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If you want to meet the next time you’re in Bangkok, let me know, I’m always here and I think you’d be interesting hehe personally I’ll take the 15cm biceps at Atlas over Angkor Wat 😉

Haha, fair enough. Everyone has different preferences. If you had the choice of any destination in Cambodia, you’d chose SR over it all?

Lesson learned. Because the hotels I chose were more luxurious and for a far better rate.

I found Hong Kong locals, despite the reputation, quite friendly and open to meeting foreigners. I agree there is much to do even without boys, though. I’m a big fan of M+.

Well luckily Siem Reap isn’t a destination that really invites you to visit multiple times. It’s growing, sure, but when you’ve seen it, there’s not much else. Pubs, nightlife, restaurant scene, it’s all better elsewhere. If you like smoothie bowls and avocado toast, maybe you’ll find your place in a cafe owned by foreigners, but even then you’d probably go to Bali for your yoga retreat instead. Coupled with their USD currency and one singular attraction that draws people in, it’s not even that cheap… although the hotels are impeccable, but they are in Phnom Penh too. Siem Reap I won’t visit again, Phnom Penh I will. If you’re travelling with a partner it may be different. Shame too because there are hot khmer guys everywhere! Just not available. What you get instead is a chubby, uneducated 22 year old with bad skin and a 3” dick telling you they might like you if they had a new iPad. I'm a decent looking guy, below the age of 40, in shape and very approachable. So it’s not a matter of being repulsive or rude. It’s just what it is.

Noted for next time!

Filipino men are cut, poorly. Thai men are uncut, usually. Filipino men are on average, thicker and shorter in penis size. Thai men are on average, thinner and longer in penis size. Filipino men tend to have a bit of chubbiness, even when fit. Thai men then to be thinner, even when fit. Filipino men don't have as many tattoos. Thai men typically have a few. Filipino men will manipulate and lie to you, but they believe they are being honest. Delusion. Thai men will manipulate and lie to you, but they are well aware of what they are doing. Tactic. Filipino men are ashamed to be filipino. Thai men are proud to be thai. Filipino men fall in love before you even meet them. Thai men fall in love after you fuck them. Filipino men will rarely ask for money, being around a white person is enough for them because they value whiteness and mediocrity over anything else. Thanks colonization. Thai men don't see white people as anything other than what they are, tourists. Filipino men will fight tooth and nail to convince you that PH is the best country on the planet, all the while claiming to be "mixed." Thai men don't give a shit what you think, Thailand is already great. Filipino men will stretch the truth on everything, and romanticize even the most trivial things. Thai men don't care to impress you, they are more curious. I could go on for years. They are nothing alike.

