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I've been only for three days in Rio. So far these are the fees I am dealing with, all prices are in Brazilian currency: Boy in sauna: 150/200, negotiable rate according to what you want to do. Personally, I do not like sex in the sauna, but it is the safer option to go to. Escort publishing in Internet: 150/200. I got two local porn stars for 200 the hour in my place. (I am only inviting these guys to my place because I got recommendations from a third party) Spending the day together (I am not into overnights): Apparently the standard time is something like 10AM to 5PM. I was quoted 150, ended paying 250 because the guy was just amazing. He was also recommended by a third party. I do not know whether or not these are representative prices, but they are the prices I have dealt with so far.

I am in Rio! Azul's flight from Baires was great, I was in my Airbnb in Copacabana by 8:30 PM. As I was tired, instead of going to 117, I went to 202. The lady in the counter warned me that Sunday was a slow day. I walked in and a group of about 7 GPs were hanging out in the bar, and I was the immediate focus of attention, as there were not many clients around. Carlos, a mountain of muscles (not my type) gave me a very warm welcome, but I invited him with a drink and did my best to get ride of him. When I was starting to regret my decision to go to the closest sauna instead of going to the best one, I hooked up with Diego. Diego is a pretinho I had met in Salvador, who is one of @numazu1's boys. Our friend (he still reads the forums now and then) likes sending me pictures of his harem to make me jealous, and Diego is actually the only boy in his crew that I always loved. I was not in the mood to fuck, so we just made up, he did a programa, and came back to me and we kept making out. He is an excellent kisser and exactly the kind of guy I like: athletic, smooth, and not over muscular. We left together just a few minutes ago and made an appointment for tomorrow. We are going to spend the day in the beach, besides playing, and he quoted me only R150. Of course, I am going to be much more generous than that, the guys is delicious. I am disappointed at Grindr. When I arrive to Baires o Corrientes, the app does not stop hitting me. I have been here for about 4 hours and just 3 hits, all of them not appealing. I need to do grocery shopping, I am starving.

I am so fucking out of shape. I really need to start doing cardio or swimming regularly. I met Carlos today and left his place exhausted, I do not think I have energy to meet the other Venezuelan boy tonight. Carlos was great, although the whole situation was weird. He is now living with other two students I could hear getting in and out of the apartment while we were making out and fucking, and that lack of privacy took a lot away from the experience. We will keep meeting once I am back from Rio, and I hold a full report until then, as I want to give specifics about his availability or lack of. Right now, it looks like he shut down escorting for the locals, but it may be interested in finding a way of being reachable for visitors. We will work on that once I am back. As I have decided not to go out again (well, I may change my mind), I am packing right now. It looks like I am going to have a quite cool Carioca weather next week.

Is anyone else having this issue? The alerts (o notifications?) stay up even after I read the responses, checked the reactions, or opened the messages. Sometimes they disappear just to come back a few seconds after. Also, I receive emails letting me know about a new message in my mailbox. I go to the mailbox, but the notification is about an email I already read. So, instead of just checking the messages listed in the little window that unfolds when I click on the envelope icon, I click in go to Inbox. There I can see the messages I did not see before. It is kind of annoying. I apologize if I did not respond quickly to some private message.

