Trip report Bangkok, Pattaya January 2023

[zoomomancs]

  On 1/15/2023 at 11:58 PM, vinapu said:

When dining with boy/s/  watch what they order as some tend to pick up most costly dishes  and what 's  worse , they don't even consume it all. I tend to be liberal but after few cases when bill was close to ST tip I tend to watch and ask how much it costs so they mitigate it a bit.

But I agree  dining there is fun, specially  waitress  Joy (that sizable one) who once proclaimed ' we are the same , you like boys and I like boys"

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I had the same experience there, made worse by arriving with lad 1, who ordered many dishes, while we were waiting for his friend, lad 2, to join us. Lad 2 was not really hungry. As well as 'face' (order expensive dishes), there can also be the assumption that we must be really wealthy. One reason I can be generous to the lads is by being careful in my usual expenditure so I dislike seeing my money wasted.

[Pyrrhus]

Day 3

Day 3 began with a morning session with my sexy Filipino J. After, we walked to Silom soi 26, but were too late forthe morning vendors and too early for the afternoon vendors. I thought we may end up at Unesco World Heritage, but J suggested we try Silom Edge fool court. There are about 12-15 options and we had a nice lunch there. Open 24 hours too, for that late night snack. After lunch we said goodbye as I had plans for the afternoon.

Went back to the hotel and showered, did some work, then walked over to Senso. Greeted by about 15 guys, each cuter than the next, but one guy, J, was wearing glasses and so cute, so he was my pick. Let's just say, I picked well. The massage started with my feet and legs, then back and shoulders. J was named from the beginning and feeling his body against mine was exceptional. When it came time to turn over, he asked what I like- I told him I am a top. He took a moment then went and got his supply pouch. He slapped a condom on me and lubed up and began to sit on my cock. It wasn't going well at first. I could tell he didn't bottom a lot. So, he pulled out some poppers and with a few whiffs of that he managed to get all the way down. We stayed in that position for a while as he got used to it but once he was comfortable, it was off to the races. His sexy abs and pecs were amazing to see and feel while we fucked. An absolute delight and highly recommended.  Tipped him, well, in the room then went down to pay. The ugly mamasan at the counter tried to quote me a higher price than on the menu. I refused and showed her the menu price. Shame on her- anf I remmerb that happening there once before. I do not mind paying a premium price for a premium service, but don't overcharge from the price list. 

Went back to hotel and showered. A quick pint with the boys of Hotmale Beer Bar, then off to Circus for dinner and part of the drag show. After, I bought some of the knock-off underwear on Silom and took it back to the hotel. I was feeling kind of tired, but decided to go out anyway. Ended up at Banana Room where I was seated next to a very drunk Chinese customer with a bottle of Bacardi (gross) and multiple shot glasses generally making a spectacle of himself by giving shots and tips to the staff. Not my style so I moved down and was seated in the front. There were a couple cuties, but I thought I might have an early night. Just then, an American from Texas came in and was seated right behind me. We started chatting and it turns out to be his first time night in Bangkok ever, and he was amazed. I explained how it all works, and he said "So they're all prostitutes" I replied "Well, that's a rather unartful word, but yes". I called down a cute guy that had been making eyes at me during the show to demonstrate to Texas how it works. Shortly, Texas left as his Grindr was blowing up, and I ended up offing the guy. We got back to my hotel, but I was really tired so I paid the tip to the boy, and asked him to leave. He apologized profusely, but I assured him he did nothing wrong- I was just totally zonked. So day three ended alone, but that was perfectly fine, as J had worn me out that afternoon. And, I had a date with P the next night anyway, so a good night sleep seemed like a good idea. I will explain P in the next post. More later...

[vinapu]

  On 1/16/2023 at 6:16 AM, zoomomancs said:

 One reason I can be generous to the lads is by being careful in my usual expenditure so I dislike seeing my money wasted.

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very well said

[vinapu]

  On 1/16/2023 at 8:07 AM, Pyrrhus said:

Day 3

I was feeling kind of tired, ....... I was just totally zonked. So day three ended alone, 

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I thought it's just me but it looks that curse of day 3 is more widespread.

Jet lag wise it's usually my worst day, and after that everything should go well.

Glad to hear that Senso offer expanded, there were only 4-6 guys when I was there shortly after re-opening . Trying to overcharge is just disgrace, thank you for the warning.

 

[gytis123]

  On 1/16/2023 at 12:57 PM, vinapu said:

I thought it's just me but it looks that curse of day 3 is more widespread.

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Strange.. I thought that you have to suffer for the first day after arrival, but it seems that you've to suffer even more after that? 

[floridarob]

  On 1/16/2023 at 8:07 AM, Pyrrhus said:

with a bottle of Bacardi (gross)

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he was gross or Bacardi is gross.....🤔

[vinapu]

  On 1/16/2023 at 2:25 PM, floridarob said:

he was gross or Bacardi is gross.....🤔

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nobody is asking me but I think second option

[vinapu]

  On 1/16/2023 at 1:35 PM, gytis123 said:

Strange.. I thought that you have to suffer for the first day after arrival, but it seems that you've to suffer even more after that? 

