My personal example was Only used to illustrate my point on Bad behavior. Examples make statements more "illustrative" and tangeable. If my comment agitated, annoyed, angered, bored anyone, my apolgies. These sites seem to be about taking "sides". At least thats what I think members feel they NEED to do in order to "belong" and stay protected. Personally, I am my own person. I dont need to be in a "camp". I can stand on my own. I dont speak for others, nor do I need anyone to back me up. This seems to anger and confuse people, and often makes you a target, since others see you as a rebel, a loner, an outcast, anti-social. We all choose how to live our lives. I dont live mine by belittling, ridiculing or disrespecting others. However, I will enter into a good fight if personally confronted with it. I spent my childhood being taunted and tormented for being different, for being a sissy, a faggot... I hated to go out of the house, often locked myself in my room and cried and deprived myself of years I can never get back. I wont live my adult years that way. Noone should.