Exercises in celibacy - trip to Thailand and Vietnam in Jan 2025

[vinapu]

Day 23 and 24  

Longed for and coveted day for my readers finally arrived and this long reports comes to an end but not before enduring one more day.

 After breakfast S went to his room and I returned to my hotel supplied condo to do finances. While whole trip was within budget it turned out I’m short of cash for my last day , not really intended to be celibate.

But since XOne now is opened on Sundays I marched there to get some much needed baht.

 When I was in GoodBoys I got a Line of guy who was sitting with me, he made sure to remind me about his desire to make my days even more pleasant than they are , sending me “ when”? messages daily, To this morning message my answer was “ 3pm’ today. I gave him location and at appointed time welcomed him in front of condo building where expressed desire to see how it looks inside so off we went.

In fact it did not start well as he asked to smoke on outside patio and did not seem to be in rush to return to the room with impatient me inside, only firm ‘ hey you “ made him thinking I may become serious and it needs to be said all went very well from this point on.  I like good looking,  muscled guys who are bit talkative and are endowed properly and he possessed all those attributes.

I think we had a bit of chemistry and at end of session I was pleasantly surprised how well it went with my initial reservations gone and forgotten. Having arrived on motorbike he did not ask for extra taxi money  but being business oriented he ask for a little bit of gas money. I told him I don’t like it, he smiled , I have him 100 baht and got kiss as repayment. I thought silently “ what a fucking charmer he is” . Money and time well spent.

 Right after he left I went to Madrid Café in Charoen Krung soi 49 as today was my last chance to sample their pizza – they were closed when I went with my friend in the beginning of this trip . Hurrah, it was opened and I like small ritual  we have with Jennie, the owner. She asked ‘usual” and soon Chang landed on my table and while after cherry tomato and shallots pizza as well.  Mission accomplished, even typing this I miss the place and the pizza. It’s great  loss to humanity they are no longer in Patpong.

In the evening I went to Banana where again reader , Raposa , 10tazione and me had a drink outside watching the world to go by , then Will went his way and our trio went inside as show started. We got quite a prominent seats in front. #31 I offed in November was looking hopefully at me but I had other solution in mind for my last night.

After watching show for about 1 hr,   we decided to change scenery  and walked to Moonlight where I had designs on M, guy I offed in beginning of this trip already. He was on the stage, smile at me and I wasted no time to point at seat beside me. Seconds later he was there. Even mamasan was surprised with my speed while disappointed that such self service  deprived him his tip.

 Mindful that my night is short I left my friends in the bar hugging them good bye and soon world saw me sitting in the back of new shiny M’s motorbike. Second time with him was even better than first although at one point he was getting itchy to go . That granted me 1 hr. of sleep alone.

 At 3.30 fast shower , gathering last few unpacked things and at 4  I went out. No taxi in sight in the soi but as soon as I hit Silom one stopped. Seeing senior citizen with luggage he asked  first  :‘ airport ?’.

We agreed on 500 , tolls on him , and we sped toward Swampy.

 Few hours later I left Thailand for 40^Th time taking with me precious memories as well as 5 bars of soap and 6 bags of  3 in1 Khao Son coffee.

 Having just 1 hr. of sleep actually helped as I slept through most of my first 7 hrs. leg .

31 hrs and 50 minutes after I closed my condo in soi 3 , I opened door to my home. It was almost midnight so good arrival time to bit jet lag and indeed it worked. I had  very little of it and it went away after 2-3 days .

Did I get withdrawal syndrome after having 11 out  of 24 nights celibate, 2 times as much as in all previous trips combined ? Answer is no.

 I knew it’s coming and reason was , exactly that , reason. I knew that this time finances are limited and I need to stick to limitation. Being always good with that helped.

 I had great 3 side trips , all in regions I did not visit before and having S with me in Chaing Rai was excellent idea as he is exemplary travel companion, asking for nothing, never complaining and if he was bored, never showed that to me.

 Glad I finally nailed longed for and coveted Jupiter guy, even if at some cost, but sense of achievement is worth it.

 Two new finds , M and Good Boys guy proved excellent and promising material for a future as well.

 Meeting so many members was true highlight of this trip  and thank you all for scarifying your precious vacation  time to meet .

Now counting days to January 2027, my next trip

[floridarob]

17 minutes ago, vinapu said:

I marched there 

Couldn't resist or was for my benefit?