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I think on 1st and 2nd day we feel more excited and running on an adrenaline and then nature claims what is her own and chasing us to sleep. 

It's why at destination I have it on day 3 ( not only in Thailand)  but upon return home, right away

[gytis123]

  On 1/16/2023 at 6:45 PM, vinapu said:

I think on 1st and 2nd day we feel more excited and running on an adrenaline and then nature claims what is her own and chasing us to sleep. 

It's why at destination I have it on day 3 ( not only in Thailand)  but upon return home, right away

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Good point. Makes perfect sense

[fedssocr]

I think depending on my arrival time it's usually day 2 or 3 where the jetlag is worst.

Thanks for these great reports. I am about T-8 weeks from Bangkok.

Somebody needs to get over to Zoo Spa and Onsen to tell me if it's worth it. 🙂 The boys they post on Line every day are just about all perfect.

[vinapu]

  On 1/16/2023 at 9:14 PM, fedssocr said:

I think depending on my arrival time it's usually day 2 or 3 where the jetlag is worst.

 

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surprisingly perhaps I noticed that jet lags are milder if on longest leg nobody sits beside, looks that enough of elbow space helps too.

Late arrival should be mitigating factor too as being tired corresponds with nightfall even if our body thinks otherwise

[fedssocr]

I usually try to arrive late night like 11pm or midnight so I can go directly to bed. This upcoming trip I arrive at 6:30 AM. That is going to be a real test.

[vinapu]

  On 1/17/2023 at 4:18 AM, fedssocr said:

I usually try to arrive late night like 11pm or midnight so I can go directly to bed. 

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alone? that's outright sin.

I always  do at least round walk Suriwong , soi 6, Silom, Patpong 2, Suriwong , Thaniya, Silom by soi 4  just to get grasp of what is going on and sometimes like last Oct I get lucky 

[floridarob]

  On 1/17/2023 at 4:55 AM, vinapu said:

sometimes like last Oct I get lucky 

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Because that's when you met me?

[gytis123]

Also in my upcoming trip I'll arrive to Bangkok at 06:00 AM at that moment in my home country time will be 01:00 AM, so 5 hour difference. Idk, maybe it's not that big of a difference to experience worst jetlag but still I wonder how it will be. And check-in will be at 02:00 PM so Idk what to do in that time frame with my bags.

[Jimbillp]

Maybe you can arrange early check in but that’s very early.  Best option is to book a cheap room somewhere so you have easy access to shower/bed/storage.  

[fedssocr]

  On 1/17/2023 at 8:23 AM, gytis123 said:

Also in my upcoming trip I'll arrive to Bangkok at 06:00 AM at that moment in my home country time will be 01:00 AM, so 5 hour difference. Idk, maybe it's not that big of a difference to experience worst jetlag but still I wonder how it will be. And check-in will be at 02:00 PM so Idk what to do in that time frame with my bags.

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I've seldom had issues checking in early. It will take a while to get from the airport to the hotel at that time of day. If the hotel has rooms available they will probably check you in. But if you're concerned I would contact them directly to see what their policy is. They might charge a small amount to check in early. In any case probably 99.9% of hotels will be able to hold your bags for you until check in time.

[gytis123]

  On 1/17/2023 at 1:10 PM, fedssocr said:

In any case probably 99.9% of hotels will be able to hold your bags for you until check in time.

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It would be great if they at least can keep my bags and luggage until check in. In the mean time I can wander around and get to know the area or go to get some massage.

[spoon]

  On 1/17/2023 at 1:10 PM, fedssocr said:

hotels will be able to hold your bags for you until check in time

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Exactly, u could leave your luggage and go and have breakfast/coffee and maybe massage 

[vinapu]

  On 1/17/2023 at 7:04 AM, floridarob said:

Because that's when you met me?

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yes, and before that I met that guy in bar I mistook  for you but primary because after we parted ways  I took a walk i advised and met that Tawan hunk whom I took home to help me unpack luggage. Never mind that luggage did not arrive  until following day late afternoon and having nothing to do we went right to exercises.

[vinapu]

  On 1/17/2023 at 1:10 PM, fedssocr said:

I've seldom had issues checking in early. It will take a while to get from the airport to the hotel at that time of day. If the hotel has rooms available they will probably check you in. But if you're concerned I would contact them directly to see what their policy is. They might charge a small amount to check in early. In any case probably 99.9% of hotels will be able to hold your bags for you until check in time.

