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Posted
2 hours ago, macaroni21 said:

Let me hazard a guess: the Pattaya city council or whatever they call themselves is obsessed with making their city a family friendly destination, and they are ultra sensitive to any marketing effort that still makes it look like sin city. Bangkok is more relaxed because the majority of tourists it gets are 'morally upright' visitors anyway, whose primary interests are temples, malls, food, chatuchak, malls, food....

Thanks for your reply regarding this need to maintain this  'artificial' image of Pattaya/Jomtien.

But this does not explain why Chiang Mai, Phuket, and small Hat Yai are all allowed to have similar marketing strategies and methodologies for massage services as found in Bangkok.

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On 12/21/2023 at 7:54 PM, Department_Of_Agriculture said:

Sunee Plaza began to die when the police finally began to get serious about cracking down on underaged boys in the bars and those who used to hang around that area, generally. No, not all the bars in Sunee offered underaged boys and not everyone who went there was into that sort of thing but Sunee was a hotbed of that kind of thing. Once the police started cracking down in earnest, the gaps started showing very quickly. As the lights went out for good in some bars and as many "Sunee fans" stopped coming, the place lost momentum. Good riddance. Sunee was a shit hole and far cry from what Boyztown or Soi Twilight were.

It is sad that on another forum, which now largely consists of the owner speaking to himself, that period is still described as the good old days, with a little nudge and wink.

Lol... great post, I agree 

A bit disturbing to see you have 6 down arrows though .

a lot of those (sick) "old" men back then that used to frequent that Sunee  area wernt what I would classify as "gay" 

they just pretended to be part of the gay community, of course nowadays most wouldn't accept them as such 

I was a little shocked to see your last paragraph mentioning another forum owner and his alleged comments,I always thought he ( if it's the one you allege) came across  to me as a man with integrity certainly not a person I liked but I always thought of him a person with high morals , I'm disappointed I was wrong , very sad to think ,just proves they hide their true nature , but yes that shocked me ,but it is what it is 

Also if I recall one former bar owner in that Sunee area f Liverpool UK , is still serving his 15 year jail sentence back  in the UK , probably would be in protection if he is still in there ,but I'm going back around 10 years so he may be out .

 

 

 

 

 

 

Posted
8 hours ago, Olddaddy said:

 

I was a little shocked to see your last paragraph mentioning another forum owner and his alleged comments,I always thought he ( if it's the one you allege) came across  to me as a man with integrity certainly not a person I liked but I always thought of him a person with high morals , I'm disappointed I was wrong , very sad to think ,just proves they hide their true nature , but yes that shocked me ,but it is what it is 

More bullshit!  Do you believe everything you read, especially from an unreliable source?

Posted
16 hours ago, Olddaddy said:

Lol... great post, I agree 

A bit disturbing to see you have 6 down arrows though .

a lot of those (sick) "old" men back then that used to frequent that Sunee  area wernt what I would classify as "gay" 

they just pretended to be part of the gay community, of course nowadays most wouldn't accept them as such 

I was a little shocked to see your last paragraph mentioning another forum owner and his alleged comments,I always thought he ( if it's the one you allege) came across  to me as a man with integrity certainly not a person I liked but I always thought of him a person with high morals , I'm disappointed I was wrong , very sad to think ,just proves they hide their true nature , but yes that shocked me ,but it is what it is 

Also if I recall one former bar owner in that Sunee area f Liverpool UK , is still serving his 15 year jail sentence back  in the UK , probably would be in protection if he is still in there ,but I'm going back around 10 years so he may be out .

 

 

 

 

 

 

Yeah, a lot of those sick old men probably weren’t gay. They just were straight men who enjoyed bottoming and giving blow jobs.

Posted
3 hours ago, Shonen said:

Yeah, a lot of those sick old men probably weren’t gay. They just were straight men who enjoyed bottoming and giving blow jobs.

Are you referring to the post I'm replying to ?

I referring to the pedophiles the post was mentioning ,I doubt they are accepted by the gay community anywhere in the world 🌎

 

 

Posted
On 1/27/2024 at 6:29 PM, reader said:

Granted many of those came that far down the soi were looking for Dream Boy ...The offs were legendary in numbers and you rarely heard a complaint about service.

Unfortunately I need very strongly to disagree with the last line even if I agree with your post .  My worst ever off in 30 odd trips was from Dreamboys ( in short he refused to undress and get if the phone for good 1/2 hr in the room before I kicked him out) and he still demanded full tip even calling mamasan to intervene.

