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I once had a scary encounter back in the days when Screwboy used to be in Soi Twilight. The guy I offed immediately hopped into bed and went to sleep! I woke him up and told him he was invited back to do something else but he simply refused. I lay next to him wondering what to do? When I told him we were wasting time and asked him to leave, he becane angry, got in my face and demanded payment. He was bigger and stronger than me and even though I probably could have taken care of myself as I have a background in martial arts, I wasn't going to risk it. I'm not sure how much I paid him but I was happy just to get him out of the room. But the next night I got my revenge! I went to Screwboy every night to off someone and I spent liberally on drinks for the boys. I was a valued customer. I walked past the bar and one of the waiters rushed out to greet me and lead me to my usual seat. I smiled and walked on by. He came chasing after me. I told him what had happened and that I wouldn't be coming back to the bar - I'd take my business elsewhere. He apologised profusely and asked me to come into the bar and identify the guy. He was sitting with another customer. When he saw me he smiled and acted as though nothing had happened. After pointing him out to the waiter I got up and left. The next night the waiter came up to me and told me the boy had been fired! I had the following experience on a trip to Bali back in 2014: Just had a very unfortunate situation with Eddy. He came around at 2 pm for sex and I paid him the usual $30. But he wanted an extra $10. I told him he would not be getting another rupiah more and that he was willing to accept the $30 I'd paid him the day before. And as he'd turned up again today, I was of the understanding that he knew I'd pay the same as yesterday. But he wouldn't take no for an answer and refused to leave the room. After about about 15 minutes of a stalemate I finally just walked out of the room and left him there. I went to the bank and came back and he was still there, refusing to go. I was about to ask reception to call the police but I had a better idea. I called the cleaning staff and told them to lock the room when they'd finished. I hid down by the pool and waited for him to finally leave. What's wrong with these guys? Have they no business sense at all? I told him in bed that I wanted him to come around every day and that I was considering staying an extra week. That's a guaranteed income for him every day. And it's the going rate. Of course, he'll probably turn up tomorrow but I'll have nothing more to do with him. What a loser!

I am not into rimming guys so I would never ask a guy to do it to me. However, if they decide to go for it while they're down there, I just lie there and enjoy it. It was only after many years of travel to Thailand that a guy finally rimmed me. It was my regular masseur at Narcissis massage in Pattaya. And it took many massages before he did it. The other guy was my big-cocked regular from Natureboy. Again, it didn't happen straight away. And the first night he rimmed me he also let me cum in his mouth. I warned him I was about to cum and he just kept working on me. From then on, every encounter with him involved both. They are the only 2 guys in Thailand who ever rimmed me. One more guy who was from Laos and worked at Golden Cock gave me a blowjob in the bar and was happy to let me cum in his mouth. It was an unexpected treat so I upped my tip considerably. I would not ask a guy to do something I would not do. But if they offer, I'll gratefully accept!

I've had lots of conversations over the years with bar boys, especially those working at the old Eros and BBB in Pattaya. Plus I've spoken to my 2 regular guys and various offs over many years. The consensus is : a) Japanese guys are the friendliest, pay the most and are just into vanilla sex b) Chinese pay well but are pushy and sometimes rude c) local Thais look down on them and do not pay well d) farang are fine but sometimes argue over money e) if they were interested in a relationship it would be with fellow Thais or Japanese. Farang culture is apparently too hard to get their head around. That's info from way more than 3 guys but at the end of the day, it's only their opinions. And as we know, opinions differ.

The late Prince Philip, Duke of Edinburgh, spoke German very well.

I had one of my guys come and live with me. Sex was on tap 24/7, although I didn't feel the need to take advantage of that. Even so, it was nice to know if was there if and when I wanted it.

I still see life through an Asian perspective, even though I now live in Australia. I can easily see why the guys prefer fellow Asians but it's hard to put into words. It's a feeling which in Japanese is called kan and refers to something along the lines of an unspoken understanding between 2 people. Some Thai guys have told me they feel different towards me than towards other farang. I kind of feel the same. I imagine it's an expression of kan. I think that, compared to farang, Asian people are more gentle in their interactions with each other. I remember when I came back to Australia to live how shocked and uncomfortable I was with the way people spoke to each other - no subtlety, just telling it like it is. Their behaviour came across as boorish and unsophisticated. In actual fact, that is not true at all; it's just a different approach to life. I also think that in Asian culture it is very much an "us and them" outlook - us Asians versus the rest of the world. So the Thai guys preferring Asian customers comes as no surprise at all to me.

