Just curious as to why others made a decision to hire their first escort.

I was 28 and just started law school and was going with a straight friend to the straight strip clubs in NYC and decided I wanted to try the Gaiety. When I was approached between songs, a guy was very friendly and flirting and I had an ah ha moment. He was a male escort. I said OK and went with him. The rest is history.

You?

For me, it was seeing Rick Donovan's ad in the back of the BAR. When I realized that all that stood between me and him was $125, I did not hesitate.

Oz: Similar to you, my first hire was off the stage at Nob Hill theater. young twink dancer that made my head boil. And it took me two circulations of dancers to get up enough nerve to even talk to him... and then the rest is history.

Just curious as to why others made a decision to hire their first escort.

I was 28 and just started law school and was going with a straight friend to the straight strip clubs in NYC and decided I wanted to try the Gaiety. When I was approached between songs, a guy was very friendly and flirting and I had an ah ha moment. He was a male escort. I said OK and went with him. The rest is history.

You?

I was 35 years old, and had been quite sexually active for more than half my life. I had been feeling rather bored with cruising for some time, and frustrated because I was no longer getting the guys I wanted as easily as I had when I was younger. I had also just returned to New York from the emotional trauma of spending three weeks with my mother following my father's death. I picked up the Advocate's pink pages, which I had perused many times but never seriously considered using; however, this time I started looking at ads more intently, and saw one for an agency. I called, and found that the price was not as high as I had always feared. I was horny, and knew that I didn't want to head out to the bars for another night of possible frustration, in my already depressed state, so I put on my coat and headed for their "in call facility" in a nearby office building. And thus I started down the long and frequently trodden path.

I was at a local gay bar that had just 3 strippers in part of the bar on weekends. They rotated between local and out of town guys. One weekend they had an awesome guy that was a student from Indiana University visiting and stripping. We talked a great deal and became friendly on Friday night. On the next night, Saturday, we talked a lot and in the conversation he offered to come to my house for $100 when he got off and the stud said he bottomed. I nervously said ok. I was setting in a corner of the bar and he stopped by later and instead of chatting he backed up to me blocking anyone's view. He then unzipped me there in the bar, played with me until hard, pulled aside the back of his g-string and rubbed my cock up and down his crack and then said "I just wanted to make sure you didn't want to change your mind." DUH!!! Guy was HOT in bed and he said he never "escorted" but saw me everytime he came to town. He also danced at Madrigals in Chicago once a month and we also hooked up there in my Hotel a few times.

Shortly after that I saw Talvin DeMachio's website and told myself if I ever had the chance I'd hire him. He had a link to Tony Cummings (Atlanta) website and I was going there on business and ended up hiring Tony instead, so he was basicly my first offical "Escort" I guess. Tony was great and even took me to dinner at Mary Mac's Tearoom after our play time ended. Great first time experience with an escort. Talvin also had a link to the original "Hooboy" site and that's were I learned of it.

Also OZ, you might be interested, shortly after hiring Tony I was headed to NYC for a 4-5 days. I decided to to call a certain NYC Escort agency and hired 3 or 4 different guys for a few days of my stay. The guy I talked to on the phone was easy to deal with (cough, cough) and the escorts he helped me arrange were great, plus a few visits to the Gaeity on that trip and I was hooked from then on. Strangely on a trip to Montreal after that, when I first met Marc Anthony at the bar "Taboo", he introduced to another guy at his table and that guy immediately said "I know you!" I thought he was crazy but it seems he was the guy on the other end of the phone at the NYC escort agency.

Also OZ, you might be interested, shortly after hiring Tony I was headed to NYC for a 4-5 days. I decided to to call a certain NYC Escort agency and hired 3 or 4 different guys for a few days of my stay. The guy I talked to on the phone was easy to deal with (cough, cough) and the escorts he helped me arrange were great, plus a few visits to the Gaeity on that trip and I was hooked from then on. Strangely on a trip to Montreal after that, when I first met Marc Anthony at the bar "Taboo", he introduced to another guy at his table and that guy immediately said "I know you!" I thought he was crazy but it seems he was the guy on the other end of the phone at the NYC escort agency.

haha... the first actual hire I did off a website and not off a stage was from that very same agency and that very same voice! what a fucking hottie he sent me too!!!! many many many times again and again and again!

I saw this extremely hot dancer in a bar in either Miami or Fort Lauderdale and we chatted up while I tipped him. He was remarkably stunning to me. Then a few weeks later someone took me to the Gaiety in NYC and surprisingly he was dancing there that night. I had no idea. So we chatted in the side room and the rest was history. I could not resist his perfect body. O. M. G. I was 29 or 30 at the time.

My first time was with Ryaan Morgan in early 2006 so five years ago. Charlie said he got frustrated because he was not getting guys he wanted at age 35. I couldn't get any guys at all. Saw Ryaan's ad on gay.com and hired him through his manager. His car broke down on his way so his manager had to drive him to the hotel I'm staying at. It was my first kiss with a guy and I was too timid to try anything more than oral. I still remember our first time and it was great. Special too since it was my first time.

