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TY- Early on in my sexual life, I erred and was gratified that my partner was kind in his reaction. So my subsequent reactions to escorts slipping up on hygiene have been kind as well. I either shift my positon to move on to another activity, endure it (such as bad breath) or kindly suggest that those armpits may really turn some guys on, but a shower would be fun for me. I have never embarrassed the person, even when the shit hit the bed big time. The toilet paper incident was a lap dance in Montreal, and I simply suggested how much I wanted to see his cock instead. But I don't write these incidents in reviews. Only one was egregious enough that it should have been reported. The escort had clearly forgotten I was coming, he was clearly high on crystal and had seemed to have been been up allnight as he was lubed all over. He still wanted to go on with the date, but he had a huge cold sore so I declined. I was quite annoyed that he had wasted my time, but, he was a legendary escort and a bad review would have had his fans all over me instead. So I said nothing. After all, we don't owe anyone a review.

Yes, the last question is serious...

There is always a question as to what should be put in a review. Recently a hot escort to whom I am much attracted had the opportunity to get naked in my presence. I looked forward to seeing his hot brown bubble butt up close and personal. I let him know that I would be excited to see him strip and present himself to me, and got excited as the pants came down and he started to spread his cheeks as his butt came closer to my face. So far, so good. I would put that in the review. But, as his most private area came into clearer view, the heat making itself known to my excited sensors, I realized that he had debris. Should I include that in my review? What if the debris was not fecal, but just toilet paper? Wouldn't the reader want to know that the escort may or may not pay attention to his hygiene? Or should I assume that this was a one time thing? And, beyond the review, how would you as a customer handle the situation? I didn't really want the debris on my face, but had it not been there I would like to have made lingual contact with his anal aperture. Should I try to brush it away, hoping not to embarass him? Or should I have spoken up? Please advise.

Nobody busted Club 20 on Sunday night as dozens of dancers entertained...Otherwise: Gay Pride Weekend Brings Club Raids by Steve Weinstein New York Editor-In-Chief Saturday Jun 28, 2008 Police notice posted on the door of Pacha. (Source:Matt Kalkhoff) On Friday, June 27, tens of thousands of men were pouring out onto the streets of Manhattan from all over the country expecting a citywide party. The last weekend in June is not only a celebration of Gay Pride, but also a lucrative weekend-long festival of gay dance events. But this year, something else happened. The City of New York, which has been cracking down hard on gay sex venues, moved in with a vengeance on nightclubs. Splash was reportedly overrun by police, although no one from the city or the club returned calls for comment. The club has, however, remained open. The other club was shut down. Pacha, the megaclub on the western edge of Hell’s Kitchen, was scheduled to hold two major dance parties for Gay Pride: Victor Calderone’s Pride Evolve on Saturday; and the Saint at Large’s Champions on Sunday night. Champions has been moved to Capitale, a large space on the border of the Lower East Side and Chinatown where Saint at Large has held parties in the past. Mike Peyton, of the Saint at Large, said that anyone with a ticket for Pacha party should simply show up at Capitale, which is the Bowery a few blocks above Canal Street, and the ticket will be honored. Moving the party has cost the Saint at Large probably much, if not most, of the proceeds, which were to go to Heritage of Pride, the organization that runs the march down Fifth Avenue. A notice at Pacha gave the following information for the club shutdown. There has been surveillance of the club since Aug. 11, 2007. Since that time, the warrent said, there have been drugs bought that included Ecstasy in various quantities for about $20 per pill; cocaine, up to as much as $750 worth; marijuana; and "alleged" ketamine (which could mean it was sold as Special K, but might have been a substitute). The warrant cited drug buys within the cub on dates from August 2007 into June 2008, but the big drug buys only started occurring around December of last year. The club remains closed as of this writing. According to some reports, Marquee, a straight club on the "club strip" in West Chelsea, was also shut down by authorities. But many people, both New Yorkers and out-of-towners, are wondering about the timing of these incidents on the biggest all-gay weekend of the

My suggestion would be to consolidate some of the forums and get rid of those that have few entries. Furthermore, I think that Oz, TY, and Marc Anthony should throw a twink party for the rest of us, one with dozens of twink go-go boys.

Jason Castro may be the sleeper in this contest. Great vocals, pretty eyes, cute, and damn that hair!

I emailed KYTop week and he responded. Sometimes one gets busy with other things and the message center takes lower priority. Not everybody has an IV to the forums, like I do!

