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Been totally geeked on Jakarta after they officially named it the biggest city in the world, how was it?

Never really got around to living that life, something always got in the way, sometimes myself. These days its a relationship, which comes with love & respect, which is better than anything else. But I'm still a curious guy & I enjoy getting a peak into the underbelly & the globetripping that you pervs offer. Thanks again guys

I log in to this site every few days just to read the Middle East/NA forum, seems like it's the only part of the world here that's off the beaten path that gets posted about it regularly, most of Africa, East Europe, LatAm outside the main countries, Asia outside main countries, etc are rarer to see stories from. These ones are just so wild. I ve gotten myself into so many reckless situations in life, but as i inch older some of these situations sound less & less appealing lol, I'm 34, curious how old some of you guys are?

Yeah these are definitely the parts of Italy I most wanna visit, especially Sicily. I had an opportunity a few months ago but I didn't have the funds this time around. It will come eventually. And by the way, even the daily life stuff is kinda interesting, helps since I would like to basically do the same thing

One of the most interesting sets of posts i've read on here in a long time! Thank u for these. And especially southern Italy, where I need to go. I don't get out of the country much, & i have a boy, so I'm not as interested in the itinerary ins and outs of Thailand and all that. But you spared us the excruciating details of you're every move lol. Quality over quantity, but I appreciate the quantity too

There's so many visitor stories out there about Cuba that filter or spin the experience it's hard to know what to trust, so thanks for this realistic & great report. I visited Havana for a few days in 2019 & I loved it but also it's just so different from anywhere else I been. Noticed same things about food, police, safety back then. Only saw 3 officers the whole time, one was in the same spot on San Rafael near the capital building everyday, with a giant dog. One of the others was sharing a bottle of rum with a couple lesbians on the Malecon outside where all the clubs are in Vedado. We stayed with a family in central Havana, took some pedicabs & a bus, but mostly walked, including to & from the clubs every night, in the middle of the night, from Old Havana to Vedado & to all the way to Miramar. We would find small little cafes & restaurants in the less suburban parts of the city. We'd hang out in the plazas and parks for the wifi. Anyways, i've wanted to go back ever since. Great pics

Well there are definitely the kinds of obscure places for an American that I'm curious about, and kinda went how you'd expect. How old are you if you dont mind me asking? The second attempt at a hookup ending with me wrestling the guy around the floor might deter me from trying again, but then again you're only in Mozambique once lol

How bout many blogs on anywhere, i got not hits & have been scouring, havent found much

Hey, long time no write. There's been a lot of questions in this forum about different places, but harder to come by answers I guess because theres less experience there, naturally. Does anyone know if there are other forums, blogs, even books out there that go more into depth for more obscure places? North Africa, West Africa, Latin American countries that are less on the radar, Pakistan...I don't know anywhere unexpected. I know they stories are out there but they're hard to come by when I search different search engines & social media, which both seem pretty much useless these days. They don't have to be vulgar, I like everyday things, adventure, talking about your experiences, but I do like it with an edge. Anyways I hope the question doesn't come across as too vague, basically I just have more curiosity then I can get satisfaction for. Have a good night, I'll check back in the a.m.

Some of you guys really have been all over the world at crazy times, how was a visit to Sierra Leone in the 80s?

You got some great stories my guy. This is what i'm talking about. I've always wanted to go to China & see the nightlife & party scene, & just live like a Beat or something smoking drinking & making love in Chongqing

A lot of you guys are much more well traveled than me. I've been to some different countries & cities across America but nothing too unusual. What are the most unusual or obscure places you've been, in time & place, where you've found an encounter? Sexual, fell in love, found nightlife...a bar, a club, something more salacious. Somewhere in the cut where you wouldnt expect or where not everyone will find themselves, or before things were more acceptable. Just sitting at home today & letting my mind wander a little bit, sorry I dont have any stories of my own to share for this one, but thats why im curious...

Taking the mag consistently helped me with sleep

I take vitamin B as well as Magnesium, which helps with sleep which I'm sure would help with sexual health. Not a vitamin but I also use a lot of Maca which is supposed to have libido beneifts as well. I can't say I can directly measure the help, & I'm 33 so results might vary, but will say there's nothing like getting enuf sleep and taking a few days off from the cognac.

Interesting how everyone is different...I'm always much more adventurous & meet me many more new people when I have even one friend accompanying me, & I'm usually the social instigator. I use my alone time to recharge too, but usually in the comforts of my own home or somewhere familiar, even yesterday I was by the beach for a few hours by myself after everyone else had gone on with their day & I didn't know what to do with myself. But I've never traveled outside the country alone. My opportunities are too far & few between but as I save money with time that will change. Nothing wrong with being there for someone when they need it--not every need we fulfill is also gonna fulfill our ego, but I get where you're coming from, especially if you're used to dealing with the feeling on your own & have actually learned to embrace it. Although always having company definitely makes the fun harder lol That's why I've always been on the lookout for that evasive 'friend' who's down for some hedonistic adventuring