Ever since ( Nov 2013 I think) when comes to offing guys I,m biggest homphobe of them all - he was fem gay

Posted
On 1/27/2024 at 7:22 PM, macaroni21 said:

 Bangkok is more relaxed because the majority of tourists it gets are 'morally upright' visitors anyway, whose primary interests are temples, malls, food, chatuchak, malls, food....

And girls

Posted
On 1/27/2024 at 3:43 AM, bkkmfj2648 said:

I comment about the massage scene in Pattaya (Jomtien).

As per the below Supertown Jomtien Complex webpage there are 10 massage shops noted by said web site administrator.  Of which 9 are gay - where the Thai Blind Massage I do not know if they are gay even though they reside within the walls of the complex.

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I lament about the Jomtien massage scene because it is so disorganized when compared to the super sophisticated way that the Bangkok massage places market their masseurs.  There is practically ZERO marketing for the Jomtien masseurs and near ZERO use of marketing technologies (i.e., Line, Twitter, webpages, etc.)  In Bangkok, there are Line sites for most of the massage shops with pictures of the masseurs with information about their preferences.  Then there is sometimes a booking system via Line or Twitter to obtain time with your favorite masseur.

Bangkok has a couple of EXCELLENT chat and review systems that are enabled in Line.  I joined 3 of them via Twitter, at:

  • B_u_X: Massage Addicted - Twitter ID = @Massageaddictt1 - if you agree with his terms of engagement you can become a member for a small fee of 300 baht per year.  Once you pay to his PromptPay, he will allow you to enter into his private Line Group where you will have access to the Chat, monthly .pdf masseur reviews, OpenChat, and promotional discounts and coupons.  Note that everything is in Thai - but I just use Google Translate and I do quite well communicating.  I find the monthly .pdf reviews VERY interesting (to translate these .pdf documents you need to use the Google Translate image translate function for each single page - cumbersome but FULL of very useful information - like how did the sex and/or happy ending go and the related rating of the masseur given by the designated rater).  His Line group (B_u_X Massage Addicted By Bung) has 2,459 members and the chat is VERY active and busy.  see sample screen shot below.

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  • Massage Insider - Twitter ID = @massageinside3 -  if you agree with his terms of engagement you can become a member for a small fee of 300 baht per year.  Once you pay to his Thai bank account, he will allow you to enter into his private Line Group where you will have access to the Chat, monthly (and sometimes weekly) masseur reviews (note that the reviews are written in Line in the Notes section in Thai - but you just click on the translate button in Line and you instantly see everything in English), OpenChat, and promotional discounts and coupons.  Note that everything is in Thai - but I just use Google Translate and I do quite well communicating. His Line group (M Community) has 2,690 members and the chat is VERY active and busy.  see sample screen shot below.

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  • Planet Worldz Massage - Twitter ID = @PlanetWorldX - his group is more expensive @500 baht for 1 year.  I have not yet joined - but I am very tempted as I like what his offering is:
  1.   Massage reviews in Line with the possibility of xxx photos from the actual massage that was reviewed,
  2.   Weekly updates in Line and also on Twitter,
  3.   Twitter access to thrilling clips with an emphasis on the xxx parts,
  4.    Line group chat access.

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I note that the emphasis on the above 3 groups are primarily focused on Bangkok, but with some emphasis on Chiang Mai, Phuket, Hat Yai, and even Japan (occasionally).  There was ZERO focus on Pattaya.

So, my question to all of you is - why is Pattaya SO difficult and disorganized for massages ?

I asked some of my Thai Jomtien based massage friends and they say that the local police in Jomtien/Pattaya have a FIRM control over them and that is why you don't see any of them having personal line profiles, booking systems, massage shop web pages, etc.

Is this true?

If so, why would the local police want to stranglehold the local massage industry in Pattaya/Jomtien when it has the potential to be vibrant like in Chiang Mai, Phuket, or even small Hat Yai - which has 3 massage shops down in the conservative southern part of Thailand??

Perplexed in Jomtien......

 

Besides these groups, are there any others?

Posted
25 minutes ago, bkkmfj2648 said:

Can anyone here substantiate and/or correct what I wrote ?

I find all of this fascinating - because these prior turf wars allow us to understand how things work or don't work now in 2025.

I'm sorry I cannot substantiate anything re Pattaya. But the demarcation lines between the army and the police have been around for many decades. When Thaksin became Prime Minister in 2001, he had at one time been a senior police officer. He was therefore heavily guarded by the police.

