LOL. I was not arguing. I was clearly sharing my personal view and rapport.
It is actually something that puzzles me, why I do prefer Brazilians even when my communication with Colombians is better. I do not have an answer, sometimes I play with the idea than being a Correntino (from Corrientes, Argentina), I am closer to Gauchos and Cariocas than to Colombians, even when language can be an obstacle.
To make it more complicated, the last time I visited Bogotá, I ended with a Venezuelan boyfriend. It looks like non transactional relationships in Colombia are easier for me than in Brazil, but I am not looking for the complexities of that kind of relationships but rather the simplicity of a contract.