Back to Buenos Aires, leaving tomorrow to Rio. My trip to Corrientes finished great. I saw the Baker a second time, and this time he greeted me with a wonderful kiss. He is also a top, so we ended having another hot session of oral sex. I got his WhatsApp, this guys really wakes my curiosity, He is completely atypical for Corrientes, and when I tried to learned about his background, he would always respond with evasive jokes. I only learned that he speaks English better than I do (yeah, I am setting a low standard, I know) and some French, and he is originally from San Luis del Palmar, a small town not too far away from Corrientes. I wanna know more. I met another hot boy through Grindr, 22 years old, student in the local School of Architecture. Like many of the guys I interacted on line over there, he was very closeted and concerned about being discrete. He even deleted his pictures as soon as I viewed them, so I have nothing to show. He did not have a place and neither I did, but he did have a car. We ended fucking in his car, parked in the Parque Mitre, right across the street where I was staying. Hot but uncomfortable. WARNING FOR VISITORS TRAVELING TO AEROPARQUE JORGE NEWBERY. I flew back to Buenos Aires yesterday afternoon. I had not noticed this is a long week end here. July 9th is Independence Day, and the government made also Monday a non work day to encourage tourism. Local flights do not use Ezeiza, the international airport out of the city, but Aeroparque Jorge Newbery, right in the middle of it. When we arrived and I wanted to take a cab, the line was about 200 ms. (I am in the metric system, guys). If I wanted a remise instead, I had to wait 2 hours and pay twice the fee. Uber was sowing no available cars in the area. So I got in the line. In Buenos Aires, taxi drivers have a powerful Union and several mafias around transportation hubs. Most times the danger is not for the passengers, but to other taxi drivers who are not paying their mafia fee. However, quite frequently drivers would attempt to scam their passengers by not running the taximeter and asking for abusive fees. Until last year, to fight against this, city police set cameras to film the cars licenses and the drivers faces. This year they added an extra lier of security. Before getting in the line, passengers have to go to automatic stations pretty much similar to the check in stations in all airports. You enter your destination address and name, and the station prints a duplicated receipt with a price estimate for the trip. When you get in the car, you handle one copy to the driver and keep the other one. After 55 minutes in the line, I finally got in a car. My driver was great, he was the one who told me about the mafias. The ticket estimated $AR 270 for the trip, the taximeter marked only AR$ 210 (from the airport to Recoleta). Even if this weekend traffic was exceptional because of the national holiday, I am told that the line to take a cab is always ridiculously long. My warning and advise to travelers is: if you are arriving to Aeroparque Jorge Newbery you should rent a remise service before departing from your place of origin. It is going to be more expensive than taking a cab, but you will avoid a line that, I am told, is never shorter than 30'. This morning I woke up early and took advantage of the sunny day to walk around. Buenos Aires looks more beautiful than ever, at least this privileged area does. It may be a good idea to bring some cash to avoid paying the fees for withdrawing from ATMs (about U$S 10). I am using my CC and DC has much as I can, but in some places they do not accept them. In a few hours I am meeting with Carlos Aleman. As he is retired now, he does not live alone anymore, and have to kick out his two room mates to see me. When I return from Brazil I will have my own place. Tonight I am meeting (if I have any stamina left after Carlos) with a 24 y.o. boy, also Venezuelan, who hit me in Grindr. All the pictures in his profile and in his IG have his face, so I am not going to share, but he is very attractive. His headline is "No Flacos!" ("no skinny guys!"), perfect for a daddy bear like myself. The boy is hot enough for me to pay, but this is a for free hook up. For a while, very often, the guys I am hooking up with or hiring tell me I look younger in person than in my pictures. I just decided to change my profiles in Grindr and Scruff. I am not lying, but I am not sharing my age. I also changed my picture. In the previous one my goatee was visibly full of grey hair. I trimmed it to make the hair very short, look now remarkably younger, and took new pics. New pictures are up. My Grindr is quite active, of course I am a novelty. So far only one guy has contacted me asking for money, AR$ 1,500. He is cute, but not cute enough for me to pay. Tomorrow at noon I am leaving to Rio from Ezeiza. If you read the post in my blog that I shared above, I have already booked Italo Andrade and Estevão Olivera. See you all soon.

When I retire I am gonna move to Palm Springs to spank you and get you elected.

Sounding contrarian is fine. I like respectful disagreement, and this is a topic there is no much conversation about.

I agree in general with everything you said. I just think that probably we need a switch to a more sex positive culture before making significative progress towards accepting sex work. I can only picture the fight for Sex Workers and clients' rights within the broader context of a huge sex education effort. We are not going to achieve much on acceptance of gay sex without first making sex more acceptable and deserving of celebration and public conversation.

That we need to follow the lead and support female prostitutes is out of question. Of course we must. My analogy using the role played by gay visibility in gay rights movement was intended to be applied to all Johns visibility, not only to the gay ones. I agree moving from where we are now is not going to be easy, but we already have some (like SWOP) already starting. I am trying to find a place with them or something like them, and follow the lead of female prostitutes in their fight.

