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Yes, this discussion is a good reminder to us all that we're oftentimes vulnerable to harm and fraud. I've never been beaten and robbed in this manner, but I have been drugged and robbed of money, electronics, clothing ... and awoke (gratefully) 18 hours later ... in Mexico. It's been 30 years since, though, but a friend of mine in Mexico was similarly drugged ... and died from that ... and another was drugged, robbed and roughed up a bit and survived the ordeal. The drugs in each of these incidents were placed in beverages left unattended on a bar or restaurant table. Yes, I hope this discussion is read widely not just because the incident occurred in Colombia, but because it happens in the lives of gay men ... worldwide. It's not just the newbies who are taken advantage of; some of us who think we're so experienced fall prey, too. Thank you!

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I was in San Miguel de Allende and Mexico City for a couple of weeks total this past January/February. I didn't do much cruising and hits on Grindr were few. I didn't see / observe any pay for play opportunities that attracted me. Mexico City is a great destination, finally discovered by travelers who can't quite figure out why they want to visit or what to do when they get there. When I lived there, I cultivated a regular stream of bedmates, and it was enjoyable.

Maybe just go to bed and get a good night's sleep, and start your cruising well rested the next afternoon / evening.

I expect that Leo XIV will support the teachings of the Church he leads; conservative.

How do you know he's a great guy? I might have missed mention of it but is this your first involvement with him? Thanks.

I don't object to or think it's wrong for countries to control immigration but there should be an understandable achievable process followed by which those persons interested in immigrating / temporarily working in countries adhere to and have the opportunity. Immigrants aren't the problem. Persons entering countries illegally - bypassing a process others do honor - is a problem. Unfortunately, worldwide ... the migrant issue is highly politicized.

LOL! No, I don't.

Pay me now, or pay me later.

For frequent fliers, Orlando may be one of the very best departure points ... because there are direct flights to/from there from worldwide points - at decently priced fares. That said, I prefer not to use the airport. Throngs of families, long lines at security (oftentimes), etc.

I don't see how many respondents there were, but responses would be almost entirely for 2024, not 2025 ... but that may be insignificant. Polls are snapshots in time. Sometimes valid, sometimes not ... but interesting to read.

I haven't listened to the Mahr video yet, but lest we forget, Mr. Trump is a salesman.

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Maybe it's clear to other readers but not me, but are you intending to relocate to Thailand with a current boyfriend who lives in your home country ... who is not Thai? Or have you met a Thai abroad or online and intend to live together in Thailand? I'm interpreting your remarks as both of you are non-Thai Americans.

I was traveling in Mexico for several weeks earlier this year. I've begun traveling with a battery-operated combination Carbon Monoxide / Smoke Detector this past several years. Leaving Mexico City I was asked at check-in if there were any batteries in my checked bag. I said yes, in the CO2 / smoke detector. Big mistake. All of a sudden security showed up and I had to unpack my tightly packed bag to retrieve the device which security took and asked me for them to return. 20 minutes later and an angry line of people waiting behind me ... the device was returned. I was told the batteries were fine, but some devices (not the one I travel with) include objectional / risk possible parts and that was the reason for the inspection. So much for being honest! But I learned a lesson and was surprised at the vigilance and professionalism of those at AeroMexico I was dealing with.

This.

Many years ago, I was in the Medina and approached by a handsome young man (who else?) who told me he was a student and asked if I would like to accompany him to his room for sex. Who me? Duh! A novice in Marrakech, I jumped at the opportunity. He led me through a couple of streets and into a park he said his room was on the other side of. Once deep into the park he announced he was robbing me and appeared to pull a knife (don't know if that was what it was). I quickly punched him in the face knocking him down, ran out of the park calling for the police (in Spanish, LOL! 🙂) and encountered a friend of his on the way who was afraid what happened to his friend. We live and, with some luck ... we learn!

Thank you. Yes, that's what I've found elsewhere. Though, when I lived in Mexico City I'd get middle of the night calls after bars closed from former tricks looking for a place to crash for the night, or a day or two ... and how they would perform in bed! I turn my cell off at night now, wherever I travel (and at home). My situation is a bit different than most others here. In addition to being 75 y.o. (of which I'm only one of that group here), I've dealt with prostate cancer surgery - and the aftermath. I've gone from a sometimes-versatile anal top to engaging, primarily, giving oral (which I do enjoy). My field of play is narrower, though. My sex drive is less than before. Not to fret though. Some physical/body contact ... sucking some cock ... a bit of kissing ... I'm okay with it. Adapting to my environment. I'm also focused on exploring the culture of the countries I visit, not just the sex opportunities (perish the thought!). Therefore, a tryst before bedtime is satisfying. I enjoyed decades of a very active sex life, wonderful times; literally hundreds of sex partners ... all the while escaping HIV/AIDS during my most prolific years. 😁

I haven't traveled in Thailand for ... years. But my travel style for my next trip there won't be different than it is in other foreign travel.

Don't believe everything you read. 😁 Youth, stamina ... and endurance training obviously play a part. Been there, done that. I'm happy if I'd have a couple of good hook-ups a week when traveling. I don't do the bars much anymore, don't want an overnighter, and want to be home before 10 p.m. Yes, I'm old now. 🙄

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