Nothing we can give to someone can replace the loss of a loved one. Our support does help so if that is time, money, or sitting listening to someone talk about the loved one. That is being supportive. Not to long ago one of the boys from brazil that I had met and had fun with. Mother passed away....from what I am not sure. But he was asking people to help him get from germany back to brazil to attend the funeral. I sent him money for airfare. Not enough to pay for a ticket, but something. I wrote Yuri a text let him know I knew how the loss of a parent felt and that if he wanted to vent. I would answer the phone and listen. He was grateful for the support. Sometimes knowing people care is better than financial support.