TotallyOz

According to the NY Times, Rosie is the new Alpha on "The View.'" I knew I loved that show for some reason. http://www.nytimes.com/2006/09/06/arts/tel...=rssnyt&emc=rss

Congrats on a wonderful 50th Birthday celebration! It sounds to me like you really did live things up the way you wanted. Kudos to you! Oz

As we have discussed in the past, when a thread comes along that makes a moderator question if it should be on the site or not, we move it to another forum for discussion. After discussion, we decide if we want to delete the thread, keep it inactive or move it back to the original forum. This is not done too often. However, when it is done, if that member then posts the exact same thread knowing that it was removed by the moderators, that thread will also be deleted and that member inactivated. I would like to plead ignorance. However, it is not playing. I am so lost as to the back-handed attacks that are disguised so well that I don't pick up on them. I do not know all the history of the people of this board, or of Hoo's old site, or of Escort Speak. I did not spend that much time trying to figure out each agenda or the politics behind them. So, I guess I am not the best person to ask for more detailed reasons. I do know what I want the forums to be like. I know because TY spent a great deal of time on the Message Center Policy and his intent is to make a board that is similar to a bar atmosphere. I refer you back to this and I also put on notice anyone not wishing to play by the rules can kindly exit the arena. Thanks. Oz

I am not really sure how to keep one or how to keep any one for that matter. All I can do is be nice, honest and fair. My Alpha has spent the last few days with me. He is a real pleasure and comes to me with a few surprises. I had a very small dinner last with with 7 other Farangs. I also invited 8 Thai boys to the BBQ. When the Farangs left, I told the boy I would send them all bowling. The one who stayed behind was the Alpha. He helped clean up the place and wanted to play a little bit. It is interesting to see him transform in my eyes. What I saw as a very tough street guy is becoming more and more like someone I can spend vast amounts of time with. Only time will tell if our journey will continue in the future and I am really OK with either way it turns out. For now, I am just enjoying the adventure.

I had seen a TV interview for a Wash/Dry Cleaner that has new facilities and will pick up and deliver. I have been looking for them to no avail. Sound familiar?

Can we just call you MR? That would stand for Mary Rose AKA Bette Midler in The Rose. I have been in love with Bette for years. However, I will call you anything you desire. GT

Stef just got some new photos made. He is hot! What rating of a pic would you like to see Cat? G, PG, R, or ?

haha. I toasted him repeatedly when I got my free drinks at Memories. However, I will make a toast to him tonight. Cat, I do have property in Louisianna. You are welcome to take a dip there when you get the urge for a swamp.

Hedda is full of wonderful ideas and opinions. I have really enjoyed having him post here. I wish him well at the Bath-Stop and hope that he is able to have the kind of experience that allows him to enjoy posting more often. I do hope that he continues to post here as well. However, if that is not the case, he always has a place to come back to. Regards, GT

The lady who does my flowers disappeared. I am lost without her and have yet to find someone else I like. Suggestions on florists? I am not sure riding your motorcycle across the Pacific is a good idea. I have heard that they are building a bridge from San Fran to Bangkok. I am sure that you will be able to take that when finished. It is done by the same company that built the new Airport.

Tonight I had my second date with the Alpha Male. We had a good time. I told him that I was having 5 farang friends over for swimming tomorrow. I told him that he was welcome to come but I would understand if he was not interested. He said, "You are kidding? My choice is either to hang out the bar and ask Farang for 20 baht or come to your place and swim and eat. Not a hard choice." Spoken like a true gentleman.

I guess I have always been attracted to the Alpha male. It is something I really enjoy. I don't like the younger feminine boys. I like a man: masculine, physically powerful, and sexy. I also like a guy who can take charge of situations. I was having drinks with a friend last night and we were discussing the Alpha males in Pattaya. He gave some good advice, which I really took to heart. I used some of his techniques on a guy I have wanted to have a short time with for a long time. We were never able to come to an agreement. Last night, I let him play the role of the Alpha male to the tee. He was the one in charge and I let him take the reins. When I did, he got what he wanted and in return I got what I wanted. Are there others who really like the Alpha males? What is your experience with them in Thailand?

>Well I'm getting ready to go to Montreal tomorrow, so that is >my excuse. I have been thinking about Montreal. Is that an excuse? I have been a bit under the weather here. Well, under the rain to be more exact. A few mighty rainstorms the past few days and the whole place is wet.

