Regular spas vs exclusively male spas and boy bars

[zazzu]

I went to Avarin Spa yesterday and just chose a foot massage because I had I had plans to meet a boy later in the evening. I thought it would be a good chance to scope out the place, if nothing else. The masseur was fairly cute, certainly not a model but still nice on the eyes. He seemed very friendly and smiled a lot at me during the massage. I decided to test the waters and “adjusted myself” while he was looking (oops!). He immediately suggested going upstairs for an oil massage when we finished the foot massage. I declined. About 20-30 min later, I “adjusted myself” again while he was looking (I just kept getting caught! lol) and he asked again about going upstairs. Ok, great - not just a coincidence the first time.  I used my translator app to ask if he can give my massage nude. He smiled and said yes. I asked if we could meet the next day (today). He said yes and wanted my Line. As I left, I showed my Line QR code and we have set up a massage at my hotel, which is nearby his shop. We will meet this afternoon and I can give an update later.

Honestly, I think I’m enjoying the thrill of taking my chances at the regular spas rather than the exclusively male spas and the boy bars.  The boy bars have been a let down so far - they are expensive when adding up all of the fees and even when they say they’ll do the things you ask about in the bar, it’s a different story once you’re back at the hotel.

At the male spas, you pretty much know you’re going to get at least a HJ and probably a body to body experience but the negotiations can be tedious. A guy at Maha was insisting on 3000 for B2B. I was able to talk him down to 2000 (90 min massage). I will say that he worked hard and did earn his money though. lol He continued the massage after he gave me an energetic HE and he didn’t short me on time.

But there’s just something about being in a mixed spa and having the masseur graze my crotch and realize I’m not wearing underwear under the shorts. Then they start gently moving my hard cock during the massage and eventually they touch it more than they need to. Mmmmm! And then things progress even further. It’s so hot. Of course, not every cute guy at the mixed spas are into it, but that’s ok. I usually have a good idea who to pick though. 

[colom-bien]

I was in Bangkok for the first time a few months ago and tried something similar. I struck out. It ended up being a good 4-handed massage and they were sweet guys, but no extras. I'm glad you got a base hit. I hope tomorrow it's a home run!

[zazzu]

7 hours ago, colom-bien said:

I was in Bangkok for the first time a few months ago and tried something similar. I struck out. It ended up being a good 4-handed massage and they were sweet guys, but no extras. I'm glad you got a base hit. I hope tomorrow it's a home run!

Sorry to hear that you were not successful a few months ago. I find 4 hand massages challenging. I think I’ve only had one that was great. That was in Mexico City. It was a mind blowing experience. I literally couldn’t think clearly at the end when it was time to tip them. I still don’t think I tipped them enough! lol The others I’ve had were lacking in chemistry between the two masseurs. You have to find guys who are comfortable working with each other in that situation.

As for my afternoon appointment, it wasn’t a home run but it was still pretty fun. I had him start off nude but he just gave a regular massage in the nude. I think he was nervous. He said it was his first time leaving the shop to give a massage. I was able to drop some hints and about halfway through, things heated up and became more interactive. It was all “outside” activity (no anal) but that was ok. By the end, we were both wiped out and very happy. 

Tomorrow’s plans include exploring SK and visiting Phoenix and maybe one other spa while I’m there. lol 

[jason1975]

1 hour ago, zazzu said:

Tomorrow’s plans include exploring SK and visiting Phoenix and maybe one other spa while I’m there. lol 

Have fun and enjoy! Do share your impression of Phoenix!

[colom-bien]

12 hours ago, zazzu said:

I was able to drop some hints and about halfway through, things heated up and became more interactive. It was all “outside” activity (no anal) but that was ok. By the end, we were both wiped out and very happy.

Sounds very hot to me. Ufffff! 🥵 And it's fun to be with someone who is expanding their horizons.

[Vessey]

A few years ago I went for an oil massage on Second Road and was directed onto a matress in a big room and curtains drawn around me. At that point I had no idea who would do the massage. The shop employed mostly ladies but with a number of ladyboys and boys.

In the end it was a cute young Cambodian boy who drew back the curtain and came to do the massage. He directed me to get undressed and lay face down on the maaasage table. A small thin 'modestly' cloth was draped across my bum. 

At this point my gay experiences in Pattaya were very limited, but this lad was seriously cute, had an infectious smile and a reasonable basic English. His massaging around my bum were already reaching parts down below, and when he told me to turn over my erection was there waving at him. He simply draped the small modesty cloth over my all too obvious 'tent-pole' and proceeded with the massage. He brushed against it once or twice and when I suggested he 'take care' he claimed he couldn't, but refused with a smile and a chuckle.

Captivated I was back again the next day, and this time on turn-over and he patted my cock as he put the modesty cloth over it. Again he said he could do no more.

The next couple of days passed similarly his hand resting on my cock a second or two longer than perhaps necessary as he pulled the cloth over.

The first 'breakthrough' came when, after me complaing how horny I felt, and him again saying no to a hand-job, he this time said it was ok if I relieved myself as he massaged me. Sounded a bit odd, but as I was a horny as hell I did just that as he massaged around the tops of my thighs brushing my balls as he did so, and he then used the modestly cloth to mop me up when I had finished.

The second breakthrough came the next day, when on me offering a 1k baht tip, he did actually give me a successful hand-job.  And further massages again this holiday continued similarly.

 

Next holiday we resumed, and a further breakthrough. For an enhanced tip, not only would he give me a hand-job, but he opened his trousers, dropped his pants and allowed me to not only return the favour, but after some hesitation allowed me to give him a BJ to completion.

Then, if either of us were taking too long to 'finish', a well-oiled 'magic finger' came into play; first knuckle, second knuckle and then, eventually, the whole digit. Took me ages for him to give me access to eat his ass (yes on the massage table as well!), but he absolutely grew to love that particular little extra (he should have been paying me! haha).

Two years later and we were by now having unashamed short-times in my hotel room with me fucking him!  The wonder of that is that he always claimed to be straight (has a wife and children). Even now, (and yes I do still see him pretty much every trip) we not only have short-times but even occasionally sleep together.

Looking back, though, for me some of the very hottest, horniest moments were within that curtained mattress area, and the will he do this today, or won't he do this, frission between us. 

[zazzu]

On 2/4/2025 at 7:06 PM, jason1975 said:

Have fun and enjoy! Do share your impression of Phoenix!

I had a great visit at Phoenix this afternoon and after taking a little break over at the Chatuchak Weekend Market, I ended up at K Man Spa too!

I wish I had gotten the masseur’s name at Phoenix. He was so cute and definitely up for the task of fucking me. lol 

At K Man, I got “Arm”. I’ve seen his pic on a few spas’ websites and Line ads and I was tempted to try him. I was happy when they assigned him to me. He was also very capable and we had a great time. 

The facilities are better at K Man compared to Phoenix, but I think Phoenix is definitely worth the walk. They were very friendly and helpful setting up my appointment. I Didn’t ask for a specific boy, but I gave them a list of my wants (gay, vers/top, cute face, smaller dick, etc.) and they suggested a few guys for me. It worked out really well!

Edited Wednesday at 03:57 PM by zazzu
hit submit too soon lol