Birmingham boy

Bogota was only 2 weeks out of 5 weeks trip but yeah lots to see in the city and around - the lagoon, the salt church, villages like Guatavita etc. I know it's not the most touristy place in Colombia, but considering it was a fuck trip around the big cities, I think Bogota was the best out of all of them.

Well my 5 weeks in Colombia just gone like it was nothing. I'm leaving Bogota today and here are my final thoughts. First of all, many thanks to all guys on this forum for all the tips and recos, I wouldn't make it without you👍 I think for a beginner Bogota should be the starting point, it feels the safest out of all places I've been to in Colombia, has plenty of paid and unpaid guys with reasonable prices, lovely weather and lots to see in and outside the city. I stayed 1w in Cedritos, which was clean and lovely, safe and just enjoyable but it's residential so only local unpaid guys around you, however paid guys were happy to visit Cedritos on request. I managed to meet ppl from Tinder and Grindr, which felt totally safe, local guys are very keen to meet a foreigner. My 2nd week was in Unilago area north of Chapinero, and it felt different, still relatively safe but too many ppl and untidy, although lots of paid and unpaid guys around. My last week I just dated one guy from tinder, which was unpaid and he paid everywhere for himself(except when it was too expensive to eat because I wanted to go to a fancy place so I'd pay). Met lots of guys in their 20s, although I'm more after mid age guys, I found those young ones that were bigger and more "masculine" looking so I was happy with the choice. Had a few trips around the city and the countryside looks just like a mix of England and Gran canaria which is really unexpected and I enjoyed those little towns and villages very much, they all felt safe and touristy. I mostly met with unpaid guys in Bogota but the paid ones were happy to go down to 100-140 COP (after seeing my pics) and I found a few really hot guys there as the choice is vast. The guys in Bogota both paid and unpaid were much stricter on condoms and many rejected even knowing I'm on Prep+doxy, it was a strict NO, however they were guys who were okay to fuck without condoms, but a clear difference Vs other cities in Colombia. Overall, I think I over panicked before coming here, basic precautions like wearing what locals are wearing an staying In safe areas was enough for me to have no issues whatsoever. I survived without Spanish just fine, offline Google translate did the job. I'm surprised with how many guys were genuinely interested to meet, to chat, to go to touristy places, without any financial interest just because I'm a European and they are curious, I was not expecting that. I had more sex in those 5 weeks than I had in the last 2 years lol, probs too much and 4 weeks would be enough. Thanks again and DM if you have any questions.

You get a strict NO from me🤣 lots of hot bottoms in Colombia tho 👌

I'm intrigued, can I see it in private messages? 🤣 And the pic of the guy if you're uncomfortable to share it publicly

Well it could be just my body's reaction, I have no idea, but pretty useful side effect, you can try 😬

Thanks for telling that story, it's useful for everyone to know this, so we can all spot the red flags and see the signs in the future. I'd still share his photo lol, he is a scammer🤷🏻‍♂️ Again, my request for ID picture before the meeting is there just for that specific reason- I have a proof it's an adult who volunteered to meet for free(I save all chats too). My friend told me a story about another guy demanding money, he deleted the chat before the meeting where they have agreed to fuck for free. My unpaid experience here was much better than paid (surprisingly). I didn't tell that story here that one guy got money upfront and spent his whole time in the phone instead of fucking and got the condom on we agreed not to use prior to the meeting. The worst thing was that I really liked that guy and would have spent so much more on him if he only made an effort ...

Yes, it's easier to take as you don't need to take it with food. I got my bottle from the US but here in Colombia it's also available as Imodium in liquid form. The min dose 15 ml is perfect as it just mildly slows down the processes.

There are lots of tourists in Bogota... And even in Cali so that's a very odd justification. I feel like the dodgy past of that city is still affecting it's present state. There were lots of criminals to start with and with tourists it just changed the direction slightly... Sorry to all Medellin fans, I get the point, but I wouldn't go there for a fuck, despite the amount of the choice of paid guys. Regarding the bottoming - here is a tip, 15 ml liquid loperamid daily, it slows down all the processes so it's much easier to take ass shower and clean it and also it temporarily lowers your appetite so you actually don't want to eat as much. I lost 8 kg in this trip so far as a side effect of my daily sex practices:).

My personal impression was that Medellin is just a much more scam/fraud prone than any other Colombian city. Even Cali felt much safer from the perspective of meeting guys, and Bogota feels as safe as Europe in terms of the guys you meet (incl from Tinder), not as many struggling guys, more middle class. I only been here for 5 weeks so far but I immediately could tell that I enjoyed Medellin's weather and atmosphere, but I was panicking for a reason, it felt dodgy absolutely everywhere you go.

I had no issues with guys providing the ID. Some of them were concerned that you're going to use their data, but I just stressed that I'm a tourist and I don't need their ID, it's just the rule to enter the building and they would send it. I'd be very alarmed if guy doesn't want to show his ID, that's the real red flag.