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Early checking may depend on property . Raya seems to be strict as few times they did not check me early when for sure they had free rooms - like in Dec 2021, no hotel was full. But you are right, contact property , some may be vary accommodating , others not so. Holding luggage is sure think though. My concern in early arrival is to have access to shower etc. Massage places with shower may not be opened that early.

to avoid what iffs  and unnecessary pleading  in case of  late night  / early morning arrival I ordered myself to have policy of booking cheap room for night before  in one of affordables in the area ( Pavillion, Wall Street, Nantra Silom, Pula Silom,  sometimes Tarntawan , Baan Silom or even Furama Silom have good deals ) and advise hotel I will be coming late.  That way for 30$  if not less I have piece of mind, access to shower and the sea and don't need to worry where to store luggage and brush the teeth.

In short exactly as jimbill advised above.

the same policy I employ when leaving late at night. For that and previous night I utilize one of cheapies so no need to worry about luggage and most important in BKK climate - no need to board a plane at say 1 am when my last shower was at noon .

[fedssocr]

Many hotels will also charge a reasonable amount for a late checkout so you don't have to move hotels. I've paid like $50 for a 9PM checkout  at some places.

[vinapu]

  On 1/17/2023 at 4:00 PM, fedssocr said:

Many hotels will also charge a reasonable amount for a late checkout so you don't have to move hotels. I've paid like $50 for a 9PM checkout  at some places.

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we are getting to slippery subject of what reasonable is, all that while waiting for day 4 of original subject of this thread

[Pyrrhus]

Days 4 and 5

Catching up now, as I was too busy being in Bangkok to write about being in Bangkok! So day 4 started alone at my hotel having asked Banana Room guy to leave. I got up and had coffee, then went for my usual foot rub with U. Every day, U asks "full body today?" and I reply "no- just foot". Well, today when he asked, i said- why not? So we went up seemingly endless stairs to a room for the massage. I showered and got on the table and U came in. He knows exactly how to trail his fingers in all the right places to create a very erotic experience. Mid massage he asks if he should take his clothes off- of course he should! So now we are both naked and he continues teasing me with his hands. As I said- he is not really my type, so I do not take things further. But I am very satisfied with the massage and a handy J. He even sneaks his finger down below which I do not usually care for, but he's so sensual, I actually liked it. Showered and tipped, then went down to Soi Convent for Papaya Salad.

I had a date set up with P for that afternoon. P is a Thai guy I met on a previous trip. He's smart, driven, and super sexy. Totally boyfriend material, if only we lived in the same hemisphere. I haven't seen him since BC, so it has been a while and I am excited to catch up. I took the BTS to meet him, and he spotted me on the street and gave me a big hug. He suggested we walk to a restaurant and go early since it will be crowded. The walk to the place was an adventure in itself. Not someplace a Farang would normally find, I think. It is called Phet Chao Phraya- right along the river in a residential area. P was right- it quickly filled with locals as we sat and had dinner. Issan style food with commensurate spice- absolutely delicious. After dinner we drop into Shenanigans for a drink as it is still early. The tension between us is almost too much to take, so we come back to the hotel and have amazing, mind-blowing sex. If there is a position known to gaydom we didn't try, I'd be shocked. He shoots with me deep inside him, and then we hit the shower. After, we went to Coco Walk for some more drinks and live music. We take the train back to Silom and say goodbye- I went to Hotmale Beer Bar for a last pint, and call it a night. P wore me out!

Started Day 5 with some work emails and then went to meet a grindr guy for coffee. Had a great hour long talk and we decide to meet up again soon. I go for another heavenly foot massage with U. While there, another guy working at the hop had a stroke of good luck and won big money in the Thai lottery. He screamed and started jumping ip and down! I felt it tacky to ask how much, but it was enough that he was shaking and crying while making phone calls to tell his friends/family. A truly awesome moment to see- I hope it was millions! After the massage I went for a Papaya salad at the traditionally-Thai named Happy Beer Garden, then went to the hotel to shower and get ready for the evening.

I made a plan with Texas from Day 3 to hit some of the bars. We started at Connections while I figured out what he wanted to see. He likes twinky guys, so we went over to Fresh Boys. After being seated I explained he could call a guy down and within minutes he has a little guy for Laos by his side. Texas wanted to see a show, so he tipped the boy and we went over to Dream Boys. The show was pretty good, except for the very untalented drag performer. She must be related to the owner, because man oh man is she terrible. Anyway, while we are there, Texas grindrs a nearby guy, so we go to Hotmale Beer bar so they can meet. I leave them there to make a connection, as third wheels are not the look. I decided to go over to Banana Room and see if the guy from the other night is there. He is, and so I off him for short time. We got back to the hotel, and I made sure he knew that the other night was just me being tired. Great sexy bottom boy- worthy of a repeat. After we showered, he left and I finally, exhausted, fall into bed. I am only in Bangkok one more day before I travel to Pattaya for the first time. More later...

 

[floridarob]

  On 1/18/2023 at 4:52 AM, Pyrrhus said:

He even sneaks his finger down below which I do not usually care for, but he's so sensual, I actually liked it.

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That's how it starts.....that's how I became a bottom 😆