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and together make that video we all been waiting for...

No doubt. It would fit you like a latex condom.

for that Mamasa position?

It’s probably not so bad after all https://www.nationthailand.com/business/economy/40048159

Something fishy is going on here. https://www.ndtv.com/world-news/4-chinese-men-try-to-remove-documents-from-collapsed-bangkok-site-detained-8050691/amp/1

To be fair, that building, even in its unfinished state, should not have been collapsed, according to an expert. Link to full article: https://www.nytimes.com/2025/03/30/world/asia/earthquake-bangkok-building-safety.html

Those mamasans with a hidden agenda say something like that all the times. I once also got this version "That boy is not going with men. He goes with ladies only" (Later, when I called the boy to sit with me, it turned out he's gay and would NEVER go with female customers).

You might've slept with his grandson without knowing it.

So what are you gonna do next with this newly discovered feeling?

Why now? After all those years since you got to know the boy?

Who tends to win during sex?

Keep in mind: those karaoke-host bars cater mainly to local Thais. For some rich Thais, it's probably less about "I want this boy that much" or "I think this boy's worth it". More likely It's about one-upmanship "I want to show that I can do better than the next guy." with boys on bid as some trophies.

I don't think so, at least, the average look is no better than in a normal go-go bar. Since the off fee is sky-high, boys seldom get off during their working hours. They mostly earn on drinks. They might make arrangements with customers to go with them after work though. Speaking of good look, there are some stars whom customers might have to bid to spend time with them. Like, normally, you can sit with a particular boy for one hour for a standard fee of 250B (one drink). Then at the same time, another customer can go "I want that boy too. I'll pay 500B for that same hour" and the bidding war could go sometimes with offers as high as several thousands (or 10 to 20 drinks) from what I heard.

Lucky the bar fee is not 1050B like BoyzBoyzBoyz. I heard from a Laos boy working in a host Karaoke bar in Pattaya, where they charge an off fee of a whopping 4K B.

So after he went with you to Pattaya for several days, did his number change again? Or you had to pay his off fees for all those days?

"Nung loi, Nung loi" sounds like "I'm in heat, so horny" in Vietnamese.

If that's the case, he would need a whole floor.

Maybe that forum member is THE problem? I thought someone's charm emanates from their personality and soul?

When I took J. to some place, he often asked if a couple of his friends could tag along. The first time that happened, I asked him if I was expected to give them tips and the answer was NO. However, if some of the boys were not freelancers and it was their working night at the bar, then I was also asked to pay for their off fee (300B or 400B per person)

You yourself can tell boys you are in your 40s

That probably means he's older than you as older boys frequently lower their age (by a larger margin the older one gets). When I first talked to V., he said he's 28. Then, half an hour later, when he talked about one of his previous relationship with a much younger guy, like a decade younger, he slipped (I'm 34 and he's only 22). Hehe...

FYI: clip recorded, with the boys' consent, in my last stopover in Bangkok three weeks ago. That time, I only visited Fresh Boys and Dragon Koi. 1. I sat and talked with three boys (one straight and two gays, two of them actually invited themselves to the table and talked just a bit, so I did not buy them drinks but did give them tips). 2. There are 3 gay boys at the time (2 dancing and 1 waiting tables, the latter looks a bit chubby and apparently doesn't want to take off his shirts and dance), the rest is straight. The gay ones all share a room nearby. 3. Customers choose a drink for the boy from a dedicated menu. I let the boy choose a drink himself so he picked a 399B drink and (thoughtful of him) checked back with me if the drink is too expensive. Boys get 100B cut from the drink (regardless of the drink price), so buying boys more expensive drinks doesn't mean they get more money. In other words, buying a boy 2 299B-drinks is better than 1 699B-drink. 4. Boys I talked to all willing to go with a customer after work (bar closes at 3 am or earlier when the last customer left). The one who sat with me from the beginning also chooses customers. He said he made enough on tips for just dancing and talking, so doesn't feel compelled to go with just anyone. He said he turned down three offers from the previous night alone. Boy "accidentally" showed me a picture of his penis on the phone. I was impressed (big size for such a slim body). He's a top but can bottom. When I said goodbye with no intention for further actions, he jokingly claimed "but you saw my cock" as if it's some liability. All in all, pleasant experience. No wonder, @reader got hooked dancing boys.mp4

All the bars in Jomtien Complex charge 300B for offing a boy and 400-500B for waiting staff.

You will stay there until what day?

I already said it but I'm gonna say that again: he's lucky you've been there for him all those times. Thanks for sharing your experience. While I'm sorry that you had to suffer twice (it looks like you were infected with a different strain each time), your experience corroborates what J. told me and makes me realize what an ordeal it must have been for both of you. Agree. @jason1975, no matter how much you care for him, you should draw a clear line when it comes to funding. I have no problems with saying NO to certain requests from J., telling him they were not reasonable.