Renting an airbnb seems to be the best option. Right?

I just talked to Randisan. I mention him in my post, and I strongly recommend him. His fee published in Rentmen is U$S 100, which is considerable more expensive than what Douglas would charge you. He is leaving Buenos Aires this Sunday, so I will not be able to see him in this trip.

Well, I do disagree. When the first homosexual activists came out of the closet, they were a minority and they built alliances with those still not ready to go public, and got their help to lobby and advance their agenda. This is not different. The beginning will be hard but hopefully once the ball is rolling more and more people would be willing to go public. I like to envision it in the broader picture of fighting for a more sex positive culture.

In case you are having second thoughts about Douglas, I have been doing some research as I wanna try new boys in the second half of July, when I will be man hunting in Buenos Aires. In this just published article I am unfolding my plans. If you do not want to read it all, scroll down until the section where I addressed Erik, Fran, and Luciano. I am very hopeful about those three boys. I may also reach out to Luka and Renzo. Check them up. Enjoy your trip and do not forget to sample the local food and culture!

I am also following SWOP, right now they are in an effort to reach out to male prostitutes or former prostitutes, but they do not seem to have a place for clients like me. I like them. Part of the problem with activism for decriminalization is visibility. Let's not forget that the coming our movement was probably;y what made the biggest difference in the fight for gay rights. When people saw how many we are, and how far away from their stereotyped we often are, they started to change their preconceptions. As long as clients continue to hide, the fight for sex workers right will continue in their exclusive hands. My long term plan is coming out as a John once I am retired from my teaching career. Have you ever thought of running for a local office, @stevenkesslar? California and Palm Springs look like friendly spots for a candidate focused on a sex positive agenda and sex work decriminalization. I am very ignorant of American history, but I do not think someone has ever ran before under such a platform. It would be an interesting experiment that could give us the chance to make our argument louder and stronger.

It was his birthday and I was the third client of the day. Besides my experience, his services are consistently praised in the local forums. I will see him at least one more time during this trip.

https://ilikepinga.com/2018/07/13/douglas/ Douglas is an outstanding kisser. Of course, he is Carioca. I am not sure what your preferences are, but he is 100% bottom. Plus, he is significantly more affordable than Carlos, and a talented masseur.

Monday, cloudy, and everyone is working. Perfect time for some catch up with my writing. Let's share a little bit more detail on my Grindr adventure. I am going to call him the Baker. He is actually not a baker, but does work at the counter of a bakery. For those who know Argentina, you are familiar with the ubiquity and centrality of bakeries in our culture. I have always fantasized with the guys wearing aprons and working in the ovens behind the counters, and I liked imagining this guys as one of those. Let's me share a few pictures. His face is clearly visible in the other pics, so I am keeping those private, he is not a professional. I had my doubts about the second pic, but later learned it was real and taken where I sat when I came to his place. What decidedly made my mind was the weed. My nephew got me some, but it looked like a great idea to supplement my tiny supply. The Baker is 36 years old, but looks like in his 20s. When I arrived to his place he was waiting for me at his door. We had to climb five floors through stairs, no elevator. The situation was weird without being uncomfortable. He would not chat with me but just walk fast forcing me to keep my pace and distance from him. Once at his apartment, I tried to make conversation but it was awkward, I was mostly asking questions and getting short answers, and he would not follow up after my answers to the few questions he did ask. He rolled a joint, we smoked it, and then I suggested to start playing, as we were sitting not at physical contact distance. We left our chairs, and started to explore our bodies standing up. I tried to kiss him, but he would avoid my mouth, apparently he was more interested in my dick. I asked whether he was into kissing, and he would avoid a direct answer. Soon we were naked and stepping into his bedroom. His body looked just like the pictures, his skin was perfectly smooth and hairless, his face was more telling of his age than his body. He had piercing in his nipples. We did a lot of 69, but he would still avoid kissing although the interaction was very passionate and his dick was rock hard. He was not easily submissive, we would wrestle for control and I liked that. However, my dick was getting soft without kissing. Eventually, I scaled down his passion to tell him that he was hot but we were not really a match, as I do need kissing to enjoy sex. He laughed and roll his eyes making some kind of comment about kissers, and immediately started kissing me passionately. My dick was back. He also had a piercing in his tongue. We kept playing for a while and busted jerking off and kissing. Although we did not fuck, it was a sexually satisfactory meeting. It was funny that in some moment, I do not know exactly when, I switched to English. I noticed it because he was responding to me also in English. This happens to me often when I am having sex, specially if I am stoned, which I am usually when fucking. We finished late, he had to work the following morning (bakeries here open every day), so we quickly got dressed and I left after a little more of conversation. He was not talkative, I was left with the clear filing that he is saving for himself a lot of who he is and where he is coming from. The little bit he showed was very interesting to me. Not only he was fluent in English, but also in French. I did not get to talk about his education background, but he obviously has one much more advance than most guys I know in this area of the country. His tattoos, his piercings, his talent to roll a joint, all speak to me of an urban culture that did not exist in Corrientes when I was living here 40 years ago. We said goodbye with the promise of keeping in touch. My hope is that he will slowly open up and share more about him. He is just 4 block away from my place, and I am confident we will meet again.

