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Hey, just so there is no confusion, Afrodisia is not a gay bar (it's across the street from Chiquita) however they do host gay nights during the holidays like La feria de las flores. Its definitely an upscale club and I would be surprised if anyone had issues at the place, but the crowd is generally not the horny queer boys you will meet at Chiquita, Querida or even Industry. Yes, they always seem to have hot door men and security guards at the entrance, but it does not only cater to a gay crowd. Glad you enjoyed your time in Medellin.

D'oh. I knew that the location/name had changed last year. Look for the nights tagged as "Sensual", normally means at least one stripper. Not sure how it works, but there appears to be an endless supply of strippers from nearby Barranquilla that perform in Cartagena clubs.

Okay, so a few options for strippers - with no promises. 1. Gabanna Club has go-go dancers on Saturday nights. They move around the club to different locations and you can touch-tip depending where they are located. Obviously the area over the dance floor is not an option. Sunday night "interactivo" always includes a show where you can interact with the performers -- right up to sucking dick and eating ass. Some performers will have sex in the area behind the stage for the right price. 2. Avatar Bar can have strippers but the shows are earlier (11pm - midnight) to bring in the crowds earlier. Call ahead to confirm programming. 3. Club Geminis Video Club also has strippers and boys onsite for weekend events. Check ahead for the programming. Be aware this club is located within the city center, outside the tourist area. You will need to be comfortable in your ability to function in Spanish or translate.

I believe the correct answer here is "mileage may vary". As I have discussed here on the forums, the "older male/young male" fetish is a strong one in Colombia. However, I cannot guarantee that the attendees at this event will fall in that category. If I could predict the future with such accuracy, I would just purchase the next jackpot-winning lottery ticket and call it a day. Probably purchasing one of those enormous mansions in the mountains above Avenida Las Palmas overlooking Medellín. But I digress. Do I have grey hair? Check. Does leg day still hurt? Absofuckinglutely. Am I packing enough to grab most boys attention? Thank you Jebus, yes. Do I have a roster of medical specialists to help me age in a healthy way? Hell to the yes. Do I still do squats to keep my butt full and firm? Check and check. I guess my question for you is whether you are showing up to a gun fight with a knife in hand? From my experience, which I have shared many times when meeting in-person with multiple board members, you can make out just fine on the open market in Colombia if you show up prepared. Know how to connect with the Colombian boys you seek and you will be just fine.

These events take place at private fincas, homes that traditionally served as a second home outside of the city for the upper classes in Colombia. You will find listings for fincas on Airbnb and VRBO throughout Colombia. Most of these homes feature large outdoor areas, typically around a pool, with barbecues, gardens and large social areas. Many include dormitories to accommodate additional overnight guests since these homes are designed for entertaining. Today they are regularly rented out to third parties in Colombia for fiestas, birthdays, engagements, and yes, raunchy sex parties. #IYKYK There are fincas everywhere in Colombia, but the biggest concentration around Medellín would be near Copacabana, Sopetrán and Giradota in the north, and around Guatapé in the east. Regarding old gringos at the events -- they are clearly welcome to attend as long as they purchase a ticket. Unclear what your definition of "to party" is, so will not offer an answer to that question.

By request, here is one of many finca sex parties during La Feria de las Flores. This one is sponsored by El Sillon Rojo August 6-7. There will be three hosts onsite as well.

Awful to hear about this, but unsurprising that the police treated this as normal. They are seeing a lot of gringo sex scams these days in Medellín unfortunately. A reminder to always find out the variation of the 911 emergency phone number in any country you are visiting. The correct number for emergency services in Colombia is 123. For Police services it is 112.

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The building where Purple nightclub on La 33 was located suffered a serious fire and will be closed indefinitely. https://telemedellin.tv/incendio-afecto-dos-locales-laureles/759945/ The damage to the building is significant and will require reconstruction. No word yet whether the club will continue or relocate in the city.

Both Scruff and Sniffies are popular in Medellin. While Sniffies appears to be mostly foreigners, I did notice a number of organized sex events happening on the app this year.

