Bobcrankypants Posted February 18 Posted February 18 3 hours ago, Dannyxxx said: Hey guys. I‘m 38 and will be in Osaka/Tokyo in early March. I‘ve never been to Japan or used a service like the ones offered from the links you’ve kindly posted. I really want to try this and am wondering if there is a best choice for first timers such as myself. I‘m caucasian with zero Japanese language skills. Do any of the companies specialize in catering to foreigners? Thanks. I hope to report back on my experiences. All the ones I've used have been good with foreigners who don't speak Japanese. For your first time, it'd probably be easier for you to go with one of the ones with an English website with an English reservation form - they'll reply to you in English. As for the boys, I've just been using Google Translate to converse with them and it's been fine. Dannyxxx 1 Quote
joizy Posted February 20 Posted February 20 On 2/17/2025 at 11:11 PM, Dannyxxx said: Hey guys. I‘m 38 and will be in Osaka/Tokyo in early March. I‘ve never been to Japan or used a service like the ones offered from the links you’ve kindly posted. I really want to try this and am wondering if there is a best choice for first timers such as myself. I‘m caucasian with zero Japanese language skills. Do any of the companies specialize in catering to foreigners? Thanks. I hope to report back on my experiences. I really liked the Dojo-group in Kyoto. A few of the guys I hired are also available in Osaka. Don’t even bother with the form on the website. Just email them to set it up. Almost everyone in Japan speaks limited English. Some will say they don’t speak any, but in my experience, after I spoke a little Japanese to them, they suddenly could also speak some English. And there’s always Google translate. In Tokyo, I used Re:Born and Gym-K. I had amazing sex with guys from both agencies. I wasn’t happy with Tokyo Kids. If you like skinny twinks, you might enjoy it more than me. Have fun. I enjoyed myself so much, I’m planning on going back for two months. Dannyxxx 1 Quote
Taddtx Posted February 20 Posted February 20 A coupe of questions for people about the boys at the agencies 1. When a boy is listed as "straight", what are they usually willing to do? Just seems a little strange to me that aStr8 guy would be willing to kiss and suck. 2. Of the boys that list Uke, what percent really do it. If I select a boy that has just Uke listed and he won't do it, I would be disappointed in the arrangement. My trip is 3 months out, but I have been looking at the sites for my favorites. (thou I realize in 3 months boys will com and go). But think my best get is to pick one that does both Uke and Tachi. Would love to hear how other's experices have been. Feel free to DM me, if you don't want to post here Im going to Hiroshima, Osaka, Kyoto and Shinjuku. Quote
Dannyxxx Posted February 20 Posted February 20 Thanks for the useful tips guys. I think I’ll try to make 3-4 appointments during my 5 days in Osaka/Tokyo. Maybe 2 with twinks and 1 with this hot pornstar Masato from lang.dgdgdg.com . Tempted to do an overnight with him. I’ve always wanted to fool around with a hot straight guy just for a night. My trip is about 15 days away. Is it too early to make arrangements by email or should i lock everything down asap? Thanks guys, you’re a wealth of info! Quote
Bobcrankypants Posted February 20 Posted February 20 7 hours ago, Taddtx said: A coupe of questions for people about the boys at the agencies 1. When a boy is listed as "straight", what are they usually willing to do? Just seems a little strange to me that aStr8 guy would be willing to kiss and suck. 2. Of the boys that list Uke, what percent really do it. If I select a boy that has just Uke listed and he won't do it, I would be disappointed in the arrangement. My trip is 3 months out, but I have been looking at the sites for my favorites. (thou I realize in 3 months boys will com and go). But think my best get is to pick one that does both Uke and Tachi. Would love to hear how other's experices have been. Feel free to DM me, if you don't want to post here Im going to Hiroshima, Osaka, Kyoto and Shinjuku. 1. Yup, kiss and suck. They are gay4pay and just there to earn money but like most Japanese, they'll give it a good go because they're predisposed to providing good service but I find they aren't really good at doing either so I only go for a straight guy if he bottoms too, personally. 2. If ◎ or 〇, almost always. If △, depends on how big you are. I think all the sites have a disclaimer that the boy has a right to refuse if their butt isn't in good shape that day or if you're too big, but I've only been notified once (out of ~20-30 visits) and even then he did it.... Oh wait I just remembered there was one other time and that guy didn't do it. I was disappointed, yup, but we did other stuff. I believe both were △. Oh I like picking out my faves in advance too, lol. Certainly adds to the anticipation of the trip. Thumper 1 Quote