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I am in Corrientes, and my Grindr is melting. The pos is the abundance of young guys of all kinds interested in an older bear. The con is to find them amongst the even more abundant closeted guys with no pictures. And they are so fucking insistent! I hope there is no limits for blocking profiles. Yesterday I hooked up with a 30 y.o. hottie who invited me to his apartment, four blocks away from my mother's place, where I am staying while here. Great time, I will see him again at least one more time before flying back to Buenos Aires. Prices here are so much better than in Buenos Aires. Margaritas are $AR 130. And they are huge and strong. Last night I had two and got as drunk as I do with 4 or five American drinks. Today I am inviting my family to eat to a Brazilian style parrilla. $AR 400 per guest and you eat delicious meats and sides with a regional touch (besides the standard ones things like chipas, mandioca (yuca), mbaipu) until you stop. Once again I am missing this year an annual event that started in Buenos Aires after I emigrated. This year was the 5th edition of the "Night of the Philosophy". It is an amazing festival where the local thinkers and artists merge art and philosophy, and is a quite popular middle class event. You will need to translate if you do not read Spanish, but here you have a nicely written report: https://www.lanacion.com.ar/cultura/la-noche-filosofia-le-puso-calor-del-nid2263100 The translator may give you non sense some times, the report is full of regionalisms. A thing that caught my attention was one of the author's remarks. In one of the night events, students from Schools of Philosophy present in four minutes the topics of the papers they are working on. The author highlights as "disturbing" the topic Why do we fight, out of a list that includes Sexual Diversity, Photography and Memory, Game and Justice, and Theater and performance. The whole event seems very representative of the Buenos Aires I experienced in the 80s and 90s, and I am terrible sorry that I missed it AGAIN. If you can schedule your travels to coincide with the next edition, you should. I will be more careful next year if my fucking bad memory allows me.

I just saw this advertisement in Twitter. Does anyone know anything about this sauna?

I will see him this Saturday. But I have bad news for you. He is retired and you will not be able to contact him. Even if you have his old number, he has a new one now.

I wanted to show you all Buenos Aires, but the city was in one of her shy days and hide behind beautiful clouds IMG_3058.MOV

I agree. However it looks likes his popularity was not really affected, not even with Black voters, according to some early polling.

I liked Harris a lot. She is someone to watch. I found Gillibrand so annoying, yelling to talk over others and then, saying nothing. Pete left everyone speechless when he accepted that the lack of diversity of his police dpt was his failure. He may keep going up in the polls. Biden and Sanders did ok. Everyone else is an afterthought. With the exception of Ms. Williamson, what a heck. She caught my attention at the beginning, when she said that America does not have a health but a sickness care system. From that point she did not stop going down, I mean really down, with crazy fringe comments. Her closing will make a SNL sketch. I had never heard of her before, and hopefully I will not hear again from her again.