New WhatsApp number - March 2025 +57 305 3838460 - this is where they post updates and event details now

Awww, thank you. I think I have been pretty open that I spend an extended period of each year in Medellín, so am tuned into the the scene here, which changes frequently. I want to share what is not usually found on Google search about what the local scene here is really like, beyond the usual suspects located in El Poblado and Laureles. The action here is much more diverse, however as a predominantly Catholic country, there are still some challenges to prominence and longevity of gay-positive spaces. I will continue to add the ones that appear to be here for the long-term so more people can experience what is happening in this very vibrant city. Enjoy.

New entrant to the Medellín scene in late 2024, this place has found a following among locals looking for some easy relief. Vachu is a bar, but features a glory hole room, dark room and a mirrored sex room within it’s facilities. Occasional theme nights, but this bar is really about cruising and getting off on premise (similar to Cali's men's clubs). The biggest crowds shows up after work, as the bar opens at 6pm weeknights. The nearby university helps keep the punters younger, but the crowd is mainly professionals from nearby Laureles and Belén neighbourhoods. The set up is perfect for cruising and getting off in the back rooms, although some nights the crowd gets a little more heated. Recommended hitting this place up during or after the local Nacionales futbol team plays. Lot's of stress relief or celebrations seem to happen afterward. The bar is open until 4am Friday and Saturday nights. Location Calle 33 #74b-50 - Located slightly west of where Avenida 33 crosses over Avenida Nutibara. Bar entrance is on Avenida 33 (at Transversal 39A) - Walk west past the formal wear store until you see the black staircase. Go up those stairs to the door on the second floor – this is the entrance Hours Weeknights 6pm - 2am Weekends-Holidays 2pm - 4am Contact - WhatsApp +57 3207288183 - X-Twitter @Vachubar - WhatsApp Chat Group (request to join) https://chat.whatsapp.com/KZIZ4kT6En0HFB8ZJQvt8s

Yes, there are regular bus trips between PC and Santo Domingo from the main terminal in downtown PC. Honestly, the Bus is the better option than private car since the drive is the same, basically a straight highway to the capital. Just look for an Express route that has minimum stops. I think the issue is going to be the timing of your trip, when most Dominicans are still at home with family. There is an undercover gay scene in PC, but you need to know someone to be invited in to private events, parties, etc. But you have time if you start sniffing around now.

I see that they updated their X account this week They are posting mainly dick pics of the “invirados” for each weekly event. https://x.com/clubcentral2025

Not arguing that there are plenty of more economic options available. This is the going rate for the guys with the perfect gym bodies, above average looks, and hung 22cm plus. These guys are conversationalists, charming and often speak multiple languages. These are the ones that have accounts on RentMen and other escort sites, not just MIleroticos. They are able to make a good living just off their bodies alone. This does not speak to the broad offering here -- I have a couple of guys on my roster currently asking 80 that could easily be in this range -- they just don't know it. I thought the insights into this world and how it works would be of interest to this audience. Not insisting this was the only rate available in Medellin, so we are clear.

Well that makes sense, since those are marketing videos and showing the potential for a sex club full of young hot men is probably the best way to attract an audience. The young, hot, hung hosts that they hire are a big part of the draw to their events since those young men are hired to have sex with anyone asking for it. I would say the videos you describe are on brand. As noted in my description, there was a lot of coupling happening all around the space that included older men. Daddy fetish is a big theme in Colombia so you may have a broader audience of appreciation than you realize. This is not a guarantee, but this space is where a lot of rolos cut loose and just have all out sex with few inhibitions, so the odds are in your favour. Good luck with your research.

BTW I have his permission to share here.

Last I heard he splits his time between London (escort) and Barcelona (video) these days. And pricier engagements in Dubai. Hope that helps.

Agreed. Lots of smaller details I left out, but this was an education for me.

