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I hope some day soon...

Thanks. I love the suggestions. In addition to the cities, do you have a favorite website or a favorite spa (or "spa" lol) to go with it? What are your favorite places or websites for Phnom Penh, Taipei, Saigon/HCMC, etc? I'm not looking for an essay, just something to point me in the right direction, like my example earlier of Mexico City and https://mx.mileroticos.com/escorts-gay/. What is your "go to" spot in that city?

Some spas, like K Man, call out the fact that most of their tops are straight, but a few are gay but only top (they name them). Yes, it can be difficult for a straight guy to get hard enough to top a guy but they usually try to use straight porn to get themselves in the mood. This is why I usually ask if a guy is gay/bi or straight when hiring. However, that doesn't alway work in my favor if I'm looking for a top because some gay guys are mostly or completely bottoms but they advertise as vers. The guy I offed from the gogo bar who was straight but "could do everything" grimaced the entire time I fucked him. While I was able to fuck him, it was a turn off to some extent. I'm not into causing pain or roleplaying rape scenarios, etc. As you said yourself, you are "top only". Would you be able to bottom for guys just because it's your job? That said, I guess if you want to find a straight guy to fuck, maybe try the gogo bars and ask the mamasan who is straight but willing to bottom?

Most of the "top only" guys are straight. I doubt any of them are willing to bottom. The only time I had a straight guy bottom for me in Bangkok was a guy who worked at one of the gogo bars - the mamasan promised he could do "anything". He did bottom for me but reluctantly, and it was distracting and a turn off. There are plenty of bottoms out there though. If they are listed as straight at the massage spots, I would not bother trying to get them to bottom. Even topping can be a struggle for them and usually involves them watching straight porn just to stay hard. I'm vers but only recently, like in the last 5 years or so. I was exclusively a top before that and I could find bottoms in Bangkok very easily.

No need for an umbrella. When it starts raining, that's when you get a massage. By the time you're done, the rain is too. lol (usually)

I love going to Bangkok for the massages and the "extracurricular activities." Just wondering if any of you have suggestions for your other favorite destinations where stamp collecting is affordable and plentiful. I live in the US and my go to spot for a quick getaway is Mexico, but I would love to find other spots around the world that are worth visiting too. Please include whatever details/suggestions you can think of, like is scene more focused on spas or online. For Mexico, Mexico City specifically, the spas have been primarily more S services, but I've had good luck with H services online, usually using https://mx.mileroticos.com/escorts-gay/ Thanks!

It's been awhile for you, hmm? 😆

I'm kind of surprised nothing happened. Maybe they needed a clearer signal from you about what you wanted? Sometimes, you have to be bold and make the first move, especially as a foreigner. I start the session at places like this by showing pics of what I am interested in/what I'm looking for. I have pics and drawings in a locked Notes app of fucking, sucking, oral, eating ass, kissing, etc. We figure out what we are willing to do and who is doing what role from there.

I booked ahead thru Line. They sent pics of the masseurs, same as on their X account but not with their faces covered. I guess Line isn't their main focus for advertising. I see them advertising more on their X account. I think you could easily walk in but you are taking a chance on availability. And by that, I mean mostly availability of a guy who you might be interested in, at least if you are picky like me! lol IIRC, there were only two guys out of the 6-7 pics sent to me that I was interested in. They were all decent looking guys, just not my type or what I was looking for on that trip. However, this spa is out of the way (in my limited experience with that neighborhood), so I don't think they get a lot of walk-ins.

Not sure but it was Brother Massage when I was there a month ago.

Well, the sex was actually pretty good, even if it was a bit routine. IIRC, it only lacked kissing, which I enjoy quite a bit. It also could easily have been my fault for moving things along too fast. Maybe I "rushed" to the fun stuff earlier than he planned and once that was done, he felt the session was over? I don't know.

I think it was Paradise. I walked by all of the shops and they all knew I was looking. The sharks were churning as I walked up and down the Soi, all eager to get me to go in their shop! lol It was difficult to make a decision with so many tempting options, but I finally chose a guy. He wanted to charge a 3000 Baht tip for a b2b massage but I knew that was way too much. I got him to agree to 1500 Baht (in addition to the 500 Baht massage fee). It wasn't the best massage but he ticked all my boxes in terms of having a cute face, a tight, lean body and a decent/average sized cock. He got me off and I had a nice relaxing flight home. lol

Oh, I do enjoy the hunt at times too. I have had several great experiences getting random guys at S type shops and even more typically legit spas and ended up getting full service. However, that is very random and I was looking for more of a guaranteed full service experience from guys I could "hand pick" in advance on this trip. I didn't have time to take chances (or didn't want to at least).

Understandable but I also wasn't a last minute surprise walk-in. I made my appointment several hours in advance. Last appointment of the night, but still not a surprise walk-in. And I paid in full, tip and all, upon arrival. Oh well...

All this one had to produce was the Baht to make it all happen! lol