Years earlier I had hoped to do some business dealings with a well-known businessman named Sondhi Limthongkul. He was a Thai media mogul whose empire included The Manager monthly magazine in Thailand and the Asia-wide Manager Magazine run out of Hong Kong. At the time he propogated anti-army views in his publications. As a result he had a police bodyguard all the time. He told me about the distinct division between the two forces and neither liked the other. It appears that after bankruptcy during the 1997 Asian Economic Crisis, he eventually switched allegiances. Neither helped him when he was then jailed for fraud and insulting the monarchy!

Posted
57 minutes ago, macaroni21 said:

I don't know when Solid Bar closed. Was it around 2015?

Looking back via the Search Engine, I see a post made on December 29 2013 by @firecat69 referring to the recent closure of two bars - Solid and Heartbeat. So Solid probably must have closed its doors that summer and your estimates of the content of present day brown envelopes might be a little higher. 

Heartbeat was an unusual twink/femboy bar on the opposite side of Suriwong from Twilight and on the right side at the end of a one-way soi down Suriwong but before you got to Patpong 2. In the centre was a large dancing space. On the right side it had 4 or 5 semi-closed plush banquettes where the boys were always happy for a bit of gentle hanky panky. It was a lousy location unless you needed a place to park a car. I think it lasted little more than 18 months.

Posted

Oh, I just remembered. Among other fiefs given to the military was the right to operate a civilian airline. This was given to the Baron of the Royal Thai Air Force. Thai Airways was theirs until they ran it to the ground... I think the air force still has a stake in it, thus accounting for its continuing inefficiency as a business operation.

Then there was the question of the civilian radio and tv airwaves spectrum. I don't know about the current situation, but not too long ago, the military controlled the rights to the spectrum. All radio and tv broadcasters had to pay the military for use of their radio bands. Until Thaksin came along, I think.

 

Posted
11 hours ago, bkkmfj2648 said:

She told me that back in the day she had GREAT success with a popular bar (I do not remember its name) in Sunee Plaza.  She told me that she moved for a while to Boyztown - after the demise of Sunee Plaza due to the frequent police raids due to the problem of underage workers employed by some of the Sunee bars (never in her bar).  The police were aggressively targeting said bars as this issue had been exposed in the international press and was harming Thailand's reputation.

Well, this is an amusing post. Here we have a former Sunee bar owner saying exactly what I said in my 2023 post and yet for actually daring to say it out loud, I was rewarded with 6 red arrows from the Sunee fans. Hilarious.

As I said:

Sunee Plaza began to die when the police finally began to get serious about cracking down on underaged boys in the bars and those who used to hang around that area, generally. No, not all the bars in Sunee offered underaged boys and not everyone who went there was into that sort of thing but Sunee was a hotbed of that kind of thing. Once the police started cracking down in earnest, the gaps started showing very quickly.

Posted

Yes, in those days, there were two airlines. Thai International was the joint venture with SAS and only flew international routes. Thai Airways was the domestic carrier. I reckon SAS wouldn't have wanted to get involved in domestic routes within Thailand.

In those days, virtually all airlines outside of the USA were State-owned and operated. So Thailand's 50% stake in Thai International (or was it 51%?) and 100% stake in Thai Airways would be held by the government of Thailand. The government then passed it on to the Air Force as part of the Air Force's fief. I obviously don't have proof, but I heard from several sources that only ex-Air Force pilots would be considered for Thai International's cockpit positions (not so sure about Thai Airways).

I recently had the misfortune of flying Thai (economy) on an intra-SE Asia route. Just 2 - 3 hours. The seats were almost falling apart, with one of my armrests somewhat shaky at the hinge. Across the aisle, the seat wouldn't fully go back to the upright position to the annoyance of the passenger in the seat behind it. The movie options were hopelessly limited with mostly B-grade movies from 10 years ago. The music options even more pathetic, unless I am mistaken, there wasn't a classical music channel. The flight route app was not the kind where one could magnify, rotate the map etc through touching the screen. What you see was what you got. Period.

Don't even get me started on the meal options; mostly carbo (noodles or steamed rice) with a tiny portion of meat. If I remember correctly, the main course was in cardboard boxes.

Posted

in last 2 years ( 23-24 ) I flew Thai on 4 occasions  between BKK and Zurich , Frankfurt or Tokyo and was happy each time. I'd fly them more often as I like to enter country on it's national airline  but unfortunately their prices are not that competitive and my love of 200$ is bigger that of my love of Thai

Posted
4 hours ago, reader said:

You can find scores of members who look back with fondness on the old days in Bangkok, Phuket, Chiang Mai and Pattaya. 

and there are those who fondly dream about their next trip knowing that what is gone is gone. World is changing and so do we

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