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There is always lots of discussion around this and I am aware there are lot's over circumstantial experts on these forums. However, thought this was interesting insight. Had dinner with an old escort-friend who had some interesting insights on the local market. Now this guy is a pro - escorts full time and travels the world doing it. So that's not your average Grindr listing. But he shared a few pointers: - the expert guys here are all charging 200K COP per session. Full stop. They basically all know each other and when word gets around, they will confront anyone undercutting that rate. - with foreigners, they will start negotiations at 300-400K for a session (about $100USD currently). How do they know you are a foreigner? Why do you think they immediately ask for your name? So if you are confident with Spanish, you may want to try a fake name. - the going daily rate here is 1.2Millon COP (currently about $300USD) per day for these same guys. If you are planning for more that three days (a weekend) then you can negotiate. - any new boys on the scene that are getting a good reputation (good reviews from their clients) will be approached to step up to the new rate. Those that don't agree may find themselves with bad ratings. Think about that when you read those MIleroticos reviews, which virtually no actual clients post. - the Skokka boys -- the ones dipping their toes into the game -- are generally left alone. But those ads tend to be more transient in Colombia because there is minimal cost to run an ad. - Grindr is fair game, but they do watch that space for new faces. - the three main "modelling' companies for webcam boys all watch their performers closely for any signs of escorting on the side. It is explicit in their contracts that they should not engage in prostitution. Some of the top escorts in the city got their start there. Not to make it seem like this is all run by some dark cabal, but some interesting insights on the local scene for paid sex, and how the market produces new product, as lots move on to Europe to either escort or do porn or both. Witness Alejo Ospina, Randy Junior. or Santiago Rodriguez, to name a few. Open to a discussion as many of you will insist this is made up BS. Just sharing from a reliable source. PS - he also shared this with me (was a surprise) that many of the top-tier escorts will arrange sex with each other when they want to get off to avoid any hassle.

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I have known about this place for several years, but they moved around a LOT and were inconsistent in their availability. Some of you may already be familiar with this business. Am adding now since it looks like they are now legit in the game. Sorry for the messy numbering -- this editor module is not all that great. But the steps for an appointment are all there. FIXED. Lesson learned, don't use a Spanish language set up while editing.

Formerly the SpaMed33 on La 33, this massage and stripper business has recently relocated to a new spot very close to centro commercial Unicentro in Laureles barrio. This location is newly renovated with two massage tables, a sitting area and kitchen, with a brand new bathroom and shower. What they offer is a selection of available strippers (if you want a private fantasy session or a special event) plus a group of massage attendants that can provide service on premises or at your location (domicilio). I cannot promise that your landlord-vigilante-hotel is going to let them pass through without question. For strippers you will pay a booking fee and the final cost is negotiated with the dancer (male and female available). For massage, there are multiple kinds to choose from: - Exotic massage (lingham, thai, etc) – check the WhatsApp to see the menu – Cost: 90-150COP (thousand) depending on service - Erotic massage (you get some genital play and a hand job) – Cost: 180COP (thousand) - Sexual massage (the massage part is ruse to fuck the attendant) – Cost: 250COP (thousand) - Four handed massages (you pick two and then fuck around) – Cost: 450COP (thousand) Yes, it is expensive given local rates. In their defense, the location is brand new, the experience is zero hassles, and most of the boys speak passable English. Costs for domicilio server do not include transportation (Uber) for the massage attendant. They also offer nude barber/sex services on premise if that is your fantasy-fetish. They use the barber-anfitrion from Sillon Rojo, so you are getting a thick 23cm moreno with a lean body and a wicked sense of humour. How it works: Contact the business on WhatsApp. Have your time/date ready and confirmed since that is the very thing you will be asked. SpaMed will then send you a long number of pics showing basically every attendant that has worked there in the past year. The pics include clear face-body-erect dick shots to help you get the full experience. There are about 18 in the current roster (Feb 2025) Wait for a moment (this is important) SpaMed will then begin to delete all of the attendants who are unavailable (out of town, no longer working, missing in action etc.) Now (and only now) can you make your choice. SpaMed will re-confirm your time-date request again. Just provide the information. SpaMed will then contact the attendant to confirm availability and if that time works. SpaMed may propose a different time. If that does not work for you, then go back to step 5. Once the attendant is confirmed, you will receive confirmation message with the details of your appointment. Contact Info: WhatsApp +57 312 543 9844 Address/Dirección Carrera 68 #2-30 (do not drop in, you must arrange appointment) Instagram @SpaMed33 Twitter/X @SpaMed33