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Quick update, I'm leaving Medellin and heading to Cali. Please could you guys recommend any trusted guys in Cali if you know anyone? I wish I stayed in Medellin for longer, it took me a few days just to adjust to a new place and start enjoying it. I really liked the city, especially this time of year, everything was blooming. I met a couple of paid guys, thanks for all the recommendations! Also, I've met a few free guys who asked for nothing at all and one even got offended when I suggested to pay for his taxi instead of going to me on public for like an hour🤡 All the free action happens mostly on Fri-Sun. I had endless offers for free sex around weekends and not much during the week, but obviously was rejecting most of it due to safety concerns anyway. But if I had nothing to lose and was braver- I'd fuck non stop. Had four guys in one day on Sat, I'm glad my building has no security and just the key entrance, I'd die from shame otherwise:) Definitely right decision to NOT stay in Poblado- way too touristy and too much competition from other tourists for guys and free sex. I was staying close to Unicentro - Belen/Laureles and it was a perfect spot- close to everything - to Poblado and Laureles but at the same time lots of local horny guys, students and some paid guys were there too. The free guys aren't necessarily the model types but I had young and fit guys with nice dicks, so it is possible if you look like an average European of mid 30s/40s. Ppl were genuinely curious and I had no trouble finding sex, it's just most of them seemed suspicious to me as I wasn't sure what is a red flag and what is not. I was asking for their ID pics "to register in the building" before inviting them in, which made me feel a bit safer as they knew I've got all of their data just in case. I have really struggled to find my type here though - most of the guys look like kids, a lot of them shorter than me which makes it even more comical, so my main struggle was to find straight looking and acting guys not only with good dicks but also not super skinny as I felt I could break them when I'm on top of them😬. It is possible, but clearly a challenge. Obviously it's hard to play a slut bttm with someone who looks like my 15 yo nephew. That's smth I haven't even thought about when planned the trip so worth noting. I hope to have more luck in Cali and Bogota... The weather was lovely all 10 days so I've managed to do and see lots of touristy stuff as well. Also met with one guy from Tinder who wanted to walk and practice his English (ironic I know), but it was a pleasant experience overall.

Also, massive shout out to those who recommended the toilet shower - works wonders, 20 bucks, takes less than a minute to install. BUT beware Colombian toilets are on the US pipes standard while I got my shower all the way from the UK just to find out it was the wrong size 🤡 I'm glad I checked that in Florida and managed to reorder from Amazon the US version. I know not everyone is that stupid like me, but I thought I'd mention. Fekivasy Handheld Bidet Sprayer... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09NDFVF27?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

Appreciate guys, I'm not particularly after huge ones, at least not yet:) I've been sick for like 3 days( new water/food I guess) so I'm just back on track and had just one unpaid sex so far with a local mid-aged guy with a gorgeous dick:) I'm going to take it slow but appreciate all the reco:)

It does, many thanks!

Thanks, I should have mentioned I'm into masculine tops😅 And I read your blog on some of those guys, super jealous 😏😋

Well, I got robbed in Colombia on the first day. Lol someone stole my water at the airport, I find it ironic;) Medellin looks fantastic! I'm here for a week-ish If anyone is around to catch-up. Also, I had no recos for guys in Medellin so if anyone can recommend someone safe(even from mileroticos)- please let me know in direct messages. I'm in Laureles(Fatima) and it seems to be fine so far. 🤷🏻‍♂️ Honestly, I was expecting it to be sort of Cairo- vibes, but nop, feels much better. I already had a few offers for free sex which I'm not going to do until I meet someone "paid" to get an idea. Thanks everyone for all your answers, I actually made it here! 😅

Yikes! It's free on NHS in the UK. I got 3 bottles and they gave me a few jabs against all the different sexual stuff for free as well. Gave me some doxy too, all for free... I bet not many ppl in Colombia can afford a proper prep therapy then...:(

Haha I've heard some stories about Cuba where a married mad for a $5 can be yours while even wife knows what he is doing but wasn't sure about Colombia