Yes. When I was going over to their place I was paying the standard rate. After they became my go-to guyd and started coming to my house they dropped their asking price, based on the fact that they'd have a regular income from me. I'm quite generous and I have always believed that in life you get what you pay for, generally speaking. Apart from the money they can have a good time at my place with lots of activities available apart from sex. They also have use of my credit card at the liqour store and are free to buy whatever they want to drink. They have never abused the privilege. Like me, they are not big drinkers and just enjoy a few drinks at night so although the alcohol is expensive, we don't drink a lot of it. In return they are very generous with their time and like my 2 regulars in Thailand they are very enthusiastic in bed. And they never ask for anything. When I'm on an Asian sex trip I have sex every day - once in the afternoon and once (sometimes twice) at night. It feels like I need to get off so often because I've come all this way. Plus, the Asian guys are a real turn-on for me; I need to make up for the lack of Asians available in Perth. There are lots of Asian students at the universities here but they tend to come from wealthy backgrounds so don't need to sell their bodies. Unlike my sex trips, at home I don't need to have sex day after day and in any case I'd wear myself out very quickly. On a trip, I can only last a couple of weeks before I have to come home and have a rest. As I said, I don't know how long this set-up can continue. When it does I'll just have to visit Asia more often. At the moment, the Myannmar spa guys are looking very attractive!

I used to find rent guys advertising in the personal columns of the newspapers in Perth. I had a list a mile long to choose from and for years I'd get in my car and drive all over town whenever I felt horny. As I grew up in an Asian country it was only natural for me to prefer Asian guys but most of those advertising were Western. I got really excited when one day I found a guy who was Thai. I got into my car and rushed over to his apartment but was shocked to see he was a ladyboy! I tried to escape but he somehow managed to cut me off at the pass and before I knew it I was lying down on the massage table. He gave me a quick hand job and I then got up and rushed out the door. I found a few guys who said they were Japanese but strangely enough, they didn't understandca single a word of what I was saying in Japanese. Turns out they were Chinese. Unfortunately, they were rather pushy, just wanting to get the deed over as quickly as possible, so the sex was barely acceptable. There's nothing worse than a guy looking back at you over his shoulder asking "Have you finished yet?" I've lost count of the number of guys I've contacted through their newspaper ads, but again, the sex was very mechanical. However, I did actually meet 3 guys who I really liked. Not only did they have the necessary attributes - handsome, swimmer's body, friendly personality and big, fat cock - they were also awesome in bed and best of all, they were versatile. These 3 guys became my regulars and we have spent a lot of time together. One is now off the scene but the other 2 are available. The routine is, I'll call one over in the late afternoon or early evening. He has his own room on the far side of the house. We'll have sex then sit out on the balcony and watch the sunset while we have a drink or two. Then we go out for dinner. After dinner we'll sit and chat or get into the jacuzzi or have a swim. We then have sex again and he goes off to his room to sleep. He comes back to my room in the morning and we lie in bed for a while just chatting and planning the day before we have some more fun - usually just a wank, sometimes just a cuddle. Both guys are into cars so we often go for a drive out in the country. In winter we go to the movies and in summer we go to the beach. Then it's back home after lunch and I like to just sit on the sofa and play with my Ipad and he might go to his room for a while. There's heaps of things at home to keep him busy - I've got a gym and I've also bought an xbox with some car racing games, compete with driver's seat, steering wheel, etc. All this is just to make sure that he doesn't get bored when he comes over. Even though this arrangement is almost perfect for me, I wonder how long it will last as sooner or later the 2 guys will have to move on. That means I'll have to try and find someone else and that might be very difficult to do. The other problem is, they are not Asian. If they were, my life would be perfect. Oh well, you can't have everything.

As visitors to their country we should respect their wishes vis à vis masks. What we do in our own country is our own business. Farang disregarding local sentiment is not a good look for us Imho.

Although I live in Australia I would be very happy to live in or near Tokyo. I don't have any family but I have lots of friends in both countries. I will now probably just stay here a a couple of years ago I built my dream home by the ocean and it would be silly to give that up now. I like lots and lots of space - something that is hard to find in Japanese houses. Most of the rooms remain unused, but it's nice to know that they're there just in case. During Covid I had a live-in "friend" to look after me, so to speak. He lived on the other side of the house because I like my own space and enjoy being by myself sometimes. When I was living in Tokyo my apartment was considered quite large by Japanese standards ( my company owned it, not me ) but compared to my present house it was very tiny indeed. But while I was living in it, it never occurred to me how small it was. I guess you get used to it. I don't know if I could do that now. There is no jet lag between Perth and Tokyo so it's easy to fly back and forth as I wish. So I guess I'm attracted to the space. And anyway, the Japanese summer is unbearable!

