Some people look "gay" without being flamboyant. Whether its their fashionista style, or impeccable grooming, people always seemed to think I was gay, especially when i was younger. Even now at 63, I wear skinny jeans with converse high top sneakers. Is that GAY ???? Regardless, even if I was the most flaming, Flamboyant guy (as you call it) it should not make me a target for anyone. If I aint bothering YOU, dont bother ME.
Please clarify for me RA if you believe that if a person draws attention to themselves, they deserve to be harrassed. ? for me, that is the implication in your comment, but I truly hope I am wrong.