Also OZ, you might be interested, shortly after hiring Tony I was headed to NYC for a 4-5 days. I decided to to call a certain NYC Escort agency and hired 3 or 4 different guys for a few days of my stay. The guy I talked to on the phone was easy to deal with (cough, cough) and the escorts he helped me arrange were great, plus a few visits to the Gaeity on that trip and I was hooked from then on. Strangely on a trip to Montreal after that, when I first met Marc Anthony at the bar "Taboo", he introduced to another guy at his table and that guy immediately said "I know you!" I thought he was crazy but it seems he was the guy on the other end of the phone at the NYC escort agency.

I remember this guy. Big bearded Santa Clause type fellow that ran the agency. IMHO, it was the hottest gathering of twinks in NYC. I think his papa always told him do what you love and the twinks will follow.

haha... the first actual hire I did off a website and not off a stage was from that very same agency and that very same voice! what a fucking hottie he sent me too!!!! many many many times again and again and again!

LOL that voice must be easily recognized. I will say that it was a job I loved and I never had so much fun in all my life. The hours were hell but the boys were great and the parties were amazing. I do remember remember your hottie. Speaking of hotties from those days, remember "Ryan"?

LOL that voice must be easily recognized. I will say that it was a job I loved and I never had so much fun in all my life. The hours were hell but the boys were great and the parties were amazing. I do remember remember your hottie. Speaking of hotties from those days, remember "Ryan"?

Like it was yesterday.... I think he's still in NYC, but you would know better. Hope all is well with him. So many good, vivid memories. Life is truly like a box of chocolates!

Like it was yesterday.... I think he's still in NYC, but you would know better. Hope all is well with him. So many good, vivid memories. Life is truly like a box of chocolates!

He is! And, if you remember, he was my first hire with my boyfriend. We hired him in Vegas and fell in love and he moved to NYC with us. LOL It was you who recommended him to us.

And, here is a pic from the old days. It use to be an ad but it was a BF at the time with some flowers he bought me for my Birthday. (Actually, I think he gave me what was under the flowers as my desert)

I never fooled around with guys while I was teaching school in a highly conservative suburb of Los Angeles. Upon my retirement I happened upon Hooboy’s web site and reacted like a kid, turned lose, in a candy store. I spend my first summer of retirement researching exactly with whom I wanted to have my first guy on guy sexual experience. I wanted a guy with a great personality, a great body a great cock and, a great ass. I found Steven Kesslar, set up an appointment, flew to San Francisco and have never turned back. Nearly ten years later I’m still seeing Kesslar. In fact we leave, week after next, for a week together in Puerto Vallarta – life is good!!!!!

Your life is really great. Have fun in PV!

I never fooled around with guys while I was teaching school in a highly conservative suburb of Los Angeles. Upon my retirement I happened upon Hooboy’s web site and reacted like a kid, turned lose, in a candy store. I spend my first summer of retirement researching exactly with whom I wanted to have my first guy on guy sexual experience. I wanted a guy with a great personality, a great body a great cock and, a great ass. I found Steven Kesslar, set up an appointment, flew to San Francisco and have never turned back. Nearly ten years later I’m still seeing Kesslar. In fact we leave, week after next, for a week together in Puerto Vallarta – life is good!!!!!

Hey Epigonos, you certainly picked the right guy to start your hiring career. Steven is the best in every way. Know why you keep going back like I do. Enjoy PV.

My first hire was while I was working in Tampa at the age of 27. Responded to an ad-- without a picture no less--- in a back of a local rag. I lucked out. The guy was beautiful and we had a great time. I will say I was extremely nervous and thought the police were going to come through the door any second. I still remember his boxers... they looked something like this:

I loved them!

He is! And, if you remember, he was my first hire with my boyfriend. We hired him in Vegas and fell in love and he moved to NYC with us. LOL It was you who recommended him to us.

And, here is a pic from the old days. It use to be an ad but it was a BF at the time with some flowers he bought me for my Birthday. (Actually, I think he gave me what was under the flowers as my desert)

Glad to hear Ryan is well. I remember seeing him for a few hours in NYC and then met you and the bf at Stella's afterward. It was my first time to to Stella's and I've still never been hit on so many times in anyplace I've ever visited. I felt like they thought I was a human ATM machine or something. I remember Ryan and your BF wanted to go out Clubbing but you begged off. They invited me along and seemed to enjoy showing this Southern guy, NYC newby the NYC Club scene. I was afraid they might find younger company and abandon me but they both were great host, tour guides, and company that night never leaving me alone until they put me in a taxi back to my hotel sometime in the AM. Good memories.

What made me hire for the first time? Desire, what else? In my case it was a smiling young guy on the beach in Acapulco. Never having been through it before, I developed a crush. Reality set in when he came to me asking for emergency money to keep from losing his apartment. I went to the bank with him and made my first cash withdrawal on a credit card. $50. I didn't see him for days, then he finally reappeared, unchagrined at having blown my dough in Mexico City. I was expected to go along with the laugh, and I did, but he didn't get any more money. In the long run, it cost him more than me. After all, there were plenty of smiling beach boys.