[ggobkk]

Tremendous write-up.  Encouraging me to return soon.  

[spoon]

Thank you for another great trip reports!! Lots of efforts put to create this report and i really appreciate it!

Cant wait for your next adventure hehe.

[floridarob]

1 hour ago, spoon said:

Cant wait for your next adventure hehe.

 

2 hours ago, vinapu said:

Now counting days to January 2027, my next trip

Which by his calendar should be May-July this year....

[bkkmfj2648]

3 hours ago, vinapu said:

Few hours later I left Thailand for 40^Th time taking with me precious memories as well as 5 bars of soap and 6 bags of  3 in1 Khao Son coffee.

Is this a clue on when you will be returning to LOS?

in 3 to 5 months to consume what you bought?

[vinapu]

6 hours ago, floridarob said:

Couldn't resist or was for my benefit?

of course  with you in mind, lol

To extend that originally I posted " I walked " but decided you may feel neglected and abandoned so went to change to proper ' I marched"  

6 hours ago, ggobkk said:

Tremendous write-up.  Encouraging me to return soon.  

Thank you . Write -up is not that fantastic but trip was !

5 hours ago, spoon said:

 Lots of efforts put to create this report and I really appreciate it!

Cant wait for your next adventure hehe.

Thank you for noticing it , indeed it takes a lot of time to put it together, it's why I always appreciate even shortest trip reports placed in the forum .

As for next time , believe me, I cant' wait either

3 hours ago, floridarob said:

 

Which by his calendar should be May-July this year....

thinking about suggestion but at the moment not doing anything to facilitate it, But I 'm known for acting fast if need arises.

3 hours ago, bkkmfj2648 said:

Is this a clue on when you will be returning to LOS?

in 3 to 5 months to consume what you bought?

you kidding ? with regular shower every Friday it will take 3 years to run through 5 bars of soap , specially that one I like and always import is of good quality.

as for coffee you scored better, 6 bags is 120 sachets , at one a day it's 4 months supply but I still have plenty of what  I brought in November

[ichigo]

Glad to have been a small part of your trip!

[Raposa]

Thanks for the reports and great meeting you. 

[vinapu]

7 hours ago, ichigo said:

Glad to have been a small part of your trip!

 

5 hours ago, Raposa said:

Thanks for the reports and great meeting you. 

My pleasure gentlemen !

[10tazione]

On 3/25/2025 at 3:23 AM, vinapu said:

Now counting days to January 2027, my next trip

After your previous whining trip report I was really worried and thought what's wrong with Vinapu ... good to hear you had a great time this time and are back to "good old optimistic Vinapu" !!!

[vinapu]

4 hours ago, 10tazione said:

After your previous whining trip report I was really worried and thought what's wrong with Vinapu ... good to hear you had a great time this time and are back to "good old optimistic Vinapu" !!!

'Old"? , watch your back next time you see me .

After really only partially enjoyable trip in August I had short trip in November which was great and reported here already.   So my enthusiasm returned  but as you see above   - it looks that great fun can be had without engaging guys nightly and THAT is the real danger. 

[spoon]

41 minutes ago, vinapu said:

it looks that great fun can be had without engaging guys nightly and THAT is the real danger.

It also means more trips to thailand since now it is more affordable for you who now dont need to off 3 boys a day lol

[reader]

1 hour ago, vinapu said:

it looks that great fun can be had without engaging guys nightly ...

+1

 

[bkkmfj2648]

43 minutes ago, spoon said:

It also means more trips to thailand since now it is more affordable for you who now dont need to off 3 boys a day lol

and is also a nice way to not feeling the pressure to have to keep up with the Jonses - oops - I mean KFC - Mr. Stamina!!!

[10tazione]

3 hours ago, vinapu said:

'Old"? , watch your back next time you see me .

"Old" in the sense of "as we got to know you", i.e. young, smart and good-looking!

[vinapu]

11 hours ago, spoon said:

It also means more trips to thailand since now it is more affordable for you who now dont need to off 3 boys a day lol

Then why go?

[vinapu]

8 hours ago, 10tazione said:

"Old" in the sense of "as we got to know you", i.e. young, smart and good-looking!

I can live with that,

[spoon]

1 hour ago, vinapu said:

Then why go?

Because celibacy in thailand is better than celibacy back home? 🤣