TotallyOz

Can we just call you MR? That would stand for Mary Rose AKA Bette Midler in The Rose. I have been in love with Bette for years. However, I will call you anything you desire. GT

Stef just got some new photos made. He is hot! What rating of a pic would you like to see Cat? G, PG, R, or ?

haha. I toasted him repeatedly when I got my free drinks at Memories. However, I will make a toast to him tonight. Cat, I do have property in Louisianna. You are welcome to take a dip there when you get the urge for a swamp.

Hedda is full of wonderful ideas and opinions. I have really enjoyed having him post here. I wish him well at the Bath-Stop and hope that he is able to have the kind of experience that allows him to enjoy posting more often. I do hope that he continues to post here as well. However, if that is not the case, he always has a place to come back to. Regards, GT

The lady who does my flowers disappeared. I am lost without her and have yet to find someone else I like. Suggestions on florists? I am not sure riding your motorcycle across the Pacific is a good idea. I have heard that they are building a bridge from San Fran to Bangkok. I am sure that you will be able to take that when finished. It is done by the same company that built the new Airport.

Tonight I had my second date with the Alpha Male. We had a good time. I told him that I was having 5 farang friends over for swimming tomorrow. I told him that he was welcome to come but I would understand if he was not interested. He said, "You are kidding? My choice is either to hang out the bar and ask Farang for 20 baht or come to your place and swim and eat. Not a hard choice." Spoken like a true gentleman.

I guess I have always been attracted to the Alpha male. It is something I really enjoy. I don't like the younger feminine boys. I like a man: masculine, physically powerful, and sexy. I also like a guy who can take charge of situations. I was having drinks with a friend last night and we were discussing the Alpha males in Pattaya. He gave some good advice, which I really took to heart. I used some of his techniques on a guy I have wanted to have a short time with for a long time. We were never able to come to an agreement. Last night, I let him play the role of the Alpha male to the tee. He was the one in charge and I let him take the reins. When I did, he got what he wanted and in return I got what I wanted. Are there others who really like the Alpha males? What is your experience with them in Thailand?

>Well I'm getting ready to go to Montreal tomorrow, so that is >my excuse. I have been thinking about Montreal. Is that an excuse? I have been a bit under the weather here. Well, under the rain to be more exact. A few mighty rainstorms the past few days and the whole place is wet.

Jesse, Thank you for the clarification. However, even though you present a public persona, you should not feel you must reply to all aspects of your private life. Part of the course of being a well-known escort is that people talk about you all the time. That is not a bad thing. You will however get some detractors and for them, you just smile and move on. I respect the fact that when you tested positive that you posted that information so clients would know and you put that information on your website. That takes guts and a big set of balls to disclose information that could potentially cause you to loose your source of income. It is people like you that pave the way for others to talk more openly about HIV. Whether or not you chose to do porn or to bareback in your private or professional life is up to you and not a decision that should be made by your adoring pubic. You are the only one that can make decisions regarding the directions you take. I do believe that 2 consenting adults should be able to do anything legal they desire. I have always said this and I am a firm believer in adults having the ability to make their own choices with their body and their life. That being said, the fact that you not only disclose this information to your prospective clients and former clients speaks volumes about you as a person. I had a long-time boyfriend for many years that is HIV. He was HIV when I met him 12 years ago and we were together for over 4 years. I did not know anything about HIV or AIDS when I met him and he taught me a great deal about HIV and people’s reactions to it. When I first found out his status, I went into a deep depression and it took a while for me to dig my way up. I am still negative; but the knowledge I gained from him is what has keep me that way. Like you, he wanted to protect me from the virus. He helped me to understand many things about people living with HIV. It is people like you who will help countless others that come in contact with you. I am twice your age. But, the wisdom you show and the discussion you advance make it easier for others to be more honest with sexual partners. I wish I had the balls to stand up for my reputation and myself when I was your age. Again, thanks for the posting and the dialogue. Oz

>> It looks like your site is up >>and running and doing OK. > >Thanks, Oz, and we wish you the best too! > >Hitting the Alexa top 100,000 before even opening for business >was quite a surprise. But we like it. ;-) Lesson 1: Don't rely on Alexa rankings, It is of no value. It is a determination of only people who use the Alexa toolbar. It excludes all Mac users. Example, if I, only one person, put the toolbar on my IE window and I go to the site 150 times a day to check things, Alexa registers that and I can easily move up in the rankings very fast. Alexa is often something used by marketers to show their site is of more value that it is actually worth. Those of us who have been in the business for a long time don't rely on it. Just a suggestion.

