jeremy

I'm heading to Manila for another week of fun and frivolity from next Friday (20th) - staying in another big hotel in Makati next to Glorietta Mall (Holiday Inn last time). Looking forward to getting in / to touch with the locals again! I have a few models in mind from two "massage" places that I will call on if Grindr, Scruff, Sniffies, and TheBlowers fails me... but they were more than I could handle last time haha. They are Redapple (see on Mimaluwang's Twitter) and Pinkrabbit on Twitter and Telegram... I had two hot guys from Redapple last time I was in Manila (Karl and Miko)... I may have to try some from Pinkrabbit this time - Asher, Rio and Evan look so hot!

Nope, I didn't get to any gay bars. I'll maybe have a look in September.

I did 8 days for both SG and KL back in March, and I am heading back again in September for another 8 days. I saw most of what I wanted to see in March so mainly heading back for the guys ... but also thinking of seeing Batu Caves too. I used the hop on hop off bus in KL... it does circuits of the north and south of the city and there was a stop right behind my hotel (Ibis Styles) on Jalan Alor (the huge night market street) in Bukit Bintang. I just belatedly posted my March trip report to SG and KL over on the SG forum, but here it is again... in 8 days during March I managed to hookup with a few guys in SG and a few more in KL. About half were free and half MBs. None of them were locals despite a few local Chinese and Malay i had connected with online before i arrived. It seems to be that no matter how many connections I make online from home, after arriving most are not online or unable to meet! All my hookups were from Grindr... They were Thai, Vietnamese, Filo, Indonesian and a Chinese from Australia who I hooked up with at Yotelair in Changi Airport. I sniffed around some cruising places I found online but didn't see a hint of anything interesting going on. I stayed at the Mercure Icon in SG and the Ibis Styles in Bukit Bintang in KL. Both presented no issues taking guys up to my room, but Ibis Styles was very quiet I think due to renovations with most rooms empty and so it was rather less anonymous than in SG. Both places had lift security so had to meet my guy in the lobby. My paid hookup in SG was SGD$150 and the KL MBs were RM$150 to $400 for oral and fucking. All but one i sucked and then he fucked me. I fucked one guy in KL, my first time topping in a very long time, which was interesting and I will likely do some more of that in future! I had an amazing sensual and sexually charged (but no actual sex) massage in KL from a very sexy Vietnamese boy and by the end of it I was panting and exhausted as if I'd just been fucked for an hour. It was incredible! I'm booked for another 8 days in SG and KL in September. I'm really hoping to sample some local cock, especially Malay!

My apologies for the late response... in 8 days during March I managed to hookup with a few guys in SG and a few more in KL. About half were free and half MBs. None of them were locals despite a few local Chinese and Malay i had connected with online before i arrived. It seems to be that no matter how many connections I make online from home, after arriving most are not online or unable to meet! All my hookups were from Grindr... They were Thai, Vietnamese, Filo, Indonesian and Chinese from Australia who I hooked up with at Yotelair in Changi Airport. I sniffed around some cruising places I found online but didn't see a hint of anything interesting going on. I stayed at the Mercure Icon in SG and the Ibis Styles in Bukit Bintang in KL. Both presented no issues taking guys up to my room, but Ibis Styles was very quiet I think due to renovations with most rooms empty and so it was rather less anonymous than in SG. Both places had lift security so had to meet my guy in the lobby. My paid hookup in SG was SGD$150 and the KL MBs were RM$150 to $400 for oral and fucking. All but one i sucked and then he fucked me. I fucked one guy in KL, my first time topping in a very long time, which was interesting and I will likely do some more of that in future! I had an amazing sensual and sexually charged (but no actual sex) massage in KL from a very sexy Vietnamese boy and by the end of it I was panting and exhausted as if I'd just been fucked for an hour. It was incredible! I'm booked for another 8 days in SG and KL in September. I'm really hoping to sample some local cock, especially Malay!

Hey K! Yes I'd love to meet again. I expect to be back in Manila in September or November! DM me if you like braidwoodguy@gmail.com 😁

Hi all, I am travelling to Singapore in the first week of March and wondering if anyone has any recent tips on the grindr / other apps, cruising, massage / money boys, spas, saunas, taking guys back to the hotel etc in Singapore? I am staying near Chinatown. Would like to hearing any tips and will post my experiences during / after my stay! Thanks.

Thanks to all! I came across Elegantz Spa on the forum and also on Shamlessmack's website thinking of visiting only to discover today that it was raided by police just a couple of weeks ago ... https://www.balidiscovery.com/elegantz-male-spa-raided-by-bali-police/ ... rethinking my plans now. I wouldn't want police bursting through the door as I am in flagrante delicto with an amazing 30yo Indonesian top guy! Perhaps the fun police will be out in force across Bali for the next little while?!?

I'm thinking of visiting Bali for a week in January and wondering if anyone has any recent experiences there? I'm mostly bottom and more into twinky or athletic or slightly muscular asian top or vers or straight guys. Keen to find out the best apps to use, best place to stay for hotel room hookups, cruising tips, rates and places for the "massage" scene where massage is just a side dish etc etc... Thanks in advance for any advice! I will def report back!

Yeh a few I met wanted to suck ... but I meet only vers or top guys as I prefer to do the sucking 😛 ... Like Oldaddy I am researching airbnbs for my next trip in Nov-Dec. They are definitely cheaper and hopefully I may avoid the uncomfortable looks bringing guys back to a hotel. I will stay one week in Manila and one week in Baguio this time around.

I can't really speak to massage spas and bars because I was inundated by messages on Grindr as soon as I arrived, but I can speak a little to guest-friendliness... I stayed at the Holiday Inn and Suites at Makati (June 2024) after a recommendation from this website and although there was security doing checks at every entry point, I was never questioned when I met a guy off site and then took him in with me and escorted him out again. Unfortunately each new guy I brought back to my room ever expanded the grins on the faces of the security people, especially the female ones for some reason, and although it was a bit embarrassing the thought of sucking this hot guy's cock or getting fucked by him very soon was enough to get through that... I would meet my hook up very close by, such as at the entrance to Glorietta Mall next door and say to security that he was my friend as we were having our bags "searched" (opened and then they poke around with a stick for 2 seconds.) On the few occasions I didn't meet my hook up outside and bring him in personally (I was initially waiting for them at the elevators), security would either keep his ID until he went back out or if somehow he got in without handing his ID, they would actually detain him on the way out until he provided my name and room number so they could check I was OK. One guy never checked the room number on the way out and Grindr was delaying messages as usual so he was detained by security for ten minutes before he could get through to me, and then security rang my room to check all was OK. I took a walk by and drive by of several other hotels in the surrounding areas and they looked to have even tighter security with airport style metal detectors at the door, and I was told that some hotels do not allow visitors to guest rooms at all... Hotel security was the stand out difference for me in Manila, especially compared to Bangkok (Ibis Styles Silom) where I would just meet a hook up at the bottom of the elevators and then he would see himself out with no issues at all (Dec 2023). But then I found Filipino guys so much less transactional than Thai guys - not one of my hook ups asked for money even for a ride to get there. They really really get in to having their cock sucked, which I know sounds strange, because don't all guys? Yeh, but it seems on another level with Filipino guys and I am happy to help them out! ...

About half the guys I have met have tried to reciprocate despite me making it quite clear I'm a bottom and don't really respond to being sucked. I think they assume that because I am masculine and not fem in anyway that I am going to have a raging hard on ready to be serviced!... Nope!

All through the day and as late as 1am on one night. The rules have been rather inconsistent as I have at time seen people open their bags for security to search and then go straight through but then others are questioned. I'm not sure what there policy is and where they target particular appearances or ages of what... from what I have seen of the major hotels in Makati and Pasay that I have driven or walked by, its the same.

I haven't, but I'm sure open to the idea of going there in the future!

The second guy on your Grindr screenshot looks very familiar to me! He sure loves a white daddy ass and knows how to play with one to leave you in ecstasy... He totally exhausted me! 😁

@12is12... 1) the green/red boys r only out service, or also in-house at some location? As far as I know they are only an out service to house or hotel. I connected with Redappleboys and booked the two guys I met through Telegram, and paid a deposit of 500 pesos using an app called REMITLY for AUD to PHP - all you need is the recipient's name and number to send from REMITLY via GCASH. I connected with Greenappleboys initially through Twitter / X messaging and then via mobile SMS, but i didn't end up booking any guys. 2) what did u mean by "even meeting two guys at the same hotel"? Wasn't that ur hotel... ? Yes, I just meant they were staying in the same hotel as me (Holiday Inn.) Guests can only access the floor on which they are staying, but all guests can access the Roof Deck (RD) from two of the elevators and so I just arranged to meet them on the roof deck and then take them back to my room. 3) M unfamiliar with the phrase "grindr is as buggy as hell". Guess it means prblmtc. Since I dont have tlgrm/X, would that b a prblm? Sorry, that's just my terminology... I have sent messages and received a lot of replies but some hours or even a day later and sometimes piled up messages that seem to come through all at once. I haven't used X to hookup with anyone, although I could have because there are many "masahe", "MT" or "massage therapists" on X displaying their services and you can contact them through X messaging. On Grindr you will also find guys using those same terms and also "not for free" or "not for everyone" or "for hire" or "4hire" or something similar which generally means you pay. I have been quoted anything from 800 to 5000 pesos for sex with such guys all of which include full sex if desired. 4) do u think most tops would b content with just being sucked? M in a non-anal period... Most of the guys I have met have been suck only, so i would say yes. I read not long ago somewhere that getting sucked off almost seems like a fetish among Filo guys and I thought when I read it that it was a curious comment - after all don't most guys like getting sucked (I don't generally)? But being here I can see what they meant by it but I find it difficult to further explain. Some guys really do want to fuck but just make it clear up front that it's suck only. If they want more they will move on to the next guy I guess. 5) since "awkward smiles" by security isnt a prblm for me, I might stay at the same hotel. Instead of seeing them out, isnt it possible to ring down? I don't know about ringing down... I suppose you could if you give your "visitor" your name and room number and they might ring you to make sure they can allow them up to your room. I initially met guys at the elevators on the ground level street entry after they already came through security. They would have to leave their ID with security if they came into the hotel alone... So I later found it easier to meet them in the entrance to Glorietta Mall which is right next door and then walk with them security as though they were an old friend. I just happen to have a few old friends in Manila... As for leaving, I was initially saying farewell at my hotel room door and letting them exit alone, but if they didn't have my full name and room number they were detained by security until they could reach me through Grindr (or whatever app) to get my name and room number. Security would then call me and make sure I was OK before letting them go. One guy I met complained that they made him feel like a terrorist, so after that I started exiting with them and security wouldn't do anything other than give an awkward smile. This hotel has two entrances. There is one at street level and the other from the third (or fourth I am not sure) of Glorietta Mall to the hotel lobby floor. All visitors to the hotel alone must go through the ground floor exit but I used both entrances alternately to bring guys back to limit the awkward smiles somewhat. There are also a lot of hotel porters milling about on the ground floor at the street level. I hope that helps! I have enjoyed my stay in Manila. I went out to dinner with one of my hookups last night, a very cute and well hung and very interesting 32yo mixed Filo-Spanish-Chinese guy, so making a social thing out of it is very possible if that's what you want. I am not into any kind of relationship other than hookup, fuckbuddy and friend and i make that clear if a guy seems to be fishing for a relationship. I paid for the dinner at a really nice restaurant in Glorietta Mall called Bacolod Chicken Inasal and it was only 2000 pesos for the both of us including drinks and dessert (AUD$50) which is very reasonable. I do really like Bangkok, but as other members have commented in other posts, the constant expectation of money in Bangkok does make Manila a refreshing change!