I snuck away for some coastal downtime this week in Santa Marta and something that really stood out for me was the number of Grindr and Skokka ads specifying men over 50. 
also had an overwhelming response to my profile but mileage may vary. 

Finally @Latbear4blk I had a surprise reunion with Leonardo who is also here on vacation. That man could make a ton doing porn — he’s bigger than ever and absolutely chiseled from working out consistently. Gods gift from Venezuela. Sorry to everyone but he has retired from his scort days. 🥲

3 hours ago, macdaddi said:

I snuck away for some coastal downtime this week in Santa Marta and something that really stood out for me was the number of Grindr and Skokka ads specifying men over 50. 
also had an overwhelming response to my profile but mileage may vary. 

Finally @Latbear4blk I had a surprise reunion with Leonardo who is also here on vacation. That man could make a ton doing porn — he’s bigger than ever and absolutely chiseled from working out consistently. Gods gift from Venezuela. Sorry to everyone but he has retired from his scort days. 🥲

He is very sexy! If he is bigger now, I may feel less attracted as I am not into big muscles. Anyway, my friend, I think that after flirting with Colombia for a few trips I may focus more in Brazil in the future. Despite the language barriere, I find my relationships with Brazilian GPs more satisfying (and affordable) than the ones with our Colombian (little) brothers. I will be back, but I thon 2025 will be fully Brazilian.

On 1/11/2025 at 8:00 PM, Latbear4blk said:

He is very sexy! If he is bigger now, I may feel less attracted as I am not into big muscles. Anyway, my friend, I think that after flirting with Colombia for a few trips I may focus more in Brazil in the future. Despite the language barriere, I find my relationships with Brazilian GPs more satisfying (and affordable) than the ones with our Colombian (little) brothers. I will be back, but I thon 2025 will be fully Brazilian.

Actually I thought of you since you are in contact with Rhyheim who would be thrilled to add him to the stable the way he is looking 👀 jeje. But he made it clear he is really happy with life these days. 

14 hours ago, macdaddi said:

Actually I thought of you since you are in contact with Rhyheim who would be thrilled to add him to the stable the way he is looking 👀 jeje. But he made it clear he is really happy with life these days. 

If you have other recommendations for Rhyheim, let me know. Just know that he only reaches out to guys with a high level of engagement in their social networks. 

On 1/11/2025 at 8:00 PM, Latbear4blk said:

He is very sexy! If he is bigger now, I may feel less attracted as I am not into big muscles. Anyway, my friend, I think that after flirting with Colombia for a few trips I may focus more in Brazil in the future. Despite the language barriere, I find my relationships with Brazilian GPs more satisfying (and affordable) than the ones with our Colombian (little) brothers. I will be back, but I thon 2025 will be fully Brazilian.

Can you elaborate on the affordable aspects of a brazil trip &, Brazilian GPs compared to Colombia.  I was under the impression cost in Colombia are less.  my grindr hookup men that I pay are about 100cop ($22usd) to 150.  my biggest complaint about Colombia is expensive hotel/airbnb for not great quality (at least  in Medellin)

Rent guys are far cheaper in Colombia. You really can’t beat the 60-70 mil COP big cock top guys in Cali, Pereira etc (outside Medellin, Bgta, Cartagena) eager to meet. 

4 hours ago, maump said:

Can you elaborate on the affordable aspects of a brazil trip &, Brazilian GPs compared to Colombia. 

About the guys... it's like comparing Ubereats to a food court in a mall. Brasil you can go to a sauna with working guys and see in real life how the guys are look, talk, kiss, smell....when finding guys on the app, there are risks of what shows up isn't what you were expecting. But once you have some regulars, it's great....I'm going to MDE next week.

Flights are usually cheaper to Colombia, generally shorter distance to get to, no visa needed like Brasil starting in April. Poblado isn't cheap to eat, nor is it expensive but there are tons of options, Rio restaurants are meh, SP has better choices.

They are pretty similar in the end, I've had more requests for money after I've left from Colombia and that never happens to me in Brasil (maybe 1 or 3 times in 25+yrs).

Airbnb's cost about the same in both, for the ones I stay at.
 

True, money requests from Colombian guys are almost certain if you stay in contact with them post-hookups. 