Well, now that I've seen the contestants Oz, I guess you are rooting for Danny Noriega. I doubt that he or David will be America's Idol though. It certainly won't be Conway...he has less taste than the Pillsbury Doughboy!

You!

I did not see American Idol last night, but someone mentioned to me that a very cute young man sang Lennon's Imagine in a very chilling way. I viewed it at www.towleroad.com

Two books are out now, one written by the father, one by the son, about crystal meth problems. The reviews in the NY Times were enough for me, especially about the son's terrible descent into drugs, and how he turned tricks to pay for his addiction. http://www.nytimes.com/2008/02/26/books/26...amp;oref=slogin

"God bless this recession!" Hey, Conway , imagine the fun you will have in a depression!

Scott, surely you haven't forgoten this friendly post over at the other site: SAdler Wed Jan-23-08 06:26 PM Member since Sep 30th 2002 1422 posts #19. "RE: 4th Annual Palm Springs Hooville Theater Night" In response to Reply # 0 Have fun boys! I'll be at the GayVNs that weekend in SF. But I'm sure Ace will get naked in my honor and the other newcomer boys certainly wont have a problem showing all either It was a lot of fun last year ... maybe new year ( I read "new" as "next")

We felt lucky to have you attend, Townie. Hopefully next year many more MERmen will see what they have been missing. Both Raul and Jason expressed an interest in attending next year, as has Scott Adler and perhaps Dave, the 8-inch tool. Tampa Yankee and Totally Oz have my personal invitation to attend. I hope to see them there next year...in the pool, naked with Jason and friends!

The first time I was at the border there, Burma was not allowing foreigners into the country (except Thais for merchant reasons). But the second visit we were allowed in, so I ventured forth and enjoyed the little town there for a while. It was like time-travel as they were not very advanced. Since white foreigners like myself hadn't been admitted for a long time, I was a bit of a curiosity. Yet every one seemed quite friendly. I would love to vist there as well as Laos.

ET- yes, it's an annual event. Palm Springs gets its best weather starting about now. You can see it in the parking lots- every other vehicle is out of state. In April there's the White Party. I've scheduled it for President's day weekend because out of towners like that extra day off of work to travel. Yet hotels are pricey at the same time, so I have a couple of guys staying with me. It's also determined because of the theater schedule. But if there's enough interest, we can try to move it next year to a non-holiday weekend.

We are looking forward to your arrival. Townie. Next year I think that Tampa Yankee and Totally Oz will both be there. In that event, we will drop the "Hooville" from the name!

Townie, that was a brilliant idea to add the invitation over here. So far, we have received inquires from 11,104 of the 15,027 members. I am hiring extra staff to respond to all those folks, so if you don't hear from me soon, just drop me a line again and I am sure you get a reply...perhaps before next year's event! We may have to rent the convention center next year, and, if that happens, I am turning the whole thing over to Brandon Baker!

Nothing has improved re the laptop seizures. It makes you wonder what happened to the Bill of Rights: http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/conte...ml?hpid=topnews

Stu, I can't imagine that the game will sell anyway as who wants to play a prison game? Anyway, a Washington Post columnist lists the boy's mother as one of the top contenders for vice president if Obama wins the nomination: Washington Post column, The Fix: * Kathleen Sebelius: Perhaps the early leader for Obama's veep pick is Sebelius, now midway through her second term as governor of Kansas. Sebelius's ability to win in strongly Republican Kansas and Obama's personal ties to the Sunflower State make her a fascinating choice.

Well, first ask yourself this question: Would you want to drop the soap in a prison shower? Would your answer change if you were a cute 19 year old straight guy in prison for his first time? I realize that prison sex necessarily involves homosexual acts, but it is not homosexuality, it's just a matter of takiing what is available to satisfy sexual drive. To compare that to the general state of being a homosexual and living a gay lifestyle, I think they are not the same. So, in short, the board game doesn't really bother me as an example of anti-gay bias.

