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Thanks for the interesting report @alrajee May I ask you please to expand on two points: 1. Why/what were you “overwhelmed” by/in Theatron? 2. Why was your encounter with the brothel’s owner unpleasant?

Thanks for an interesting report @vinapu I was surprised to read recently how the population of Cuba is both declining and ageing. (I read about it in Le Monde but there are other sources shown by Google). And I recall a Cuban (living in Barcelona) telling me 5 years ago that ‘all the fit handsome guys have left’ Cuba. Indeed, he took the popular route of an older Spanish man sponsoring him to leave. He gained residence rights in Spain after 3 years of marriage, and then he divorced the older man.

I know of 2 such incidents in Cape Town, South Africa in recent years. Both were heterosexual and had their drinks spiked in popular bars in the city. It’s sad that this happens…but it’s a powerful reminder to be vigilant and stay sober, especially if you’re a solo traveller and in a foreign country.

Surely it’s most important to bear in mind that you speak Arabic well enough to have detailed conversations with the men you meet 😎

It also happens in Southern Africa. Very much a heterosexual activity. While I guess you MIGHT find a guy willing to perform privately and for more money, I’d counsel you to be very circumspect indeed. Some guys may react violently to your suggestion.

Based on my direct experience over several years, I entirely disagree. I’m pretty limited in my taste and options. I’m a lazy selfish top with a dominant streak. I lust for handsome muscleboy-bottoms (aged 21-33) with a submissive streak. And I’ve had great success playing with handsome fit-bodied South Africans. Mainly I met them at the gyms in Cape Town, occasionally in bars and to a very limited extent, some years ago, online using Gaydar and Manhunt. Most guys were very happy to play with a fit older man. I didn’t offer, and they did not ask for, cash but I would routinely pay for drinks and dinner. I’d also invite them on side-trips or days out and of course I’d pay all the bills. And if a guy was going home late at night, I’d always pay for Uber or a taxi. I am NOT passing judgement on your experiences, as detailed above, @Canadianbtmguy but to me, your actions are very high-risk and reckless. I hope that you richly rewarded the hotel reception staff for their helpful interventions.

Yes. And No to your ‘wonder” - at least, not on the premises. Perhaps if you are personable (also attractive and generous), you might meet one of the dancers post-shower. Then you might arrange to spend some private time together in your hotel room.

Thanks for your posts @travguy and for writing such detailed reports. May I ask you to expand on this observation you made. I ask because I’m a top only. I really enjoy kissing and topping a guy, and I love getting sucked off. I especially value a guy who sucks me to completion and, as I find it so hot, swallows my load. Do I take it from what you write that none of the many working guys you saw wanted to provide full service? Was that a matter of price and you simply didn’t want to pay more? Or is it that the men define themselves as ‘str8’ so they are horny and happy to be sucked by a guy, but to suck another man’s cock would be ‘gay’? Or is it that the age-gap between you and them was too great? Or not great enough? I’m intrigued because years ago as a middle-aged man, I had fun with younger Greek men (mid 20s to early 30s). I’ve played with three different Greek guys in London. They were not working guys and each was happy to perform fully. In Athens itself, I had several dates with a versatile Greek muscleboy who was happy to please me in bed, and I was keen to keep him happy by paying for dinner & drinks.

This made me laugh. Perhaps you haven’t visited and spent much time in Australia? I like the country very much and visit every year. When others ask me about it, I always describe it as the most heavily urbanised nation on earth with almost all the population confined to a few coastal cities and towns. You may not have noticed the wild fires in recent years but are you aware of the earthquakes? In the years I lived in San Francisco, I experienced two significant ‘quakes….I was glad I lived in a house and not a high-rise.

Bear in mind that Georgia has very strong anti-drug laws that are strictly enforced. Even if you have only prescribed items with you, check online beforehand that they are permitted.

Thanks for posting your report on the trip and your photos @PeterRS They brought back good memories for me of my various long stays in Latin America.

It’s interesting to see your pics and to learn of the current FX rates to the $ @Latbear4blk But I’d like to know the current prices locally for meals in Palermo and Recoleta. As a frequent middle-class visitor, I’ve rarely done self-catering. What interests me is having a decent lunch in a good cafe, and a steak dinner with a bottle of Malbec in a good restaurant. Please would you indicate the likely costs of say lunch for 1 and dinner for 2 people. Incidentally, locals always warned me against taking the Subte. They said pickpocketing was rife on crowded trains.

I had this situation happen once. Short answer: speak up, say what you want and enjoy (are paying for). Long answer: see below. Some years back, I met a very handsome guy (Italian/Latin mix) with a beautifully muscled body. On our first date he was a passionate lover and he did everything I enjoy in bed. I quickly hired him for a regular, overnight date: we’d have full sex before eating, I’d take him out to dinner and I’d top him again before sleeping; on waking, he’d suck me off to completion and he’d take me out to breakfast. After 8-9 dates, I noticed that he wasn’t always swallowing my load in the morning. Then he became less keen to suck me off in the mornings (excuses were we’d slept late, he had to get to the gym etc). So I raised this with him. I told him I enjoyed his company and I loved having sex with him, but the fee we’d agreed was for us having sex 3x a night, not 2x a night. I said I didn’t want to renegotiate what we did but… He said he didn’t always feel like it in the morning… I checked around and found his fee for an overnight was very reasonable (about half what other less handsome guys charged) and so we settled into a routine of 2x a night. He made love to me with renewed passion and vigour the next several times.

I think that has always been the case - the fee is for the work in processing the application and is not a “success” fee.

That is the most relevant comment. I’ve travelled extensively in Latin America and in Africa: large populations with rapid growth in numbers means high unemployment and no or very little social security. So many people have very little, not even “a few hundred USDs per month”.