All I can say is that I NEVER had any problem with, or disregard for RULES, but simply HOW they are applied. Clearly the rules are NOT the same for all members, which is the only thing I ever objected to. And being treated fairly and EQUALLY seems to be the current societal trend. so why not have it apply to websites you participate on, where the anonymity of it SHOULD put everyone on a level playing field ?
Unless you have been the target of constant Daddy wrath, you cannot understand how it wears you down. So while I agree with most of what my sis Annie has said about the positives of Daddy's, for me, the negative has finally superseded ALL.....