Back in the early 2000’s I regularly travelled to Bangkok and dined frequently at arguably the most expensive restaurant in the city located in the best hotel. There was a waiter there who was always extremely friendly and subtly flirtatious. I have followed his career and life trajectory on Facebook and elsewhere. He is married now with a family. Back in the early 2000’s he worked me out and knew exactly where the next tip was coming from. You’ve got to love the Thais and wouldn’t want them any other way.