Bobcrankypants Posted February 20 Posted February 20 2 hours ago, Dannyxxx said: Thanks for the useful tips guys. I think I’ll try to make 3-4 appointments during my 5 days in Osaka/Tokyo. Maybe 2 with twinks and 1 with this hot pornstar Masato from lang.dgdgdg.com . Tempted to do an overnight with him. I’ve always wanted to fool around with a hot straight guy just for a night. My trip is about 15 days away. Is it too early to make arrangements by email or should i lock everything down asap? Thanks guys, you’re a wealth of info! Usually the guy's profile has his availability and I think they only release the following week's a few days prior but no harm in trying and they'll tell you if it's too early. Dannyxxx 1 Quote
vaughn Posted February 21 Posted February 21 When doing some research i found out dgdgdg in Osaka update their schedules for the next week at 6pm on Fridays, not sure if it's the same for all locations Quote
Gary Posted April 17 Posted April 17 Hi Guys, i will be visiting tokyo in 2 weeks. I never used this kind of service before. I am quite nervous actually. Have any of you guys have tried being a bottom before? i am curious as i thought that most of them are bottom. Is the private room in the shop ? wont it create a lot of sound when we are having sex? and do i need to clean up before meeting them? Quote
macaroni21 Posted April 17 Posted April 17 I am not speaking from all that much experience and I have never bottomed in a Japanese shop, so please do not take what I am about to say as the gospel truth, just as semi-educated gues: The agencies' websites typically display alongside photos (sometimes with faces blurred) what the boys will or will not do. I think you will find that the majority of them will top, and many will only top. The locations of shops' private rooms vary; sometimes a shop will have rooms in the same building, sometimes they rent rooms in nearby buildings. If in a room within the shop, you can assume the walls to be paper thin, Even in off-site rooms which are typically studio apartments in separate buildings, the walls can be thin. There was one time when I could hear the neighbour flush the toilet and run the shower. Muffled voices too. If you're the type who sing opera as you climax, consider wearing a mask when you're entering or leaving the building, so curious neighbours won't be able to see your face. Japanese places are very strict about the time. So if you have booked 60 minutes, it is 60 minutes from the moment the boy meets you. If you spend 10 minutes washing yourself, those 10 minutes would be counted within the session's overall duration. vinapu 1 Quote
PeterRS Posted April 17 Posted April 17 7 hours ago, Gary said: Hi Guys, i will be visiting tokyo in 2 weeks. I never used this kind of service before. I am quite nervous actually. It has been some years since I booked anyone from the escort services. Each time I was pleased with the service and happy that the boys looked even better than their photos on the company websites. Also, they did what they promised they would do. This is part of the extensive website of the Danshi Gaguen (but there are others listed elsewhere in various Japan pages in this forum). On the Boys list page, you will see that there are icons stating what each boy will do. For example, on this page from the Boy's list (there are many more boys to choose from), you can see that only Hibiki will top. The following will bottom for you - Hibiki, Haido, Hikari, Hibit, Natsu and Takuto. Some have reported that these icons are not always 100% reliable. So you should check with the mamasan/manager before you make a booking. Most in Tokyo and Osaka will speak some English. This particular site is very detailed about how to go about booking, the times each boy works etc. My Japanese is extremely limited but those I have booked have had either limited English or would understand hand signs. The important thing is to treat them with respect. I have only ever asked for boys to come to my hotel. Every time they will be exactly on time or a few minutes early. This particular establishment says they have 15 rooms each in Tokyo and Osaka. Do not worry about boys comng to the hotel. I do not know anyone who has ever had any problem with this. Japanese give particular attention to cleanliness. The boy will always shower with you beforehand, but if you have been out for a sweaty day of sightseeing I'd suggest you shower before he arrives - and brush your teeth! Enjoy! https://lang.dgdgdg.com vinapu and TMax 2 Quote