>They could have kept the business going by signing the ISP >contract. They chose to kill it instead. Deej, either you are tremendously naive or you have been egregiously misled. In either case, I wish you the best on your new business enterprise. It looks like your site is up and running and doing OK.

Even been to Ipanema Beach?

Happy Endings = often equal a smile at the end of a session brought on by a sexual act, often masterbation or as they say in Thailand Jack WOW. I have always enjoyed B and N Massage. Their address is on our database here. They have a full house of great guys and I have always found someone I liked there. Thanks for the other suggestions,. I have not been to those places and will give them a try.

Thank you for the excellent report on Chiang Mai. I also think that PJ'S Place is simply amazing. The staff are great and the complex was built with high standards. Peter also cooks a mean breakfast. Thanks for the great report!

>I’m sorry, I’m feeling a bit feklempt right now. Until later, >the new me, for you all……. > >http://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y273/chgo/hairspray-3.jpg LOL I love the new dress. So colorful and vivid. As always, the mouth open wide for one reason or another.

I think this is an interesting topic. I would like to know more. Where can I find those South American gang bangers?

I am too Gaybutton. The site only works for me with Proxy. I am happy that Spike was able to get the site back live. I hope all is well with him and that whatever happened is now resolved. Best of luck Sawatdee!

>Finally, lest there be any confusion, I sincerely wish success >in the new venture to daddy and to you if you are a player in >the venture. However, when people speak of the Temple Whores >they invite closer inspection of the Temple Virgins. TY, I think you summed up my feelings better than I could have done. Thank you. If anyone cannot put 2 and 2 together to get 4 after reading your post, they will never be able to figure it out. Lucky wrote in another thread: Just today a poster dredged up the old Hooboy/Foxy issues and in the process baited the moderator of another site, who, of course, immediately took the bait. Yet I have no doubt that this poster also wants to see a message center that doesn't dwell on the past or disparage others. Just because we get caught up in that doesn't mean we wouldn't like to see it end. I don't know if I was baited into my initial post or not. However, Lucky is right in that I would like to leave the past in the past. That being said, I will try my hardest not to bring up many of the issues raised in this thread. Some things needed to be said and they have been said in this thread. For those not in the know, I don't know how to make things clearer so it is best I just learn to keep some things to myself. I am not sure if Deej baited me or I baited him. In either case, we both should have just kept swimming.

"Gee, Pattaya's Barbara Hutton got stiffed of a couple hundred baht and gets his pink knickers all in a twist." First, how did you know my knickers were pink? Do I know you? "But you can't pick and choose the principles you want upheld;" Of course I can. "The harem of five, the expensive toys, allowing your bf to off three of his friends from the same bar in one night," Five is not the actual number. And, I did allow my bf to off three of his friends. He had fun and then they all came back to my place and laughed at my pink knickers. "you have established yourself as someone who revels in access" Actually, I hate anyone having access to me. Perhaps you meant excess? "It wasn't too long ago that you took off in a huff, all disenchanted with Shitsville and swearing never to come back." You must have been smoking something when you read my post dear. I never said I would never come back. I think I said, a few days, weeks or months. It must be that memory thing getting to you again. "Don't you think your boys talk about you - the tricks they've played on you? " hehe. I hope so. Would it be any fun for them if they didn't? I do appreciate your interest in me. Really, I do. Perhaps since I bring you so much entertainment, you could buy me a cheeseburger at Niddys? That is about the closest access I give at the moment. I hope the meal would not be to excesive for you.

LOL. I don't choke. I lost my gag reflex years ago. I can't remember the name of my date last night. I should have known you would know both names and numbers. If only I had your memory skills.

That has happened to me on several occassions. However, we had spent 600 bath on drinks in the bar and it was not the drink charge. It was the greed charge.

