Arrowhead14

Hello! I’m in Seoul for 10 days for work and staying in Itaewon. From other gay guides, I found what seemed like guaranteed gay “massage” places (Spy, Prime, Superman), and they looked to have the hallmarks of what you would expect. I reached out on chat (Line or TG) and asked for photos and they obliged (headless torsos from the website, no face pics) and when I asked if they could tell me who was top/bottom/vers, I was told categorically that no sex was offered. Now I presume (hope) it’s because they’re being extra cautious…but want to make sure I’m not signing up for something that’s going to go nowhere. Does anyone have any recommendations for spots in Itaewon where foreigners can pay for sexy male company and get the whole deal or is Grindr/independent escort sites/websites the only option in this case? I like the massage or host bar experiences in general, so really looking for that, but if it’s not going to be possible, then will go with online bookings. Any advice welcome! Thanks!

Hello! Long-time lurker and first-time poster! I've read a lot of the (very helpful) posts over the years and I am going for another trip to Bangkok at the end of this month. I usually relied on Grindr for non-paid hookups, but I want to see if I can fulfil a few fantasies this time. (1) I've been reading about the saunas having open mattresses to encourage orgies on the rooftops. Is this a regular thing or something that you by chance run into? if so, which saunas would be best to try to experience this? (2) What is the best massage place today (haven't been back since covid)? I previously went to Adam Massage, Prince Massage and a few others and they were all so-so. I am hoping to book a 4-hand or 6-hand massage, where the massage is ideally ignored from the beginning. I prefer twink or muscular-type guys in general who are versatile or bottom. Any massage parlour recommendations where this can be achieved with little debate would be great. Looking for the entire experience, not just a happy ending, with both/all three masseurs. Any recommendations are welcome! Thank you!