fem boy cant get hard

[bedbugy]

hi my latest boy friend just loves to be fucked as many time as i can manage

i would love to give him a blow job but i cant get him hard even whilst fucking hes soft

question  would half a viagra do the trick

[Guest Steve1903]

Maybe I'm missing something but if he ain't getting hard does that not suggest he's not loving it as much as you imagine?

[abidismaili]

Maybe I'm missing something but if he ain't getting hard does that not suggest he's not loving it as much as you imagine?

 

I don't like being fucked too. What is there too like really? I never understood what pleasure a bottom gets. The few times I was bottom I did not like it, didn't feel any pleasure. However being top: that gives pleasure.

[Gaybutton]

The question was would half a Viagra do the trick?  I don't know.  And if you're not a doctor, neither do you.  If you're going to try to medicate him into an erection, which in my opinion is a wrong thing to do, then the least you could do is take him to a qualified doctor and have him examined to rule out a physical problem.  If nothing physical prevents him from getting an erection, ask the doctor what, if anything, can be done and would be the appropriate course of treatment for him, if he wants any treatment.  But don't start taking it upon yourself to start prescibing for him.

[Guest anonone]

Fem boys often take pretty strong hormones at some point in the exploration of their feminine side. The lack of erection can be an effect from past ingestion of those female hormones. Kamagra can be worth a try but would start with half a sachet. Can have some side effects (heart pounding, headaches).

 

Not having an erection while bottoming is not unusual and does not relate to any indication of enjoyment (or not). If he never gets an erection (masturbation? Non-bottoming activity?) then gay button has the right idea for a doctor visit...assuming the boy WANTS to get hard. Some fem boys are rather uninterested in that part of their sex life and are much more comfortable in a true feminine role.

[forky123]

Does he get erect normally but not hard whilst bottoming or does he never get hard no matter what? As is said above, not being hard while bottoming can be entirely normal. Bottoms get strong stimulation from the nerve endings in the anus and, depending on the position, from stimulation of the prostrate. Some bottoms maintain a strong erection throughout, others may be soft throughout, others still may maintain erections only in certain positions. Everyone is different.

 

I don't like being fucked too. What is there too like really? I never understood what pleasure a bottom gets. The few times I was bottom I did not like it, didn't feel any pleasure. However being top: that gives pleasure.

I guess you're lucky that so many people disagree with you or you wouldn't get to top. I'm vers/bottom. I get far more enjoyment bottoming than I ever get topping. The orgasm following protracted stimulation of the anus and prostrate can be hugely more intense than an orgasm from topping. However, I understand that some people prefer to top only. I often wonder why they would voluntarily miss so much of the fun, but since I love bottoming so much, I'm simply happy there are people who only want to top as it means I don't have to feel guilty when I only want to bottom and have all the fun to myself.

[forky123]

To the OP. With regards to tablets, your BF needs to make that decision and if he is on any other tablets he should probably speak to his Doctor first. Viagra has side effects and is a class of drug that affects the heart and circulation system it's a good idea to know why he has ED before fixing it with drugs.

[steveboy]

I understand that some people prefer to top only. I often wonder why they would voluntarily miss so much of the fun, but since I love bottoming so much, I'm simply happy there are people who only want to top as it means I don't have to feel guilty when I only want to bottom and have all the fun to myself.

 

It may not be a choice, but the result of experience.  The only time I was a bottom I hated it and never tried it again. So I must be missing a lot of pleasure, but I'm quite satisfied by climaxing as a top or by other means.

 

About the young gay who does not get hard, it is difficult to imagine that he never gets hard and masturbates himself, unless his libido is totally absent. In this case, the advise to consult with a doctor is wise. Or he is too shy to have sex with someone else, something more difficult to remedy. 

[forky123]

It may not be a choice, but the result of experience. The only time I was a bottom I hated it and never tried it again. So I must be missing a lot of pleasure, but I'm quite satisfied by climaxing as a top or by other means.

It's still a choice, thought one everyone is entitled to make for themselves. Trying it once and hating it though isn't giving it much of a chance, the bottoming experience varies massively depending on the skill, size and consideration of the top.

[williewillie]

Often when the fem lady boy has a Thai bf, the fem boy wears a small g-string with a pouch. The fem boy smokes and bottoms only.

Only passive and this allows the straight Thai guy to not be gay. They act like the fem boy doesn't have a penis. The fem boy doesn't get hard.

So, one can have sexual relationship with a fem boy and still be 'straight'.

The female hormones often twist the fem boy into a streaming banshe and these stormy relationships tend to burn up quickly.

I'm no expert but have observed these relationships over the years. It's akin to prison relationships, where females are absent and fem men

take their place and the action is all one way.

[a447a]

Bottoming is not for everyone, although I think you need to persevere, as it gets better the more experience you have.

 

My first few times were not particularly pleasurable, but I decided to hang in there, as I knew how much the guys I topped enjoyed it. I thought there had to be something in it, otherwise we would all be tops.

 

I only became a bottom last year and it has some added benefits, aside from feeling good. I can now off any hot guy I like in a gogo bar and it doesn't matter whether he is top or bottom - I'm assured of having a good time. I can often top and bottom in the one session. What's not to like?

 

I don't think it's unusual for a bottom not to get hard while being funked; usually I can't because I'm concentrating on bottoming. But not being able to get hard for other sexual fun would be a bit of a worry.

 

No offence, but maybe he's just not into you. (No pun intended)

[anddy]

a comment on the possible usefulness of Viagra/Kamagra: in and of itself it desn't give anyone an  erection. You ALWAYS need sexual arousal, then the pill will enable an erection for people who otherwise cannot for physical reasons (that's what it was invented for in the first place) or enhance "normal" erections and make it easier to get ans stay hard. But the important thing is, no arousal, no erection. So if that's his issue, pills won't help at all.

 

As for the bottoming discussion: it can be an acquired taste for sure ;-)

[bkkguy]

You ALWAYS need sexual arousal, then the pill will enable an erection for people who otherwise cannot for physical reasons (that's what it was invented for in the first place)

 

actually no - the first clinic trials for Viagra were for the treatment of high blood pressure and angina. even though it was not effective in treatment of either of these conditions many of the male participants in the original trial wanted to continue taking the drug because of an observed "side-effect" which prompted Pfizer to switch the focus of their trials and viola Vitamin V was born

 

but yes you are right Viagra does not affect libido - not sexual arousal, no erection

 

bkkguy