Exercises in celibacy - trip to Thailand and Vietnam in Jan 2025

[vinapu]

About week after I retuned from Aug 2024 trip I spotted extremely good airfare to Bangkok for mid January and decided to buy it even if I had my doubts I will be able to utilize it for many  of reasons.

Main one being my Mother’s mantra I already mentioned few times before “if you don’t have money for vacation , don’t go” . One thing she did not know was line of credit though.

 Even brief , weeklong November foray , which turned very pleasant did not convince me to break that unspoken rule. I gave myself till New Year Eve to make decision.

And of course, what else , I decided to utilize that ticket.

So new Year Day I spent on my computer booking  hotels and airfares.

Then disaster struck – I learned that my friend is landing in Bangkok at the same time. He may be friend but not kind of one I would like to accompany me in my Silom affairs for simple reason – he is babbler known for saying first and thinking distant second. As travel companion he is also bit imperial and selfish when comes to programs. In short , better to be met in social setting , not on the road. Since not much I could do I left it to be solved when in Swampy.

 Ticket was cheap but there was price for it – very early departure at 6 am, three legs so involving  two connections on the way and  late arrival I Bangkok, just before midnight.

 It worked, all three fights arrived 30-60 minutes before scheduled time and only complain I have  was that cabin in United flight to Narita was cold. I had sweater but could use winter jacket which was tucked in check-in luggage as I did not expect I will need it until I return home.

 

Of course while standing in long but fast moving immigration line I was spotted by my friend so my cover was blown  right there. My luggage was already waiting for me , his came quite fast and we shared taxi to our hotels , first his in Sukhumvit and than  mine  in soi 3.

 

I was in my room just before 1 am and decided to take shower and do survey of the area. As it was past bar closing time I spotted few known faces dining here and there , with friends or alone. On Suriwong there was guy I offed last trip who immediately offered  his companionship but I declined and it was his fault. He cut our session short under some pretext which in my book is criminal and results in blacklisting.

 Hot Male beer bar still had few customers and P was free so I offered him a drink which led to his suggestion that since bar is closing soon he may walk me to my hotels. He is not a person I would reject such an offer so I agreed immediately shyly suggesting we may even have coffee together in the room. Not sure I used word ‘ coffee ‘ but whatever it was he got it and added ‘ till morning ‘. Now we are talking ! Soon  I paid 600 off fee and world saw us walking briskly to soi 3. We met before few times but this session was by mile the best.  I like straight boys who are clingy and not faking it.

 He left me at 7.30 declining breakfast invitation , no doubt wanted to catch some sleep.

  Day 1

 For breakfast I went to Foodland, where else ? in meantime message Raposa I’m heading there and soon after he joined me  for a meal and news exchange. After we parted ways I went to XOne to exchange money and around noonish I went to meet me friend thinking about excuses to create free evening. It was easier than I thought. After  taking boat along Saen Sap canal and doing some sightseeing in Khao San area  we returned by the boat to Saphan Taksin , had a meal in the area and decided to part ways even if it was still daylight for simple reason – jet lag decided to intervene. In hotel I collapsed on the bed but not before I set my alarm clock  for 9.pm. I’m not one to waste vacation time.

 

As for first bar visit this trip there was no doubt where I will go , Atlas of course . I was greeted enthusiastically by barker outside who remembered I helped him when he had period of sleeping in the rough and by cabal of boys knowing me from  Tawan and even Arena.

 

 Can’t say I was very impressed with selection but certain I’d pick up one of 4-5 guys there. There were few twinks I’d consider too. Face of one waiter was familiar  and it turned out  few years ago he was one of stars at Jupiter I had hots for but of course those days he did not even look my way.

He lost some muscles but face is still handsome. Perhaps I should give him consideration in future for old times sake.

8 red notes distributed, to that guy, one of  singers , James and Ken sitting with me ,  J/O contestant, f***k show performers   and two big c***k showmen. I liked the show as it included full set of numbers. Just before midnight I crossed the soi to climb stairs to Hot Male where S was waiting for me forewarned about my intentions earlier. Show was on and I entered exactly at big c**k show moment so another 200 went for the needy but well endowed. We went to Foodland for  a meal and then home .S never disappoints and never rushes to go home, so it looks this trip so far I’m doing well.     

[macaroni21]

I am waiting for the part about celibacy 🤣

[vinapu]

29 minutes ago, macaroni21 said:

I am waiting for the part about celibacy 🤣

in due course

[Raposa]

1 hour ago, macaroni21 said:

I am waiting for the part about celibacy 🤣

I’m more interested whether he practiced chastity and continence during the trip🤣

[Keithambrose]

4 hours ago, Raposa said:

I’m more interested whether he practiced chastity and continence during the trip🤣

How about charity to make up 3cs!