Bobcrankypants Posted April 17 Posted April 17 11 hours ago, Gary said: Hi Guys, i will be visiting tokyo in 2 weeks. I never used this kind of service before. I am quite nervous actually. Have any of you guys have tried being a bottom before? i am curious as i thought that most of them are bottom. Is the private room in the shop ? wont it create a lot of sound when we are having sex? and do i need to clean up before meeting them? I tried to bottom once but chickened out because I'm a wimp, lol. But in selecting a top, some sites have reviews on the guys' profiles, so I selected one that had reviews like "aggressive" and "manly" (my personal prefs for a top) and he was indeed that way. This site was the one I used - it has the most facetuned pics though, lol. Let's just say the guy that showed up was a realistic version of what his photo showed (but not so different that I was shocked or disappointed). The private room might or might not be at the shop. I've never had concern about sound because I usually go earlier on a weekday so most people are out at work and stuff. You can and should shower once you are in the room and it's fun coz you can do it together! And if you don't want to leave stuff on you, leave some time to shower or rinse after too. vinapu and TMax 2 Quote
a-447 Posted April 18 Posted April 18 7 hours ago, Bobcrankypants said: I tried to bottom once but chickened out because I'm a wimp, lol. Don't give up! You can't just put your legs up in the air and take a cock up your butt. It doesn't work that way because physiology is against you. You need to practise over and over again until your butt learns how to overcome the resistance to having something inserted. I took advice from a forum member and practised with a dildo, starting off with a small one and gradually increasing the size. My attitude was, if all those guys I've fucked over the years can take it and obviously really enjoy it, then why can't I? It took time but I finally got there. From my experience, most Japanese guys can bottom, as they equate being gay with being fucked. Those who will only top probably do not want to go through the hassle of preparation required to bottom. Thank God for the Thai bum hose! Quote
Keithambrose Posted April 18 Posted April 18 15 hours ago, PeterRS said: It has been some years since I booked anyone from the escort services. Each time I was pleased with the service and happy that the boys looked even better than their photos on the company websites. Also, they did what they promised they would do. This is part of the extensive website of the Danshi Gaguen (but there are others listed elsewhere in various Japan pages in this forum). On the Boys list page, you will see that there are icons stating what each boy will do. For example, on this page from the Boy's list (there are many more boys to choose from), you can see that only Hibiki will top. The following will bottom for you - Hibiki, Haido, Hikari, Hibit, Natsu and Takuto. Some have reported that these icons are not always 100% reliable. So you should check with the mamasan/manager before you make a booking. Most in Tokyo and Osaka will speak some English. This particular site is very detailed about how to go about booking, the times each boy works etc. My Japanese is extremely limited but those I have booked have had either limited English or would understand hand signs. The important thing is to treat them with respect. I have only ever asked for boys to come to my hotel. Every time they will be exactly on time or a few minutes early. This particular establishment says they have 15 rooms each in Tokyo and Osaka. Do not worry about boys comng to the hotel. I do not know anyone who has ever had any problem with this. Japanese give particular attention to cleanliness. The boy will always shower with you beforehand, but if you have been out for a sweaty day of sightseeing I'd suggest you shower before he arrives - and brush your teeth! Enjoy! https://lang.dgdgdg.com In my experience the boys make sure you brush your teeth and use mouthwash. Quote
PeterRS Posted April 18 Posted April 18 1 hour ago, Keithambrose said: In my experience the boys make sure you brush your teeth and use mouthwash. Two of mine kissed me before I had had time to brush my teeth! I suggest it is better to do so before they arrive and then to brush and rinse the mouth along with them after their arrival. Quote
Keithambrose Posted April 18 Posted April 18 13 hours ago, PeterRS said: Two of mine kissed me before I had had time to brush my teeth! I suggest it is better to do so before they arrive and then to brush and rinse the mouth along with them after their arrival. I always saw boys in their home base, so to speak, not in my hotel, so they made sure teeth and mouth wash were done while showering! Quote