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New Ryan Murphy scripted series on FX...... Very cool period drama, taking place in 1987 Gay "House" Ball scene. Vogueing, posing, bitching, with a cool back story with a married Evan Peters falling in love with a Tranny with a heart of Gold. Billy Porter from Kinky boots plays a motherly mentor and is Fabulous. It's the first show ever where all the Trans characters are played by Trans actors. I was hooked at the first episode.... VERY well done ....

Is it ever really ALL worked out ??? OR

I think you might b missing my point, that "context" of a post is most important. As I had mentioned, that 3rd post was simply my initial reaction to RH's attack of Boytoy in his OP. I felt it uneccesary and uncalled for so I called him out. Was it worthy of admin action ? Not any more so than the original attack by the OP was. But certainly, you should run this site in any way YOU see fit, and give less importance to how you are perceived. Whoever doesnt like your moderating style always has the freedom to leave your site.

I think it serves us well to have the contentious posts moved. Not only does it avoid what would be considered "censorship" by the admin if the thread was entirely deleted, but it also serves to illustrate what is considered BAD behavior. Surely there can be 2 camps of thought here with validity for either one. IMO, moving threads is an honorable move on THIS admins part. And truly, only those that were involved in the drama to start with will follow the thread. So it seems moot either way.

How much evidence of Daddy's paranoia do you need to understand his motivation. ? He's scared shitless of repercussion, and will distance himself from anything that can be construed as illegal.

Agreed. somewhere along the line this site has morphed into the new Damrons Gay Travel Guide. It's success at that should be applauded. Sadly, I have no interest in Travel at this point in my life.

@Mr Oz, I am NOT a child. The 3rd post was obviously mine, so you could call me out. On the surface, it might have seemed inappropriate and an "attack", however if you read my entire comment, and put it in perspective, my response was an attack of an attack the OP made. Does that make MY behavior right, or acceptable......NO ! But in those moments when your blood begins to boil, you need to release it somehow. Often there is a "cause and effect" to posting and responses. Clearly YOU had an opinion of MY post, and should have taken action at that time.... Some members simply post to be "popular". Clearly that is NOT my M.O. I post with honesty and conviction, and if my opinion is not the popular one, I can live with that. Also I think it important to look an a members entire "body of work". Determine if that member is ALWAYS in attack mode and logs on solely to disrupt, distract and demean, OR if somehow an out of character response is merely an extreme reaction to some trigger.... Either way, there should still be consequences and ANY bad behavior should be addressed. Let me be clear, my Banning @ Daddy's was never the issue. It was the favoritism that was. People that were donors were allowed much worse offenses "without" Banning, than I was, for posting a pic with a perceived Boner. If you are an admin or a Boss, the first rule is to treat ALL the people under you with the same respect and equality. That is sorely lacking @ Daddy's... So sir, consider your belated message to ME "received"....

Agreed. Are you listening, Lucky ?

Use BOTH hands ! And FYI, let's not confuse "disagreement" with "criticism", which is often the case. Unless you are a blogger and block commentary, you will undoutedly encounter people on public sites than do not share your opinion, and will vocally disagree with you. In these cases, you are not being attacked or criticised, merely "disagreed" with, and that's life. We have already discussed ad nauseum, and are in agreement that there should be action and consequences for those that cross a line into attack or behavior that isnt civil. Even criticism can be given in a civil way, because as the saying goes, some criticism can be "constructive"...

YES, it does amaze me that there is not more interest in the political forum here, especially in these uncertain and trying times. Apparently there is alot more interest in ones asshole than ones country, and the talk about the hottest Garoto in Brazil is more robust than talk about our corrupt President. YES I realize this IS a site about escorts, and hiring, but your focus doesnt have to be that narrow in my opinion. Even if you arent an American citizen Trumps reign is affecting you too, in some way, and you should be taking notice. Noone can tell me what to do, so I would never attempt to do that here, although it might sound like it. But it would be refreshing if people could broaden their horizons and realize this is what WE make it, and it could be so much more than it is.... I'ver not had the pleasure of meeting anyone from any site, but there are people I feel closer too than others, and I enjoy interracting with them and try to find topics and pics that might interest or entertain them. These sites for many are about bonding and sharing. for others its "hit & run". It would be nice however if you contributed a little nugget for us to savor before you "ran" off. (NO Adam Smith, NOT that kind of nugget) . Every little participation helps.