6 hours ago, maump said:

Can you elaborate on the affordable aspects of a brazil trip &, Brazilian GPs compared to Colombia.  I was under the impression cost in Colombia are less.  my grindr hookup men that I pay are about 100cop ($22usd) to 150.  my biggest complaint about Colombia is expensive hotel/airbnb for not great quality (at least  in Medellin)

 

2 hours ago, floridarob said:

About the guys... it's like comparing Ubereats to a food court in a mall. Brasil you can go to a sauna with working guys and see in real life how the guys are look, talk, kiss, smell....when finding guys on the app, there are risks of what shows up isn't what you were expecting. But once you have some regulars, it's great....I'm going to MDE next week.

Flights are usually cheaper to Colombia, generally shorter distance to get to, no visa needed like Brasil starting in April. Poblado isn't cheap to eat, nor is it expensive but there are tons of options, Rio restaurants are meh, SP has better choices.

They are pretty similar in the end, I've had more requests for money after I've left from Colombia and that never happens to me in Brasil (maybe 1 or 3 times in 25+yrs).

Airbnb's cost about the same in both, for the ones I stay at.
 

TY, Rob. I am not in the mood of elaborating more than I have already done, everywhere. Let me just say that when I was referring to affordability I was strictly thinking of transactional sex. In a few words, Brazilian beautiful men give me more per dollar than their beautiful Colombian brothers.

On 1/11/2025 at 7:00 PM, Latbear4blk said:

I find my relationships with Brazilian GPs more satisfying (and affordable) than the ones with our Colombian (little) brothers.

Your opinion

 

 

10 hours ago, floridarob said:

They are pretty similar in the end

My opinion 🤷‍♂️

I didn't say you were wrong.

As Tomcal would frequently say in the end.... your mileage may very 😉

One thing I do favor hiring from apps/sites which has some negative points to doing that vs the saunas....running into the GP at the sauna making out with another client, thinking...how can be be sticking his tongue down his throat....then an hour later seeing him with another client, realizing "I'm not as special to him as I thought" 😆

Both places have pros/cons

 

14 hours ago, maump said:

my biggest complaint about Colombia is expensive hotel/airbnb for not great quality (at least  in Medellin)

And this I took this into account when replying....👍

 

5 hours ago, floridarob said:

Your opinion

 

 

My opinion 🤷‍♂️

I didn't say you were wrong.

As Tomcal would frequently say in the end.... your mileage may very 😉

One thing I do favor hiring from apps/sites which has some negative points to doing that vs the saunas....running into the GP at the sauna making out with another client, thinking...how can be be sticking his tongue down his throat....then an hour later seeing him with another client, realizing "I'm not as special to him as I thought" 😆

Both places have pros/cons

 

And this I took this into account when replying....👍

 

LOL. I was not arguing. I was clearly sharing my personal view and rapport. 

It is actually something that puzzles me, why I do prefer Brazilians even when my communication with Colombians is better. I do not have an answer, sometimes I play with the idea than being a Correntino (from Corrientes, Argentina), I am closer to Gauchos and Cariocas than to Colombians, even when language can be an obstacle.

To make it more complicated, the last time I visited Bogotá, I ended with a Venezuelan boyfriend. It looks like non transactional relationships in Colombia are easier for me than in Brazil, but I am not looking for the complexities of that kind of relationships but rather the simplicity of a contract. 

5 hours ago, Latbear4blk said:

LOL. I was not arguing. I was clearly sharing my personal view and rapport. 

Is why I use so many emojis...texts, messages and posts can be taken in the wrong context at times. I once sent an email at work and got into trouble, because it was to an important guy. But I told my boss I had a winking emoji at the end....he said yeah, but I had already slapped him in the face , lol

 

 

5 hours ago, Latbear4blk said:

It is actually something that puzzles me, why I do prefer Brazilians even when my communication with Colombians is better

🍆

1 hour ago, floridarob said:

Is why I use so many emojis...texts, messages and posts can be taken in the wrong context at times. I once sent an email at work and got into trouble, because it was to an important guy. But I told my boss I had a winking emoji at the end....he said yeah, but I had already slapped him in the face , lol

 

 

🍆

May be. Anyway, I will be back to Colombia, just not this year. I also have to explore more Mexico. I only visited Bogotá, Medellín, and CMX and I think I must stop by Cali and Península de Yucatán before not even Viagra could help me.