I received the following letter to a personal e-mail account. As I did not recognize the sender, I thougth it must have been meant for the public as it was not a private message. ------------------------------------------- As Deej suggested on Hoo’s site, I googled Hooboy. It was said that Oz had a link to MER as a paid advertisement. When I went there, I found there was not any ad but I did find the site called Hooboy. I clicked the link and guess where it took me? To a site called Hooboy.com the Male Escort Review with only links to this site. I find it repulsive that Hooboy.com is linked to your site and that there are those that violate standards of common decency. I am not sure if you own the site now or if is just renting it as you tried to do with m4m. The fact remains that Daddy is the one who is left with the Hooboy brand and legacy. He is the one carrying the touch that will keep the name going. This pathetic attempt to infringe upon that brand is despicable. Signed, (name withheld) Dear NoName, Thanks for the letter. I do appreciate it. Often in life people have brain farts and that is easily an excuse for one to not know the difference between his ass and a hole in the ground. It is sometimes required that others point out this difference for them as it is obvious to others. Yes, we own the name hooboy.com. Yes, we have had google keywords on most escort related domain names. Frankly, I did not even think about the domain name for hooboy.com until Deej pointed it out to me. It never crossed my mind. When we placed the ads on google for MER, we asked google to select all relevant keywords. They did and we approved them. Hooboy was only one of several hundred that we used. When Deej pointed out to me that this was a popular keyword, I did some research and found out that he was right. I then bought the domain name from the previous owner. I want to thank Deej for pointing this out to me. I know he wants us to succeed and we appreciate any help and advice that any one has. As far as the name hooboy is concerned, it does not belong to Daddy. It does not belong to me. It belongs to the public. HooBoy did not 'will' to Daddy his name or its use or even bestow an unofficial blessing on Daddy for the name or the site. HooBoy's family did NOT license or sell or bless the site and/or name over to Daddy. Else, could anyone believe that Daddy would NOT be using it and enforcing exclusivity? Those who knew HooBoy KNOW WELL that his intent was to share the site with, and ultimately pass the site on to Foxy. That did not happen. Put bluntly, nobody owns the HooBoy name or legacy. Daddy worked for over a year publishing reviews on the HooBoy site. He earned the copyright to those reviews. He has the right to take them wherever he desires. He did not earn the HooBoy name or site or the message center or the archived reviews. If you feel otherwise then direct your outrage to Hooboy's Family. They chose not to recognize any such claim. He did not acquire the name or site or the use rights from the Family/Estate. Most importantly, HooBoy made contrary intentions known when he was alive. I like that Deej stated that sites should create their own site and build their own brand. I wish all would do this. Perhaps Deej should look very close to home before pointing any fingers. As the saying goes, people who live in glass houses should not throw stones. Noname, it seems that your outrage and repulsion is less directed at your 'presumed' rape of HooBoy's name and legacy than it is directed to competition to the unauthorized defacto status quo. The status quo resulting from the impasse between HooBoy’s family and Daddy, regarding the disposition of the legacy, brought on by HooBoy’s untimely passing. If your concern is really HooBoy's legacy then your outrage should be directed at that impasse and the subsequent actions by those involved. Anyway, NoName, I appreciate your letter and hope this helps you to understand things a bit better. Oz

ROFL Well, I guess we learned a great deal about Freud and LMTU in that one statemenet didn't we? Personally, if I would looking at sitting on the tools, I would check out Crazy Dragon. There is a sexy guy in there with one that should be registered as armed and dangerous.

>It's been said in many ways... but regrets are more often for >things NOT done, than things done. Thanks for reminding us of >that. I totally agree. As you know me very well, you know I do tend to jump into things fast and without too much thinking. Here I was with a beautiful Laotian boy that I adore. He is amazing sex and a great companion and speaks perfect English. He is a real catch. But, when I saw what was walking down the street I knew I could not wait as I knew that if I did, I may not ever see him again. That I would have regretted. I don't know how things will end up. He is still with me today. Luckily, the Laotian boy did not get upset. On the contrary, he told the boy what a great guy I was and that he should take good care of me and the treatment would be returned 10fold. I am not sure how well he took the Laotian boy's advice as he is not taking great care of me. But, damm, when the TV is on and he is watching it. I am watching him. No regrets on my part. As for Vincent, I hear that Barcelona has many boy named Vincent. If you are not stuck on the French Canadian name, perhaps a Vincent of another culture will also peak your interest.

I've been to Niddy's. I liked Niddy. I didn't care for the cheeseburger. But, I am not sure if it was the taste or the pissy nature of waiting so long for it. I did test the place early on and need to give it another try. I think Chris takes the LMTU approach to advertising. Just keep em talking and the business will flow. jk Chris. I do think you have a nice place and I enjoyed meeting you and your boyfriend. I do not mind at all your posts here. But, you do bring the criticism on yourself by your declarations. I know as GayThailand is the ONLY source for Gay Thailand information. Or, so we say. We are not the only source and you don't have the best cheeseburger. But, to each his own. For me, the best cheeseburger in Pattaya is made in my backyard. It is not up for sale so you will have to take me at my word. But, remember, I also like em big and tasty right off the grill. I also like my boys big and tasty and right off the farm. jk