I think we should change the name of this site to "Travels in Latin and South America". Of late the only areas getting any interest are the Latin travel areas. They seem to be overladen with visitors and a few participants.... Its great that this site is just a Treasure Trove of travel information and visitors to the site can get travel info or help for an upcoming trip, so its a valuable resource. But interest and participation is still lacking in the other areas, so the question is, what does this site need to up-the-ante in other areas ? Just curious, and I really dont expect a landslide response here.

Trumps use of the Pardon system is nothing more than him Laughing in the face of our Justice system and telling them that HE can override any legal decision they make, so they are basically worthless. Go ahead, break the law, If Trump likes you, and if you make him think you like him, he will spring you. Fuck the law !

For what it's worth, anyone paying attention can see we are moving BACKWARDS, yet there are alot of people flapping their mouths about change. Clearly talking about change is NOT the solution. At this point, not sure what is, but a good start would be getting Trump out of office. You will never eradicate hatred, bigotry or Racism, but silencing the people that promote it is a sensible start IMO. How do you do that ? I'm not sure, but there gotta be a way. We dont need Presidential rallies that promote hate and division. We dont need RED hats that say MAGA, we need PEOPLE that actually DO IT..... We dont have that, but we do have a nicely filled SWAMP with some of the BEST SCUM on earth !

For the second year in a row, our President, who is supposed to represent ALL people of this nation, has chosen to ignore the fact that June is GAY PRIDE MONTH. With all his silly tweeting about this that and the other shit, not a mention of LGBTQ, and that's probably because he feels they have no worth and not worthy of any time or mention. He's disgusting, but WE as a community should never let this prick make us feel "less than or unworthy". To the GAY community, HAPPY PRIDE MONTH from Grandma ! Keep holding your head up, and celebrate with the Pride & Dignity you have earned and deserve.... And FUCK TRUMP !!!!! "I Love YOU, so now, Love Yourself, and do Good for Others"

That "Love you" is suspect !. It's like patting your Bad puppy on the head, or saying goodbye to your Dementia parent at the nursing home when you leave. You kinda love them, but you've really had Enough !!!

Current talks have producers mulling a spinioff, with Sara Gilberts character Darlene and her kids as the focus. Might be a fresh take on the Conner's story ? Of course, Trump supporters wont be tuning in to see her young Gay son spin in his cheerleader skirts.

You want my Pepperoni ?

Yes, that's right people, With Trump as President, you can be a RACIST, commit a crime and be convicted, and generally be a hateful and despicable person, and Low & Behold, GET A PARDON from the Pres.... As long as your rhetoric is in line with his, he has your back, and it doesnt matter if you broke the law, or promote discrimination. How can WE as c country allow this to go on ? What message does this send to the world about America ? My God , we are SCUM...... Trump's pardons are more about his sending a message to his haters and law enforcement than it is about "doing the right thing"... He believes he IS above the law. The man is mentally challenged and morally corrupt. If we cant legally get him out, we must vote him out.... VOTE ! "Thanks Pres, WE did it !"

No Porn here ? Have a WAFFLE !!!! (it's warm, oozing and Sticky)

You were RIGHT..... Ivanka Trump IS A CUNT ! And ignore those folk calling for you to be fired... If the Prseident of the US and his crew are NOT held accountable for their words, NEITHER should you !

I think it might be smart if possible, to REMOVE the time limit for editing your posts ? Since I am a prolific-poster, I often find things after the fact that I would like to add to the post to Enhance it, but the post only has a 20 minute time limit I believe ? Cant this limit be removed ? It would certainly cut down on having to start new threads or posts for similar things. Just a creative thought !

I hate that some of the members "there" are starting to SHAME other members into giving.... It's like the guilt felt in church when that donation basket starts circulating. And members turning on each other is soooo not Christian. Its more like the Trump administration.

Noble and gentlemanly, Sir Oz. Now My Lucky can carry that news back younder and present it, since he is the official "bone carrier". It sounds like an offer I dont think "dirty skirt" can refuse ? Then he will be able to use some of those 66% reserves to buy Rotisserie chickens at Costco (he loves his chicken salad).

Did I say that I cared ? I was simply sharing information, like you do so often do when you bring your gossip here. And who knows, maybe i'll be able to raise a dollar or 2 for Daddy here?