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This cultural imperialism of the pornographic industry is a big road block in seducing straight boys. As soon as they know I am gay and like them, they think I want to fuck them (assumption from exposure to gay porn?), but I would be happy with a grope and a wank.

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  On 8/29/2015 at 4:09 AM, abidismaili said:

I can't get it into the plane.  Tried to take it with me once, but it was taken out. You can only have 100 ml max. Most lube bottles are over 100 ml.

 

I have just bought some Durex real feel condoms and the lube I got with it is Durex play (one of those silicon lubes) and that comes in a 50ml bottle, only 9 days to play time. 50 ml isn't much but for me it's enough to get started with the fun

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  On 10/12/2015 at 9:38 AM, TMax said:

I have just bought some Durex real feel condoms and the lube I got with it is Durex play (one of those silicon lubes) and that comes in a 50ml bottle, only 9 days to play time. 50 ml isn't much but for me it's enough to get started with the fun

Are those condoms really thin?

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  On 10/12/2015 at 3:20 PM, gaperking said:

Are those condoms really thin?

 

Yes, I pulled one out this morning to compare it to one I normally use in Bangkok and yes it was thinner and just as strong too as I gave it a bit of a test (once again compared to one I normally use).

Posted

I presume condom manufacturers carry out scientific tests on their products.

I'm just curious on the methodology of your own testing. Please share it with us. pics & diagrams would be appropriate :-)

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  On 10/12/2015 at 4:47 AM, ChristianPFC said:

This cultural imperialism of the pornographic industry is a big road block in seducing straight boys. As soon as they know I am gay and like them, they think I want to fuck them (assumption from exposure to gay porn?), but I would be happy with a grope and a wank.

Too much information. Spoiled my breakfast, thank you.

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  On 10/12/2015 at 4:47 AM, ChristianPFC said:

This cultural imperialism of the pornographic industry is a big road block in seducing straight boys. As soon as they know I am gay and like them, they think I want to fuck them (assumption from exposure to gay porn?), but I would be happy with a grope and a wank.

Since you are fluent in Thai language, it would seem easy to tell the boys you weren't into fucking them and just want

to grope and wank. Even farangs with no ability to speak Thai know how to use their hands and fingers and mouth to demonstrate

oral sex ( smoking) and chuck wow (masturbating or wanking) also very easy. A finger thrusting through other jointed

fingers clearly for fucking and pointing at yourself or the boy to show active and passive.

Now, whether the boy lives up to his agreements is another story.

Being fluent in Thai should make it a cake walk.

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  On 10/13/2015 at 4:19 AM, witty said:

I presume condom manufacturers carry out scientific tests on their products.

I'm just curious on the methodology of your own testing. Please share it with us. pics & diagrams would be appropriate :-)

So what's your point? At NO stage did I question their test methods nor did I question their products, I was just curious to see how a non latex condom stacked up against a latex condom and given that I will be using the non latex for the first time I just wanted to satisfy my own personal curiosity. You need to stop making things out of something that was nothing in the first place.
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I don't see how witty made something out of nothing. He never said or implied you, TMax, weren't aware of manufacturer's tests nor that you questioned their methods or products. But given that these tests and methods exist, he seemed just curious what your (arguably non-scientific ;-) )method was, without touching on your intentions at all. Your intention, as you say, was "personal curiosity", and so is witty's. This is how I read his post, and in fact the same question had occurred to me, as to how you did the testing, since I have never tried such testing myself. Just curious, nothing to it. 

 

On the topic of condoms: there is a Japanese brand available here in BKK called Okamoto, which makes very thin non-latex condoms too. One of their product's name is 003, which is apparently the thinness in mm and supposedly very thin relative to latex, though I don't know the thickness of latex in mm. They do feel very thin and different from latex, though.

Posted

I've always been top only. But when I couldn't get it up, the guy I was with insisted on topping me. The key is to get your prostate massaged. It feels great. But I only do it in missionary with a guy whose member is tight to his stomach. This way the prostate gets a massage

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  On 10/13/2015 at 9:15 AM, williewillie said:

Since you are fluent in Thai language, it would seem easy to tell the boys you weren't into fucking them and just want

to grope and wank. ...

Being fluent in Thai should make it a cake walk.

I wouldn't consider myself fluent, but I did tell some of the boys I am preying on, it doesn't help.

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  On 10/18/2015 at 10:36 AM, ChristianPFC said:

I am preying on the boys, and if I were religious I would be praying for success.

 

Here is a prayer for you, maybe it will bring success?

 

I cried out to him with my mouth;

his praise was on my tongue.

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  On 10/17/2015 at 11:41 AM, ChristianPFC said:

I wouldn't consider myself fluent, but I did tell some of the boys I am preying on, it doesn't help.

I have to agree. Even with perfect communication, some boys refuse to bottom after saying they would in the bar.

Some top boys can't get hard or stay hard and will offer to bottom.

You never know what will happen. You can cover all the bases, being versatile.

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  On 10/19/2015 at 3:08 AM, kokopelli said:

And I thought that I was going to hell!

 

Maybe what others consider hell would be a nice place for us to go, full of interesting and attractive people...

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  On 10/12/2015 at 4:47 AM, ChristianPFC said:

This cultural imperialism of the pornographic industry is a big road block in seducing straight boys. As soon as they know I am gay and like them, they think I want to fuck them (assumption from exposure to gay porn?), but I would be happy with a grope and a wank.

 

So it is us buttfucking gays that give a cock block to you getting into a guys pants that would normally have no interest in you anyway? You have some weird logic. Why are these straight guys watching gay porn in the first place? 

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  On 7/2/2016 at 12:15 PM, ryanasia said:

So it is us buttfucking gays that give a cock block to you getting into a guys pants that would normally have no interest in you anyway? You have some weird logic. Why are these straight guys watching gay porn in the first place? 

I'm with ChristianPFC on that one, very often when calling  over straight looking boy in bar or in massage buy feels compelled to declare right away "I top only" or ' me no bottom'.

Guest cdnmatt
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I don't personally like anal sex at all.  I'm definitely not a bottom, because that hurts.  If anything I'm a top, but I don't want to hurt someone I'm making love to, because sex is supposed to be pleasureful, not painful.  So I simply don't bother with anal sex at all.

 

I'm perfectly happy with blowjobs, 69, kissing, cuddling, etc.  I'm more into it for the intimacy than the orgasm, so this works just fine for me.

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