Trip Report Tokyo-Osaka

[vinapu]

1 hour ago, bkkmfj2648 said:

that these memories enrich us 

I can take cash instead

[Dannyxxx]

I’m probably not thinking clearly but i’m strongly considering taking my final vacation week for this year and going back to Tokyo to have another long weekend with my guy.  He left such an impression on me.  I know he’s straight and paid to entertain me but i absolutely think that we had a genuine connection and that maybe he would also like to pursue a purely Platonic friendship.  

[vinapu]

12 hours ago, Dannyxxx said:

  I know he’s straight and paid to entertain

this is why I prefer straight guys , they know they have job to do and usually trying hard and they are not prone to emotional attachments in sexual context.

 

It separate question how really straight those' straight ' guys going with another man are. I have my very substantial doubts but always let them to have their fun thinking I take their 'straight' claim seriously.  I almost always ask them question ' do you like girls or boys better ?" and quite often that answer out of ' straight ' mouth is  ' same , same"

[Dannyxxx]

I’m trying to take some time before deciding about where to go during my final vacation week.  Even if i could get to Japan and book an appointment with my guy i don’t know if it would be productive.  
 

When i booked him for 24 hours and added a private room(apartment), plus the 10% credit card fee, the total for that day was $590.  That’s just a bit too expensive for me to do on a whim.  I really wanna see him again and wish i could book him for a three day 72 hour long weekend but that would be financially idiotic of me.  I could do so much more with that money in Bangkok.  So maybe the move will be to fly from USA to Tokyo.  Spend two days there including one 24 hour session with my Tokyo stud. Have an amazing day/night with him.  Part ways on a positive note and hopefully he’ll want to keep in contact somehow.  Then fly on to Bangkok for some gogo bar shenanigans.  Then fly home a few days later.  

[vinapu]

7 hours ago, Dannyxxx said:

I’m trying to take some time before deciding about where to go during my final vacation week.  Even if i could get to Japan and book an appointment with my guy i don’t know if it would be productive.  

at end of day nice problem to have with all choices available.

[Taddtx]

On 3/13/2025 at 8:30 AM, Dannyxxx said:

I’m probably not thinking clearly but i’m strongly considering taking my final vacation week for this year and going back to Tokyo to have another long weekend with my guy.  He left such an impression on me.  I know he’s straight and paid to entertain me but i absolutely think that we had a genuine connection and that maybe he would also like to pursue a purely Platonic friendship.  

Think about this a minute.   You had a really great time with this straight guy you employed.   Made some very nice memories.   But remember you paid him for what you got, and even you said he was booked for following few days after you saw him.    He is giving those other guys the same experiences.   That's his job.

Think with you head and not your emotions.    Enjoy your memories with him and let that stay.    Going back to see him, may not end up exactly as you wish.

Best wishes on which ever you decide.

 

 

[bkkmfj2648]

7 hours ago, Taddtx said:

Think with you head and not your emotions.    Enjoy your memories with him and let that stay.    Going back to see him, may not end up exactly as you wish

Very sage advice.

In January 2024, I was finally able to meet a very sexy guy from Hat Yai, during my 2 week stay in Songkhla. For many months prior, I was crazy for him with his daily erotic Twitter (X) postings. He was so my type.  I wrote to him several times but he never replied to my Twitter DMs. By sheer luck, one of my 2 local sexy tour guides was friends with him and arranged that he came to see me at my Songkhla bungalow.  That meeting was simply fantastic and more than the fantasies that I had created in my mind.

2 months later, I flew him up to Pattaya to stay with me for 4 days. During our time together the sex was awful, in fact, he never had an orgasm, no matter how much I tried.

He was not acting like the same person that I got to know back in Songkhla 2 months prior. He was Dr. Jeckell & Mr. Hyde.

When I pushed him about why? His reply was a big slap in the face.  He said to me:

You are my first (and last) farang customer.  He said that prior to me, ALL of his customers had been Thai or Malay (Hat Yai is down near the Thai-Malay border).  He told me that us farangs have a smell, that he finds repugnant.

