer you directly on Line unless they know you. You might want to ask for masseurs that «will do everything». If you don’t want to travel to Saphan Khwai, go to Senso men club and ask papasan directly when you are in the shop and tell him what you are looking for. Jey spa you can book masseurs that can do «everything» but you need to ask with some discretion on Line about it unless papasan knows you.  

[Draden]

16 hours ago, zombie said:

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I will be in BKK after Songkran. Sometimes I like a massage but often its not worked out well as I am usually top but the masseur  is not.

( have tried to ask ..but)

any place that actually designates before having a massage which masseur is T or B or both?

Thanks any help.

 

 

 

 

I was in BKK last year and went to KMan-Spa twice. On their website they have "T" and "T&B" on each guy's profile ... "T&B" are willing to bottom which were the only ones I tried. That said, one had great difficulty and we eventually stopped and finished using alternate methods (which was fine) and the other acted like I had a 12" dick (I don't). So, anyway, size seems to be an issue, even if your size is average. I'm not entirely sure why that's the case with professionals. 

[thaiophilus]

5 hours ago, Draden said:

 anyway, size seems to be an issue, even if your size is average. I'm not entirely sure why that's the case with professionals. 

"you too big" is a complaint, but it's also a compliment, so there's less loss of face(for both parties) than naming the real reason for refusal, whatever it might be.

[Draden]

This is a bit off-topic, but since I started this thread I'm going to indulge myself. 

Last year I was in BKK and I tried Grindr and had a few (non-MB) guys come over. I was staying in Phrom Phong and each of them indicated they lived in the neighborhood, and two of them offered to host instead of coming to my hotel (I declined to let them host). These were mostly guys in their early 20s (I'm late 30s). They all spoke unaccented English, one of them had been to university in the UK, and at least another one owned a personal car (not a motorcycle). A third wasn't Thai at all but was Chinese on holiday in Bangkok and, from conversation, seemed to have no discernible source of income but would go from one holiday to another. The other two (who were Thai) were somewhat evasive about their occupations when I asked, though one recently texted me and said he's coming to visit friends in the U.S. in July. Anyway, based on the foregoing, I wildly speculated these guys were probably either of an upper socioeconomic class in Thailand or part of an organized crime syndicate LOL.

Anyway, is this all usual or customary or was it just something I experienced or was it just the neighborhood I happened to be in? 

[Raposa]

6 hours ago, Draden said:

Anyway, is this all usual or customary or was it just something I experienced or was it just the neighborhood I happened to be in? 

LOLZ

Phrom Phong is considered an upscale area with lots of glitzy shopping centers, a lot of working expats favour this area too. Many lower middle class types would love to live there in order to spend less money and time commuting to work. So if you’re hooking up locally, expect the locals you’re hooking up with in Phrom Phong to be upscale too.

As for the Chinese guy, yes, probably being sponsored by parents who made good money during Deng Xiaoping’s reforms. They don’t need to work a lot and often travel between jobs if they bother to get one.