Is it only when you go to Thailand or other Asian countries that you have sex with Asians? Or you have it at home as well?

 

I lately found a young Asian lad just turned to twenties and I never thought this would happen but I really love sharing time with him outside bed too. He even says that he loves me which is of course nice to hear. And no, I don't pay anything to him. As my age ~twice I don't expect everlasting love here but enjoyable moments as long as it then lasts.

 

But even if he turned out to be a bf, I would like to travel for sex. Why? Maybe it is a gay thing, or just me, but I think that it is just a good thing to have NSA sex with others at times. Of course the significant other should know this and accept. But I would not take kind of person who would not. And when it comes to NSA, I prefer paying although I could easily get it free here as well (I live near international airport and Asian crew contacts often for sex in Grindr). Reason is then it is just that: no strings attached and I can take boy as I like.

Is it only when you go to Thailand or other Asian countries that you have sex with Asians? Or you have it at home as well?

 

I lately found a young Asian lad just turned to twenties and I never thought this would happen but I really love sharing time with him outside bed too. He even says that he loves me which is of course nice to hear. And no, I don't pay anything to him. As my age ~twice I don't expect everlasting love here but enjoyable moments as long as it then lasts.

 

But even if he turned out to be a bf, I would like to travel for sex. Why? Maybe it is a gay thing, or just me, but I think that it is just a good thing to have NSA sex with others at times. Of course the significant other should know this and accept. But I would not take kind of person who would not. And when it comes to NSA, I prefer paying although I could easily get it free here as well (I live near international airport and Asian crew contacts often for sex in Grindr). Reason is then it is just that: no strings attached and I can take boy as I like.

 

I find it a nice inviting reason to visit Asia to have sex with Asians.  To go directly to the source

 

I remember when my main attraction was to Latinos (Hispanics).  There are many slim, attractive people from Mexico and South America in the south of the US.   At that time all I had heard about Asians was that they have small cocks.

 

Then in a bar I made acquaintance with an Asian guy from Laos, and something clicked in me. I found him gorgeous!  I don't care about cock size since I am not a bottom, and he was not even bad in that area.  I think I fell in love in a unique way.  But it was not going to happen.  After half a year of pseudo-boyfriendship it all ended when I got tired of his ways.  I also made acquaintance with his friends, and I came to the conclusion that most of these Asians are quite speculative.

 

I have good self control and I don't let myself be at the mercy of passions.  So this was it with Asians until about 10 years ago I made my first trip to Asia, and it was BKK.  And there I felt like in a candy store.  Many attractive guys who did not have an exorbitant opinion of themselves.  

 

Since then I am visiting Asia nearly exclusively,  Tokyo, Seoul, Taipei, Manila, Hong Kong, Singapore, Luala Lumpur, Bangkok.  I find my favorite flavor of gays in Singapore, well educated with a nice mixture of Asian ethnicity.  But not far behind are Asians from a variety of origins, including Thailand.

 

Like you, I have not been born with the genes of monogamy and I don't mind casual sex.  Often I feel some love beyond sex for the people I have sex with.  I make acquaintances from these encounters that continue remotely for some time, but then the distance draws us apart.  And I don't even have much interest in maintaining a relationship with occasional visits.  I enjoy my freedom and I have learned to love myself first without giving up sufficient love for others.

Just when I go to Asia, would love to find and Asian or some Asians here to have sex with in between trips but there doesn't seem to be too many on the gay web