Brief. PP Day One: Checked in to my hotel. Opened Grindr and Hornet. Hornet had a few men but I realized most were visitors from Thailand. Grindr I didn't have the same response as I did last year. Much less interest. It's the same story as last year. Everyone is using fake photos. If you are interested and show it, you might be surprised to receive a photo of an older, out of shape man. Drug use has also skyrocketted? Why is everyone asking if I want to inject? I don't recall this from last year. Anyway, I take a gamble and invite a guy over. He's short, very thin, good size dick, uncut. He's a top. He comes over, the sex is okay, but what's nice is that he spends the night. Not only that, he holds me so incredibly close I feel like we might become one. Tangled legs, held hand, everything I need. I invite him over tomorrow and he says he will spend all 4 days with me. (Spoiler: He does not, he gets too busy with his work and we cannot meet again.) Free Sex #1. PP Day Two: I meet with a friend and we have a few drinks which leads to a threesome with his boyfriend. His boyfriend is quite muscular, 6 inches, uncut, great at sucking dick, and I ride him bareback. The sex is good, but short. Free Sex #2. PP Day Three: I meet a local friend who I met last year for lunch and to watch Kun Khmer. The fight lasts the advertised 2 hours. It's fun. We go back to my hotel and have sex. It's short, and okay. We decide to go out to the bar that night. We visit Space. He leaves after a few drinks. I sit with the boyfriend of the owner who is friendly and ensures shots keep coming. I meet another local there, who doesn't work at the bar, but turns out to be a moneyboy. I'm promised he's great in bed and well hung. I pay for our drinks and we go to Heart of Darkness. We stay for one drink, it's not very busy, and decide to go home. We ride on his motorcycle to my hotel. The sex is mechanical, he doesn't kiss, he doesn't suck. His dick IS big, but I'm already disappointed. He asks for $50. I'm annoyed. He sleeps over, but I wish he would leave. He jerks me off in the morning and goes to work. He says he will be back, and asks for a gift. I'm beyond annoyed. I play along, getting him to leave without causing a scene, and then tell him that the way he escalated the price and asked for a gift ensured I won't message him again. I tell him that I have no problem financially supporting him within reason, but too bad, you pushed too far and too fast. Sucks to be you! Free Sex #3, Paid Sex #1 PP Day Four: I have a nice staycation inside, and don't meet anybody. The hotel I am staying in tonight does not allow guests anyway (Plantation- best hotel in PP for my money, maybe close is Baitong...) Sexless Day #1 SR Day One: I arrive by bus to Siem Reap. I go on Grindr and find that everyone is a bottom, aged between 18-22, and seeking EXTRADORINARY amounts of financial compensation. Many proudly say in their bio "please take care of me for life." The gull, I think... but they must have an audience. I see a few potential muscular guys that offer massage for between $20-$50 but none are my type. I go to sleep. THANK GOD, as I find out that my hotel charges a $300 USD fee for visitors and will even CALL THE POLICE!!! Bullet dodged. Sexless Day #2 SR Day Two: I go to MEN at night as I cannot have guests. 80% Khmer, 20% tourist. Maybe 20 guys. I am immediately approached by every Khmer bottom. I fuck a few despite not really preferring to top. I watch a massive Khmer guy workout in the gym as I sit by the pool during a break. I wonder if he's staff? Can I pay? He's the most beautiful thing I've seen. He works out, finishes, then GOES INTO THE SAUNA! Hallelujah I think. No. He stands in the corner of the steam room, barely visible, and doesn't want to be touched by anyone. What is he looking for? Odd. I leave for the night after playing with 6 guys. I don't cum. Free Sex #4, 5, 6, 7, 8 and 9. SR Day Three: I check-in to my hotel and one of the guys I talked to on Grindr is part of the staff. Awkward. He appologizes and says sorry for not meeting me for drinks and dinner as I offered, he isn't in the mood for sex. I tell him he's clearly a bottom and I don't want sex, I'm looking for a local friend, but he doesn't owe me an explanation. He messages me later on Grindr hoping I have a good stay. From here on out, he greets me and chats with me every time I leave my room. I don't like the attention. Guests are also not allowed here. Great. Sexless Day #3. SR Day Four: I walk to Sanmai Spa as it has great reviews. It's next to a gay bar in an alley. It takes a while to find it. When I do, I decide against the massage. Two boys are sitting out front and they have to be the most unappealing men I've ever seen in my life. Scowls, acne from head to toe, what's going on? Sexless Day #4. KEY TAKEAWAY: - phone theft is still huge in PP, be aware - drug use with needles is becoming more and more common - PP you can make friends with locals and get free sex - SR is all sugarbaby twinks, don't expect free sex as a tourist from apps - Khmer men really don't understand that you can't charge money when you're ugly... I appreciate the confidence tho... - Hotels rarely allow guests if its upscale, and many specifically prohibit LOCALS - breakfast buffets at hotels in SR are NEVER worth it, my god they are awful, even at 5-star properties - SR is walkable in a day, it's so small - Arthur and Paul and MEN are both VERY mediocre saunas, but its nice they exist - Space Bar continues to be the best gay host bar I've ever been to; the prices are cheap, the men friendly and hot, the owner socialable, and nobody rips you off - standard paid sex is between $20-$50 - If you want to be friends with locals, go to PP

The drug use here (injection) is absolutely insane.

A megathread sticky of massage shops, cost for base massage and recommended minimum tip would be an incredible contribution for the forum, even if just limited to a few areas.

Active on LINE too

It’s really beautiful at night.

What a body! 🥵 A lot of their staff look amazing. Is it really 3000 THB minimum? Prince is 1500-2000 but I guess it’s the location.

Do they have gogo dancers at their new location too? Do you happen to know if you get the two hand massage for $20, is it a minimum $30 tip for each, ie. $80 total? I thought the entrance fee was $6.50 and after 8pm it drops to $4.50, and is only $2 for locals?

Great info 👏

Not my experience. Yes, it’s not an advertised storefront. You make an appointment and they call you, bring you into the building, but it looks just like any parlor in Bangkok. Maybe the apartment they brought me too was just deceptively decorated? 🤣

Perfect description of the staff and charm of going to a place like this.

I think you’re looking at Olivia wrong. It’s not like Prince or those other spas where the boys vey for your attention and are very obviously up for sex above massage. This is a massage place with men and women, although many are men. They are not attractive, they have numbers but they don’t try and get you to chose them, nor do they line up for you. Most of the times it’s random assignment unless you request a specific number. I’m sure they won’t discuss anything out of the privacy of the room, but who knows.

My trip report mentioned fucking, so yes.

I also want him… badly…

There are gay spas and masseurs available on Grindr. Physical prostitutes can be found outside of venues like W, shockingly, trying to flirt with lonely men entering and exiting a boujee hotel. if you’re in a major city, called a tier 1 or new tier 1 city, language shouldn’t be a massive issue. Chinese translations apps are also very accurate, many even get the nuances of languages like regional Cantonese in recent years. WeChat is fully functional in English, and as feature rich as AliPay with a better UI, you can use it with a foreign credit card, they have a translate feature for mini apps and chat, it’s easy as pie my friend

The one nearby Pulse It wasn’t the tall, lanky one if that’s who you’re thinking. But the mamasan said just a moment about my friend already rejected one, and brought this one in from the street. Regular clothes, looked kind of confused but up for it. Told my friend he’s straight, my friend had no issue as long as it fulfilled the requirement. Yep- and as my friend turned him away, he said “how about you give me 2000?”

I’m not sure. He was in regular clothes, no number.

Actually, most of the sex tourism industry ceases to exist apart from a brief moment in time in which you visit.

Imagine coming to a website that is dedicated to sex tourism only to shame the bodies and sexual desires of others. Hilarious.