Spot on! But actually my tops even in their 30s cum usually twice with me🤷🏻‍♂️ one 40 yo managed to cum 4(! ) times, Colombian guy in Cali who was shocked and even said wtf I managed to cum 4 times🤣. But those 4 times were quite quick so it was probs 1hr max in total. So it's not the age or being a bottom - I cum with all my partners usually too. This is purely passion/desire etc. Maybe I'm hotter than I thought 🤣😎

Well, not sure if anyone is reading this but I had amazing 2 weeks in Cali and off to Bogota. Please can someone share recommendations for mileroticos guys there? I think Cali is a hidden gem, there are guys for 70-100 on Grindr and 100-150 on mileroticos, but I only fucked with the guy recommended by @speedoo1 a couple times as he was a great fuck, and all the other sex was with free guys. Cali felt genuinely less commercial and snobbish. Had great dates from tinder and had a local guy being my temporary "friend" going to lunches and touristy stuff with me (he even paid for me!!!), had 2-3 guys for unpaid sex every day from Grindr. Had some tourists and some young locals. I was rejecting 95% of offers- that much choice I had there for free sex. I was actually able to pick just cute guys with good dicks and still had SO MUCH FUCK. I had a delivery guy, policemen, threesome with two tops, all hung guys in their 20s mostly. Ppl were genuinely curious in me as a white foreigner as there were only a handful of tourists in the area. Had local bottoms helping me to find tops and recommended their friends for fuck. One bttm hired a huge dick black guy for both of us to a motel (we split the bill, only 70 pesos) and tried to impress me with the guys they have there. It all ended up being a shitty experience because the guy was too big for me and the bttm got every single drug possible in me to make it fit. But he was genuinely trying to make it good for me. I've been recommended by locals to other locals and got invited to an orgy after one fuck, had some guys chasing to repeat so I know they genuinely liked it and were not looking for money or anything. I also didn't mention I was British and only mentioned my original routes from eastern Europe, said that I was a student. Also, guys in Cali are darker, taller and bigger in bodies and dicks so it was easier to find someone closer to my type. I stayed in the middle of Granada which felt 100% safe with lots of police and security on the streets and it felt much safer than the part of Granada that is close to the Boulevard. I'd 100% recommend it over San Antonio, el penon and other areas- it felt safe, but lively with lots of locals passing by and visiting restaurants, clubs etc. I think that location is a huge part of my success with local guys there, you're European and have a place - that's alone was attracting guys and when they saw my pics that I'm ok looking mid 30s guy, they were all for it. All guys were happy with "no condoms" once I mentioned PREP and Doxy. I was asking all guys for ID pics before they come to register with the building, but my place had no security guy, just the keys entrance which was much easier for me. All guys I fucked with, happily sent their Ds, if the guy was rejecting- I would say I'm just a tourist I'm not going to do anything about it and they would send, if they still rejected- red flag, don't meet. So, it was a great experience and I would happily return to Cali for a repeat👍

Quick update, I'm leaving Medellin and heading to Cali. Please could you guys recommend any trusted guys in Cali if you know anyone? I wish I stayed in Medellin for longer, it took me a few days just to adjust to a new place and start enjoying it. I really liked the city, especially this time of year, everything was blooming. I met a couple of paid guys, thanks for all the recommendations! Also, I've met a few free guys who asked for nothing at all and one even got offended when I suggested to pay for his taxi instead of going to me on public for like an hour🤡 All the free action happens mostly on Fri-Sun. I had endless offers for free sex around weekends and not much during the week, but obviously was rejecting most of it due to safety concerns anyway. But if I had nothing to lose and was braver- I'd fuck non stop. Had four guys in one day on Sat, I'm glad my building has no security and just the key entrance, I'd die from shame otherwise:) Definitely right decision to NOT stay in Poblado- way too touristy and too much competition from other tourists for guys and free sex. I was staying close to Unicentro - Belen/Laureles and it was a perfect spot- close to everything - to Poblado and Laureles but at the same time lots of local horny guys, students and some paid guys were there too. The free guys aren't necessarily the model types but I had young and fit guys with nice dicks, so it is possible if you look like an average European of mid 30s/40s. Ppl were genuinely curious and I had no trouble finding sex, it's just most of them seemed suspicious to me as I wasn't sure what is a red flag and what is not. I was asking for their ID pics "to register in the building" before inviting them in, which made me feel a bit safer as they knew I've got all of their data just in case. I have really struggled to find my type here though - most of the guys look like kids, a lot of them shorter than me which makes it even more comical, so my main struggle was to find straight looking and acting guys not only with good dicks but also not super skinny as I felt I could break them when I'm on top of them😬. It is possible, but clearly a challenge. Obviously it's hard to play a slut bttm with someone who looks like my 15 yo nephew. That's smth I haven't even thought about when planned the trip so worth noting. I hope to have more luck in Cali and Bogota... The weather was lovely all 10 days so I've managed to do and see lots of touristy stuff as well. Also met with one guy from Tinder who wanted to walk and practice his English (ironic I know), but it was a pleasant experience overall.

Also, massive shout out to those who recommended the toilet shower - works wonders, 20 bucks, takes less than a minute to install. BUT beware Colombian toilets are on the US pipes standard while I got my shower all the way from the UK just to find out it was the wrong size 🤡 I'm glad I checked that in Florida and managed to reorder from Amazon the US version. I know not everyone is that stupid like me, but I thought I'd mention. Fekivasy Handheld Bidet Sprayer... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09NDFVF27?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

Appreciate guys, I'm not particularly after huge ones, at least not yet:) I've been sick for like 3 days( new water/food I guess) so I'm just back on track and had just one unpaid sex so far with a local mid-aged guy with a gorgeous dick:) I'm going to take it slow but appreciate all the reco:)