My trip is approaching and I started to investigate some guys on mileroticos. The choice in Cali is surprisingly limited with the same 10 guys on rotation, so I've tried the "Gigolo" section instead of gay section of the website and surprisingly found that many people there are also gay, but the choice is much better🤔 I tried to approach multiple guys and some said no but some said yes but the price is higher and no kisses etc. So looks like some of the guys are just down low gays hiding they are gays on the platform and some are straight who are still willing to fuck a man... Has anyone tried meeting guys from that section, am I just going mad and it's too risky or is this normal? I'm just struggling to find my type of guys on mileroticos as I'm after masculine straight-looking guys with good dicks, and it's not a very common type apparently:) If you have any reliable contacts for good tops that match description to share for Medellin, Cali or Bogota - I would really appreciate if you could share them in direct messages so I can start meeting guys with someone I can trust! @speedoo1 has kindly shared a few contacts in Cali so I'm convinced some of you might have better options than what I can see on mileroticos:) Also, has anyone tried buying esim online prior to the trip from Colombian operators? Looks like Tigo offers it but I haven't figured out yet how to buy it.. Thanks guys, any advise is greatly appreciated 👍

I've heard that majority of those cases of HIV under prep were attributed to those taking the pills inconsistently or breaking the schedule 🤷🏻‍♂️ I guess there would be some cases where ppl aren't responsive to prep as they should but those cases must be rare. I guess it would be a nice precaution to get both prep and condom if you feel like the person in front of you could be at risk..

Thanks for the tips, read the text in the link and it says Granada is no longer safe which is concerning as that's where I'm going to be based. Well,I'll try to fight it off but generally speaking are there actually any other safe areas apart from Granada and San Antonio? Looks like I'm going to be running circles on the same 5 streets during my 3 weeks there😬

Glad you had a great time, I envy you😅 Soz for a stupid q, but what was the point of giving them prep if you're on prep and they can't get it from you? Also, I was planning on getting doxy prep from local pharmacy, would you say it's generally safe to order medicine from Rappi or is it likely to be fake? 🤔

That's all very concerning, how meeting in public would help though?:) I thought they can pretend everything is fine until they reach your place and rob/kidnap you? What would you say should be the steps for meeting a guy there? Going to the neighbouring street or meeting at a completely different crowded place and walk home together? Considering my non existent Spanish i bet that would be an issue. Also does it all apply to escorts / regular guys for Grindr or is there a perception of ppl from mileroticos being generally safe🤔 I know I sound stupid with these questions, but any advice is appreciated.

Ah happy for you both, glad you had a great time👍 Were they both speaking English or was It more of a spanglish?:) I'm failing at Spanish (had no time to study) and a bit concerned that I might not learn much before the end of Jan for my trip. Also, how was Cali? The safety and communication?

You can tell I can't wait for my trip as I'm investigating options on Grindr:) Can somebody bring some light to those signs- wtf are leaves standing for? And a parrot🤔 Is it weed? Does it mean they sell it or want you to smoke while you fuck? I'm confused😅

Check Youtube-there are lots of videos covering this topic.

i'm a bit sceptical about that point as i've just googled how many tourists were killed in London this year ( out of millions of visitors) and the answer is 0 which sounds drammatically lower vs 30 tourists killed in Medellin:) But i get your point about staying in safer areas to reduce the chances;). i'm in Florida in the early-mid Jan, so my Medellin part of the trip is going to be around 25 Jan- 3 Feb. Would be great to catch up if you're still there!

Any thoughts on this guys? If anyone has been recently to Medellin - how the things have been recently? Looks like it's not specifically about gays but the news are really alarming to the point where I'm thinking I should swap Medellin for Bucaramanga or a smaller town? https://www.google.com/amp/s/english.elpais.com/international/2024-06-24/29-tourist-deaths-trigger-alarm-bells-in-medellin.html%3foutputType=amp

Haven't seen a single attractive taxi driver there, but that might be my taste in men is different to yours:) Maadi was okay, but too quiet and far away from everything central, however the Thai restaurant was good enough for me to go there a few times. No hammams for me, too shy for that:)

Great, thanks, I actually probably need this one for my own house too!

Where do you attach this? Replace the shower head with it or is there another place to connect it?:)

Fair point! Would you say winter prices are usually higher or lower? I mean after the Xmas madness etc?

Ugh that's not good, looking forward to hearing more details!

No, I've checked as I thought he meant 100COP but he got really offended 😅 Can I order a motor taxi for them just like Uber? Do you know the apps for that?

Had a bit of a reality check and regret going to Medellin😂😂😂 Chatted with a few guys from skokka and Cali guys and even Bogota boys were okay to negotiate to 50COP-100COP max, while average looking Medellin guys are demanding 150-200 COP as the lowest and even 100 USD! (one sincerely ugly guy with a big dick claimed he is a local star and that's what he is paid). Oh boy. I'm going to find lots of touristy stuff to do in Medellin as I'm clearly not getting any sex there 😂