I was devastated - as I believe that I am a very clean and hygenic person.  But, I appreciated his honesty - as it explained why it was great in Songkhla (a short 2 hour meeting) but in our 4 days in Pattaya it was not.

He told me that he believes that us farangs "stink" because of our diet.

He is the first person in my entire life to tell me this.

So, I learned a VERY expensive lesson about trying to recreate the "magic" of our first amazing encounter....

[a-447]

2 hours ago, bkkmfj2648 said:

He told me that he believes that us farangs "stink" because of our diet.

Well, I've heard this before, although nobody has ever said I stink.

Maybe because I only eat Asian food.

Some Asian guys smell of fish sauce but I wouldn't dare tell them, so at least your guy was honest.

In general, Asians don't smell of BO, apparently because they have a gene that we don't. I don't know how true this is, but all I know is, Japanese guys smell great, even on a crowded train the in middle of summer. In rush hour,  when you're standing with your face in some guy's armpit, it's never a problem.

Compare that to say, France, where stinky people are the norm, even in winter.

[macaroni21]

27 minutes ago, a-447 said:

In general, Asians don't smell of BO, apparently because they have a gene that we don't. I don't know how true this is

There is science behind this. Read: https://www.nbcnews.com/news/asian-america/east-asians-no-body-odor-dont-need-deodorant-rcna156778 

The gene mutation among East Asians (a term that includes a lot of Southeast Asians because they're descendants of peoples who migrated southwards from China) means they secrete much less (or none) fat molecules into their apocrine glands of armpits and groin, so the bacteria there have much less material to digest to produce end-products that noses detect as foul.

The sweat itself is odourless; it's the composition of the sweat that bacteria turns into odour. One way to reduce bacteria concentrations on the skin is the use of benzoyl peroxide wash. If using that, make sure you've got the right concentration as instructed on the packaging (peroxide can burn if too concentrated) and you need to soak the skin area for some minutes to be effective. See:

 

But although the lack of the gene mutation that is a major factor, it isn't the only one. Diet, as you said, also plays a part.  See 

 

[Dannyxxx]

20 hours ago, Taddtx said:

Think about this a minute.   You had a really great time with this straight guy you employed.   Made some very nice memories.   But remember you paid him for what you got, and even you said he was booked for following few days after you saw him.    He is giving those other guys the same experiences.   That's his job.

Think with you head and not your emotions.    Enjoy your memories with him and let that stay.    Going back to see him, may not end up exactly as you wish.

Best wishes on which ever you decide.

 

 

I appreciate this.  As I get some distance from my time in Tokyo I am trying to think about it more rationally.  I'm thankful for the advice from you guys on here who have had similar experiences. I've confided in a few of my close friends about my trip and my yearning to see this guy again.  One of them advised me to focus on getting back into my normal routine, fitness, and getting enough sleep.  That's probably wise to do before making any hasty decisions.  I'd actually booked a return to Japan for about one month from now but have now refunded the tickets in order to give myself a few more weeks at least to develop some more emotional distance.  

One of my friends and his wife already plan to go to Japan later this year and have invited me to meet up with them so I may do that with them and then spend a day with my Tokyo guy if he's available.  I think having my friends there to hang out with will hopefully help me stay in a proper and healthy state of mind.  I harbor no false illusions that this guy is emotionally or sexually attracted to me. I think I'm really just starved for romance in my daily life back home so when I paid to have a gentleman hottie cherish and adore me it likely triggered some powerful emotions in me that kinda clouded my judgement.  Anyways,  I imagine this thread should be about helpful tips for landing these hot guys and not my mental struggles.  

 Pertaining to the smell: Come to think of it I didn't notice any negative smells from the guys I was close to during the trip. I think I had intimate relations with 4 guys during my trip.  Hopefully I didn't smell too bad.  I was definitely directed to take plenty of showers before getting sexy with these guys.  I do try to keep my armpit/public hair trimmed pretty short partially to limit the possibility of smelling bad.  Hopefully it helps!