Jesse, Thank you for the clarification. However, even though you present a public persona, you should not feel you must reply to all aspects of your private life. Part of the course of being a well-known escort is that people talk about you all the time. That is not a bad thing. You will however get some detractors and for them, you just smile and move on. I respect the fact that when you tested positive that you posted that information so clients would know and you put that information on your website. That takes guts and a big set of balls to disclose information that could potentially cause you to loose your source of income. It is people like you that pave the way for others to talk more openly about HIV. Whether or not you chose to do porn or to bareback in your private or professional life is up to you and not a decision that should be made by your adoring pubic. You are the only one that can make decisions regarding the directions you take. I do believe that 2 consenting adults should be able to do anything legal they desire. I have always said this and I am a firm believer in adults having the ability to make their own choices with their body and their life. That being said, the fact that you not only disclose this information to your prospective clients and former clients speaks volumes about you as a person. I had a long-time boyfriend for many years that is HIV. He was HIV when I met him 12 years ago and we were together for over 4 years. I did not know anything about HIV or AIDS when I met him and he taught me a great deal about HIV and people’s reactions to it. When I first found out his status, I went into a deep depression and it took a while for me to dig my way up. I am still negative; but the knowledge I gained from him is what has keep me that way. Like you, he wanted to protect me from the virus. He helped me to understand many things about people living with HIV. It is people like you who will help countless others that come in contact with you. I am twice your age. But, the wisdom you show and the discussion you advance make it easier for others to be more honest with sexual partners. I wish I had the balls to stand up for my reputation and myself when I was your age. Again, thanks for the posting and the dialogue. Oz

>> It looks like your site is up >>and running and doing OK. > >Thanks, Oz, and we wish you the best too! > >Hitting the Alexa top 100,000 before even opening for business >was quite a surprise. But we like it. ;-) Lesson 1: Don't rely on Alexa rankings, It is of no value. It is a determination of only people who use the Alexa toolbar. It excludes all Mac users. Example, if I, only one person, put the toolbar on my IE window and I go to the site 150 times a day to check things, Alexa registers that and I can easily move up in the rankings very fast. Alexa is often something used by marketers to show their site is of more value that it is actually worth. Those of us who have been in the business for a long time don't rely on it. Just a suggestion.

>They could have kept the business going by signing the ISP >contract. They chose to kill it instead. Deej, either you are tremendously naive or you have been egregiously misled. In either case, I wish you the best on your new business enterprise. It looks like your site is up and running and doing OK.

Even been to Ipanema Beach?

Happy Endings = often equal a smile at the end of a session brought on by a sexual act, often masterbation or as they say in Thailand Jack WOW. I have always enjoyed B and N Massage. Their address is on our database here. They have a full house of great guys and I have always found someone I liked there. Thanks for the other suggestions,. I have not been to those places and will give them a try.

Thank you for the excellent report on Chiang Mai. I also think that PJ'S Place is simply amazing. The staff are great and the complex was built with high standards. Peter also cooks a mean breakfast. Thanks for the great report!

>I’m sorry, I’m feeling a bit feklempt right now. Until later, >the new me, for you all……. > >http://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y273/chgo/hairspray-3.jpg LOL I love the new dress. So colorful and vivid. As always, the mouth open wide for one reason or another.

I think this is an interesting topic. I would like to know more. Where can I find those South American gang bangers?

I am too Gaybutton. The site only works for me with Proxy. I am happy that Spike was able to get the site back live. I hope all is well with him and that whatever happened is now resolved. Best of luck Sawatdee!

>Finally, lest there be any confusion, I sincerely wish success >in the new venture to daddy and to you if you are a player in >the venture. However, when people speak of the Temple Whores >they invite closer inspection of the Temple Virgins. TY, I think you summed up my feelings better than I could have done. Thank you. If anyone cannot put 2 and 2 together to get 4 after reading your post, they will never be able to figure it out. Lucky wrote in another thread: Just today a poster dredged up the old Hooboy/Foxy issues and in the process baited the moderator of another site, who, of course, immediately took the bait. Yet I have no doubt that this poster also wants to see a message center that doesn't dwell on the past or disparage others. Just because we get caught up in that doesn't mean we wouldn't like to see it end. I don't know if I was baited into my initial post or not. However, Lucky is right in that I would like to leave the past in the past. That being said, I will try my hardest not to bring up many of the issues raised in this thread. Some things needed to be said and they have been said in this thread. For those not in the know, I don't know how to make things clearer so it is best I just learn to keep some things to myself. I am not sure if Deej baited me or I baited him. In either case, we both should have just kept swimming.

"Gee, Pattaya's Barbara Hutton got stiffed of a couple hundred baht and gets his pink knickers all in a twist." First, how did you know my knickers were pink? Do I know you? "But you can't pick and choose the principles you want upheld;" Of course I can. "The harem of five, the expensive toys, allowing your bf to off three of his friends from the same bar in one night," Five is not the actual number. And, I did allow my bf to off three of his friends. He had fun and then they all came back to my place and laughed at my pink knickers. "you have established yourself as someone who revels in access" Actually, I hate anyone having access to me. Perhaps you meant excess? "It wasn't too long ago that you took off in a huff, all disenchanted with Shitsville and swearing never to come back." You must have been smoking something when you read my post dear. I never said I would never come back. I think I said, a few days, weeks or months. It must be that memory thing getting to you again. "Don't you think your boys talk about you - the tricks they've played on you? " hehe. I hope so. Would it be any fun for them if they didn't? I do appreciate your interest in me. Really, I do. Perhaps since I bring you so much entertainment, you could buy me a cheeseburger at Niddys? That is about the closest access I give at the moment. I hope the meal would not be to excesive for you.

LOL. I don't choke. I lost my gag reflex years ago. I can't remember the name of my date last night. I should have known you would know both names and numbers. If only I had your memory skills.