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Another example of farang behaving badly: Today at Jomtien Beach, an obese male/female couple seated near me started complaining very loudly when they were told the total they owed was 240 baht for their sun loungers (100 baht each), and their two bottles of water (20 baht each). The man started shouting very loudly that the water was very expensive - (at only 20 baht). Sure, you can buy water in 7-Eleven for 8-12 baht a bottle, but surely the vendors are justified in charging a few baht more for keeping it cold in their cooler, and then serving it to you, when you request it. Sometimes it is just shocking the way people act in a foreign country. And if they were that short of funds, they could have rented two deck chairs at 50 baht each, instead of the more expensive loungers - (or just stayed home instead of vacationing in Thailand, and then complaining loudly about such a trivial amount).

It also comes down to this: there is no call to poke fun at other people just because they used a word in a way you are not familiar with, especially when English is not their primary language. Period.

That's your interpretation. Here's what Wikipedia says: "A distinction between archaic and obsolete words and word senses is widely used by dictionaries. An archaic word or sense is one that still has some current use but whose use has dwindled to a few specialized contexts, outside which it connotes old-fashioned language. In contrast, an obsolete word or sense is one that is no longer used at all. A reader encounters them when reading texts that are centuries old. For example, the works of Shakespeare are old enough that some obsolete words or senses are encountered therein, for which glosses (annotations) are often provided in the margins."

I agree. And I certainly was not being critical of your English ability. If you read what I wrote, I was supporting your use of the word receipts. I said you were not incorrect. I only quoted another post showing the photo of receipts.

@Moses was not incorrect in using the word receipts. It is an older form of the word recipe. My grandmother used to refer to her "receipts" for cooking. "Most of us know the difference between a recipe and a receipt" - from the following reference....... https://www.merriam-webster.com/wordplay/recipe-vs-receipt-usage-word-history

Given the way Thai drivers often flee the scene when involved in a traffic accident, the songtaew driver was likely more concerned about the loss of his 10 baht fare than the welfare of the lost passenger. Hopefully the person was not seriously injured.

Is it guaranteed that a white striped songtaew will not divert from the Pattaya - Jomtien route? No, but jeez, for only 10 baht, the Pattaya songtaew system works pretty darned well. It seems like everyone gets to their destinations. As @ichigo said, just hop off if they take a detour, take another one for a measly 10 baht, and carry on with your day.

Hard to say exactly why your songtaew diverted from the normal route, but in this case, it was likely at the request of a passenger. If you speak to the driver about your destination, it is assumed you have charted the songtaew. Last time I checked, it was 200 baht for a charter. And the driver will still stop and accept other passengers to ride in your "private charter". That is where the info about the white stripe comes in useful. You do not want to ask the driver if he's going to Pattaya (or any destination). If you mention a destination, you will be likely charged 200 baht for your short trip.

I have lived in many different countries, and something I learned early on was to always carry your wallet in your front pocket. It would be very difficult for a kamoey (thief) to wrangle it out of your front pocket.

Update to Pattaya songtaews: I first learned of the white stripe mentioned in my post above more than 30 years ago. I was invited to ride in a songtaew cab, up front with the driver. That used to be common. I talked with the driver on the way to Jomtien, and he explained about the white band marking. I am currently in Pattaya. Today so far, I have taken three Pattaya songtaew rides. I noticed that some still have the marking on the lower body as I mentioned in the post above. But this being Thailand, there are now a couple variations. Many songtaews on the Pattaya - Jomtien route now display the wide white band on the top of the windshield front glass. I also saw a few today that have moved the stripe to the sloped metal roof, just above the cab. My guess is the newer trucks display it on the front for easier visibility, when the songtaew is headed toward you. And there are many with the white stripe on both the sides and the front. In any case, it is still prudent to look for the white stripe if you are south of the hanuman statue intersection in Jomtien, or north of the songtaew station at the corner of Pattaya Tai (South Road) and SaiSong (Second Road). Of course, any Pattaya songtaew is free to take you anywhere, with previous agreement. And yes, there are a few on the Jomtien - Pattaya route with no white stripe. There are a number of songtaew routes in Pattaya. Even armed with the above information, don't get upset if your songtaew makes an unexpected turn. Today on Dongtan Beach, I checked the menu, and asked for a kiwi fruit smoothie. "No have kiwi, but have mango" I was told. So I ordered the mango smoothie. In five minutes, the boy delivered a nice cold pineapple smoothie to me. Rather than get upset, I followed the Thai way, and enjoyed my pineapple smoothie. "Slow and easy" is the local way. Sabai - sabai.