Thailand.

Well, I don't "deserve" anything, as I have no control over fares - I'm at the mercy of the airlines. I certainly didn't do anything to "deserve" such a ridiculous fare. I wouldn't "surely die" if I had to sit in coach (economy), just like I'd surely survive if I had to eat fish fingers for dinner rather than something nicer. It's a lifestyle choice. Olddaddy, I never give a thought to how long I've got left as I've still got a way to go before I hit my late 70s. I also believe it's no use dying with lots of unspent money in the bank so I don't have any trouble going out and spending it. I'm a shopaholic, afterall. But I want value for money. That's all I think about before I bring out the credit card. I'm trying to tell myself that the value is there because I'll get to catch up with my friends in Tokyo and enjoy our traditional "bounenkai" (忘年会) after having missed out the past few years. It's why I invited a friend, as I wanted him to enjoy it with me. I'm still working hard on convincing myself.

Not many airlines fly out of Perth and ticket prices are ridiculous. Business class fares on Cathay Pacific to Japan have tripled! The fare on my last trip before Covid was around $4500 return. Now it's $11750. And due to tough Japanese government restrictions on visiting Japan, I have to book through a travel agency. I really can't justify paying out that much for what amounts to 28 hours flying time. That's hardly value for money. And to make matters worse, I've invited a friend to come with me. Had I known how much it would cost I would never have invited him. I haven't paid for the tickets yet; I've just asked the travel agency to hold the seats for me while I decide what to do. The consultant did say that prices would probably come down early next year but I want to go over Christmas and New Year, as I do every year. A friend reserves a large suite in a beautiful hotel - he pays for it - and we all get together for our own New Year party. So I don't want to go next year - that's too late. I've got until Tuesday to make up my mind. I think I might give it a miss.

Sorry, but I also find any face coveting a turn-off. It's like having sex with a guy wearing a paper bag over his head. For me, the face is the second most important part of the guy's body.

Is that slimey, condescending and totally insincere papa-san who wears the cap still in Boyzboyzboyz?

Deleting posts from the middle of a thread can make that thread disjointed and difficult to understand.

So just stay away from people who want to judge you all the time.

Wtfool, you seem to lack a proper understanding of what a friend is. Most important of all, a true friend is someone who is there to support you in all situations. So if they turn on you because you are gay, how can you consider them to be friends?

You need to forget those hetero "friends" and find a bunch of gay friends with whom you will share a lot in common.

Which confirms what vinapu was pointing out - there are gay bars and boy bars. They cater to different audiences. Another boy bar is Boyzboyzboys in Pattaya. It started off as a gay bar but then changed to a boy bar when Chinese women began to outnumber gay customers.

I think it's a joke - he's referring to the use of a hair dryer.

Just make sure you use the big one!

"Any requests on what to check out while I’m around, let me know." If you have time, could you please check out Natureboy? I've had lots of fun times there over the years.

In all my interactions with bar boys in Thailand over the years I have rarely heard a sob story, or any other story, designed to get money out of me. Yet strangely enough, if I did hear a genuine story, from I guy I liked, I'd be more than happy to dig deep and help him out. Rather then hand over a sum of money I'd prefer to set him up in a business of some kind - nothing too complicated - to ensure a steady stream of earnings (provided he can run the business, of course!) If the business failed I guess I'd just chalk it up to experience and move on. Years ago there was a guy in Pattaya who I'd seen over many trips; he was my regular guy. He had a wonderful personality and was so much fun to be with. He didn't drink or smoke and was certainly not a party boy. Oh, and he was a great bottom, too! I asked him what he planned to do after he got too old for the bar scene. He mentioned that he'd like to set up a juice stall. I told him when I came back on my next trip we could look into it. If the figures added up, I'd get him started and support him until he was making money. On my return trip 2 months later I went straight to the bar to meet him, only to find that he'd changed bars. I went to the bar and was shocked by what I saw. He was loud and out of control. He was obviously very drunk and probably on something (meth??). His friends in his previous bar told me he had changed after he started mixing with the wrong crowd. So that was the end of that. I never bothered with him again. Talk about a missed opportunity!

" Long Covid scares me. I know people who are still suffering long after they re-tested negative. For them the virus has been anything but "extremely mild."