I don't see ANY hostility in this thread, just a series of comments reflecting peoples opinion and preferences. Is it judgemental ?
YES probably, but life is all about a series of judgements, sometimes good ones, sometimes bad ones, sometimes kind ones and sometimes Not. Its just as hostile NOT to allow people to express their feeling on things. Should people be forced to say nice, kind things about a guy they deem to be a schreeching Queen just for the sake of "correctness"... I think NOT. YES, people are WHO they are, but we don't have to like who they are, or suppress saying so.... As for the word "Queen", there are just certain words that conjure up the image you are trying to convey, and "Queen" is one of those words.... If its good enough of a word to associate with "Elizabeth", I think its good enough to use on Davey....