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The whole month in Colombia

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6 hours ago, Birmingham boy said:

You get a strict NO from me🤣 lots of hot bottoms in Colombia tho 👌

I agree. To my taste. Mexican men lose against their Colombian cousins. By far.

However, we all have different preferences. If I were @Chompster, rather than relying on others' opinions, I would visit both countries and have a lot of sampling, to reach to my own conclusions.

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1 hour ago, 12is12 said:

interesting for 5 weeks. Good

Bogota was only 2 weeks out of 5 weeks trip but yeah lots to see in the city and around - the lagoon, the salt church, villages like Guatavita etc. I know it's not the most touristy place in Colombia, but considering it was a fuck trip around the big cities, I think Bogota was the best out of all of them. :)

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On 2/25/2025 at 5:47 PM, 12is12 said:

Aaroninatl, I dont want to depress you, but there's a very similar danger with for-pay guys: they demand more money than agreed upon.

And you mentioned a very useful red flag: after agreeing and before the actual meeting, check if he deleted the chat. If he did - ABORT!

Nah not depressing me.  I am far from new to this game. :) I've just never had a bad experience in a paid situation.  I'm really clear on my expectations and I also usually insist on a taken-today photo (I'll tell them to do something odd like touch their elbow or something that wouldn't be a normal photo pose).  That probably has weeded out the troublemakers.  Plus it lets me know their real look as opposed to that day they felt photogenic 2 or 3 years ago.

The other thing that I do is what I did way back in the AOL chat room or gay.com days when I dated... meet in public first. Feel them out.  Smile and see if they smile back.  A food court, restaurant, coffee shop. If they're unwilling, move on. Most are more the willing, especially if there's a free meal.  I think between those 2 steps, it's how I've avoided the bad experiences except for the one I told you all about.

Agreed on a deleted chat being a red flag.  I've never actually had that happen.  In fact, that troublemaker I mentioned never did so.  I showed it to the staff at the love motel when he was throwing his tantrum.  

My last tip is to do a deep dive on any social media they share.  I feel a lot more comfortable meeting someone who has real friends and a life.  An IG with one headless torso pic with 0 friends on may mean he's just DL. It's not a deal-killer but it's a bit of a warning sign that I need to make sure I do those other 2 things I mentioned.

As for the other poster who asked if I would send the photo, sorry, I'd rather not.  I'm just glad to be done with the experience and lessons were learned.  I wish I had employed my taken-today photo strategy with him... maybe he would have said no and I'd have never met him.  Not sure he would've said no though... the photo I have of him was taken at lunch that day and not in an undercover way.  He smiled/posed.

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