If you use songtaews in Pattaya, something to know is that the trucks that ply the Pattaya - Jomtien route are marked with a distinctive wide white band, painted along the lower body. Boarding one of these songtaew in Jomtien ensures they will be headed to Pattaya, and not divert to other locations (unless privately hired). This is important - if say you are in front of Rompho Market, on Jomtein Second Road, south of the roundabout. Always make sure you board one with the white band to avoid frustration, and a ride to somewhere you didn't intend to go. See the photos below of the Pattaya songtaew with, and without the white stripe marking.

The land of Soi 4, along with Patpong Sois 1 and 2 is all owned by the Patpongpanich (Patpong) family. They are the descendants of Mr Patpongpanich, who originally developed the former banana plantation into the nightlife area we all know and love today. The Patpong family home is at the end of Soi 4, behind the metal gates, past Jupiter. Occasionally at night, when Soi 4 is loaded with customers, an expensive car will make its way through the crowd, and the gate at the end of Soi 4 opens to let it inside their compound. I think the last time I saw the car make its way through the crowded soi, it was a large BMW.

If the distance from the bar to your hotel involves a taxi, you should pay him the return taxi fare back to his bar. Occasionally a boy will transport you both to your hotel on his motor-bike. As they say in Thailand, same-same, but different.

What a poor choice of name for a hotel. The hotel is currently closed temporarily. Hopefully the owners will re-brand it under a different name before it opens for business again.

Google's AI definition of "confusingly elaborate writing style" is: "A confusingly elaborate writing style often uses excessively complex sentence structures, convoluted vocabulary, unnecessary jargon, and lengthy descriptions, making it difficult for the reader to follow the main point due to the overwhelming amount of detail and unnecessary complexity; examples can be found in certain academic texts, overly ornate literary works, or when a writer attempts to sound overly intellectual by using obscure language and convoluted phrasing."

From Jupiter, Silom soi 4:

Here's a Christmas photo that's not AI. This is from Moonlight bar.

That is the point. As stated in a previous post, the sois shown on the two maps above are both marked as Silom 7 Alley (Silom soi 7) on Google maps. The business provided an address that is not easy to understand, leading to the confusion of the location of the bar. The map I posted above shows the location of HIM.bkk, just off Thaniya Road.

Google maps is showing the location of HIM.bkk as being just off Thaniya Road, close to the Sala Daeng BTS station, on Silom Soi 7. The above map does indeed show the correct location of Silom Soi 7, near the Chong Nonsi BTS station, but this is Thailand, and things are not always simple or make sense. Consistent with the countless mysteries of Bangkok, there are two short sois on Google maps, both named Silom Soi 7, on opposite sides of Silom Road. In English, both sois are marked Silom 7 Alley. There are a number of Google reviews of HIM.bkk, dating from as far back as one year. There are photos and videos viewable on Google reviews. Looking at the videos and reviews, the bar looks like a Korean-themed hangout for young Thais.

Land Use Regulations is referring to the zoning laws assigned to different districts of Bangkok, as show in the land use map below. Phaya Thai district encompasses the area north of Victory Monument, to just south of Chatuchak, including the areas of Ari and Saphan Kwai. The Phaya Thai district is designated as a high density residential zone.

You can thank Deputy PM Anutin, who has urged hotels and the tourism industry to increase prices, and focus on selling Thailand as a premium brand. “We cannot let people come to Thailand and say because it’s cheap,” Deputy PM Anutin Charnvirakul said at an event at Bangkok’s main international airport to promote tourism." https://www.business-standard.com/article/international/sell-premium-thailand-against-discounts-wants-high-value-tourists-122070500055_1.html https://www.euronews.com/2022/07/05/us-thailand-tourism

Due to a chronic back issue, I do not get massages, for fear of worsening my condition. I don't want to become paralyzed from an accidental massage error. I also avoid chiropractors for this reason. Although I forgo massages, I occasionally patronize Thai male massage shops to off a boy, to go to my hotel room for sex. I found one superstar this way. I offed him from Classic House massage in Chiang Mai. I became a long term customer of his, seeing him for my entire visits to the Kingdom, and traveling with him over several visits to Thailand. After a few years, he moved to Bangkok, where he worked for several years as a masseur at VCK Cool Space, near Ari BTS station. Don't rule out massage shops, even if you don't want a massage. They are fertile hunting ground, with many willing and handsome young men. Many shops show their staff portfolio in daily Line app messages, or on the X.com website. After you pay the off fee to the shop the first time, if you want to see the boy again, if he is a freelancer - as many are, there is no further off fee, and no pesky mamasan, only your tip directly to him. Not all massage shops advertise off service, but many do.

That would explain Mr Su's plan of "fancy sex".

There were several web sites with forums years ago that were dedicated to gay Thailand, in addition to the excellent Dreaded Ned site. One popular forum was Gay Ting Tong, run by Oogleman. This may ring a bell: