I'm a romantic at heart. If I find a guy that meets most of my needs and shares most of my values and is hotttttt, I'd pursue a relationship and "hang up my boxing gloves". I've always been monogamous in relationships in the past, but I'd love to be with a guy that would explore an open relationship with me.
My version of an open relationship is where we are monogamous at first, and for most of the time afterwards, but have "windows" that open up for a defined set of time. Like...a few weeks a year, or a trip, or just one particular guy for threesomes, or whatever we come up with. I've observed in most open gay relationships that they are so focused on the next hookup, and are looking, looking, looking all the time, they are not often focused on each other.
Anyway, with my Phnom Penh hottie, we only had one day together in person. We've written each other nearly every day since. It will be nice to spend more time together and see how it goes.