Audacity to ask for money

[BjornAgain]

On 12/22/2024 at 8:50 PM, reader said:

Looks like they're preparing to make pole ring in big cock show.

Surely rubbing two 'sticks' together to make a fire.

[Rent Boy]

The title was a shock, until I realised this doesn't refer to the brilliant and still free Audacity software.

 

[sydneyboy1]

On 12/18/2024 at 4:21 PM, Olddaddy said:

Two WhatsApp messages in two days by two different boys that I saw in my October trip

One guy I had seen several times in my first 2 weeks of my 4 week trip then he ghosted me and was too busy ,he even cancelled a few appointments to turn up , Excuses were  "it's raining " etc or"  I'm too tired after working restaurant all day"  '

He wasn't a bar boy ,he is 38yo ex bar boy works in restaurant 

I took him to dance clubs , etc and even paid him for his time ,  then I thought I did something wrong ,he just started ignoring my messages 

So I didn't see him the entire last 2 weeks of my trip ,he just didn't answer my messages or response was a few days later with short replies "I'm busy" etc 

I even sent him a message saying I'm going back home in a few days if he wants to meet up ,his response was ,"I'm busy working long hours in restaurant but see you next year on your trip " 😲

Last night I get a ringing sound on my WhatsApp, Im thinking it's some scammer but I accept the call and go to video to see it's him !!!

Hello he said ,you remember me?

How are you ? I have no money 💲💲can you send me some I have no food 

"Really ? I said 

What happened to the long hours in the restaurant? I asked ❓

Oh I have fight with boss he says 

You didn't want to see me the last 2 weeks of my trip , you ghosted me , now you want to call me back in Australia asking for money !😳

Unbelievable ❗😯😳the audacity to ask for money after not wanting to know me the last 2 weeks of my trip !

 

Unbelievable? I have read countless stories online (and from acquaintances) who have met boys in Thailand, the Phillipines, Brazil, Morocco etc and exchange email addresses or phone numbers. Things start out ok then come the requests for money. Medical emergencies, educational expenses, poor parents, dying grandparents, the rice paddy up north has flooded. The list is by no means exhaustive. I have sympathy for Olddaddy but his situation is just a variation of a theme. 

[Olddaddy]

36 minutes ago, sydneyboy1 said:

Unbelievable? I have read countless stories online (and from acquaintances) who have met boys in Thailand, the Phillipines, Brazil, Morocco etc and exchange email addresses or phone numbers. Things start out ok then come the requests for money. Medical emergencies, educational expenses, poor parents, dying grandparents, the rice paddy up north has flooded. The list is by no means exhaustive. I have sympathy for Olddaddy but his situation is just a variation of a theme. 

No there is a difference 

The guy ghosted me 👻during my holiday time ,he was too busy 

If in fact he didn't, I would have sent him a Xmas gift of cash.

But he was too busy to meet me ,then waits until I get back to Australia to ask for $$

[Keithambrose]

1 hour ago, sydneyboy1 said:

Unbelievable? I have read countless stories online (and from acquaintances) who have met boys in Thailand, the Phillipines, Brazil, Morocco etc and exchange email addresses or phone numbers. Things start out ok then come the requests for money. Medical emergencies, educational expenses, poor parents, dying grandparents, the rice paddy up north has flooded. The list is by no means exhaustive. I have sympathy for Olddaddy but his situation is just a variation of a theme. 

Like the Diabelli variations  by Beethoven, of which there are 33!

[reader]

There's a lesson in these tales. When you meet a truly loyal guy return that loyalty. They met as many butterflies as we meet guys who ghost us.

[jason1975]

7 minutes ago, reader said:

There's a lesson in these tales. When you meet a truly loyal guy return that loyalty. They met as many butterflies as we meet guys who ghost us.

🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[vinapu]

4 hours ago, Keithambrose said:

Like the Diabelli variations  by Beethoven, of which there are 33!

I'm sure boys are more innovative

[vinapu]

1 hour ago, reader said:

There's a lesson in these tales. When you meet a truly loyal guy return that loyalty......

..... by patronizing him  when there, not by sending him money because he reports he is short of cash unless bond is very strong and one can trust boy that he is really both in need and desperate.

and then of course come situations than being generous is selfish i.e. we will feel good about ourselves that we could afford being generous. When I think about few cases when I sent money (plus bought one phone), including two cases  when boy did not ask, I just learned about his hardship , I invariably recall that I was kind of happy doing that and definitely not  upset with request. 

[ChristianPFC]

On 12/18/2024 at 12:21 PM, Olddaddy said:

So I didn't see him the entire last 2 weeks of my trip ,he just didn't answer my messages or response was a few days later with short replies "I'm busy" etc 

You're not the only one. Many times that I had a good encounter, and I think the boy as well, and I would go out of my way for a repeat but am met with at best indifference. And I don't know what went wrong!

Or I reach out to a boy several times and met with indifference and laziness. And then suddenly a message: "Christian, I miss you, I love you ... and I need money!" Well, sorry, ask whoever you spend all the weeks I tried to meet you with to help you with money.

I rarely send money any more, only cases where the boy has proved reliable and good in bed several times, of which there are only few (boys).

 

[ChristianPFC]

On 12/18/2024 at 5:56 PM, a-447 said:

Relocate to Tokyo.

It's got everything you could ever want in life.

Cold winters? Poor boy business when coming as a tourist? Language and cultural barrier?

You mentioned you grew up in Japan. I have never been and can only judge from what I read.

[Olddaddy]

47 minutes ago, ChristianPFC said:

Cold winters? Poor boy business when coming as a tourist? Language and cultural barrier?

You mentioned you grew up in Japan. I have never been and can only judge from what I read.

Christian ,when you going to hit the Philippines?🇵🇭🤔

[ChristianPFC]

Philippines are on my list of places to go, but not high.

I read and heard about poor safety. All the Pinoy boys I met so far were only average.