Here's an interesting view from the NY Times: For Gays, a New Era in Politics By ANDREW JACOBS Published: January 28, 2008 The impromptu debate, over light beers and dirty martinis, was at once mundane and remarkable. Provoked by a reporter, four middle-aged men at a Greenwich Village gay bar made fiery pitches for the Democratic presidential front-runners. Two backed Senator Barack Obama, one argued for Senator Hillary Rodham Clinton, and the fourth made an emotional plea for the cause of John Edwards, the former senator from North Carolina. “Edwards is the only one who really cares about the underdog,†one of the men, Farid Martinez, 41, a clothing designer from Brooklyn, shouted above the din at the bar, the Monster, across from Sheridan Square. His friend Edmund Taylor, 37, disagreed, and nearly sputtered with rage: “The guy is a millionaire lawyer obsessed with his hair. Obama is the only one who can really transform this country.†What was notable about the exchange last week was what was not mentioned: the word “gay.†For the first time in two decades, gay voters find themselves in an unusual, if happy, predicament. The three leading Democrats have staked out similar positions on issues that resonate with gay men and lesbians. Although none of the three candidates back gay marriage, they all support same-sex civil unions and say they would fight to repeal the military’s “don’t ask, don’t tell†policy. And each of them says he or she would champion a federal anti-discrimination law that would protect lesbians and gay men. “You would need a magnifying glass to see any real or substantive differences between the three candidates,†said Alan Van Capelle, the executive director of the Empire State Pride Agenda, a gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender civil rights group in New York. The Republican field is a different story. All of the candidates hold opposite positions from the Democrats on those matters, and although gay rights have not dominated the Republican contest so far, if past elections are any guide, they will become an issue after the primaries, political strategists say. For the moment, however, gay voters in New York are looking past the issues that have long guided them toward a candidate. They are talking about the conflict in Iraq, universal health care and whether it is more important to have a president with experience or exuberance. “I think there’s also a lot of excitement over having someone other than George Bush in the White House,†said Matthew W. Carlin, president of the Stonewall Democratic Club, a gay political group that endorsed Senator Clinton in September. “And there’s a feeling that people could be happy with any of the Democrats.†In what many gay leaders described as a fairly momentous occasion, Mrs. Clinton, Mr. Obama and Mr. Edwards showed up at a forum in August sponsored by the gay cable channel Logo and talked about the bravery of gay soldiers, adoption rights for same-sex couples and the problems faced by homeless gay teenagers. All three candidates employ gay strategists at the national and state levels, and in the two weeks leading up to the New York primary on Feb. 5, representatives from each campaign said, they planned to concentrate on the state’s gay vote through mailings and rallies. “We’re going to get the word out best we can to show that Hillary has done more for the community than any other political figure in America,†said Ethan Geto, a veteran Democratic consultant who is the Clinton campaign’s senior policy adviser on gay and lesbian concerns. Although an exact count is elusive, pollsters estimate that lesbians and gay men make up between 5 and 13 percent of the Democratic vote in New York; even if the lower figure is accepted, it is a voting bloc worth courting. Ken Sherrill, a political scientist at Hunter College who studies the gay electorate, said lesbians and gay men are far more likely to be interested in politics than are mainstream voters. “This is a group of people whose lives are intimately affected by government policy,†he said. With about a week left before the primary, the gay vote appears to be mirroring the statewide electorate, which is leaning toward Senator Clinton but has yet to coalesce around one candidate. As one of the state’s most powerful politicians, Mrs. Clinton enjoys widespread institutional support in the gay community; most of the city’s gay Democratic groups have endorsed her, as have the state’s highest-ranking openly gay officials, including the speaker of the New York City Council, Christine C. Quinn, and State Senator Thomas K. Duane of Manhattan. Last week, The New York Blade, a local gay newspaper, endorsed Mrs. Clinton as well. But the campaigns of Mr. Edwards and Mr. Obama have been eagerly courting — and raising money from — gay men and lesbians, and both have put together lists of prominent gay supporters. “Hillary has an advantage, but she certainly does not have a lock on the gay vote,†said Matt Foreman, the executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, who has remained neutral. The Democratic field stands in contrast to the Republican contenders. Mike Huckabee, the former Arkansas governor, has not repudiated his suggestion, made in 1992, that people with AIDS be isolated from the general population. He and the other leading candidates — Senator John McCain of Arizona, former Mayor Rudolph W. Giuliani of New York and Mitt Romney, the former Massachusetts governor — are opposed to same-sex civil unions and any compromise that would allow gays to serve openly in the military. Still, compared with the last two presidential elections, when gay rights were a call to arms among conservatives and an issue to be avoided by Democrats, many political experts agreed that this year, gay-related themes had been overshadowed by the economy, the war in Iraq and illegal immigration. Much seems to have changed since 1988, when the Democratic nominee, Michael S. Dukakis, turned down an offer of a gay fund-raising campaign. Four years later, gay delegates threatened to storm out of the Democratic convention unless Bill Clinton mentioned gays in his acceptance speech. (He did.) In an address last week honoring the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. at a black church in Atlanta, Senator Obama made waves by lecturing the audience about homophobia. “We have scorned our gay brothers and sisters instead of embracing them,†he said during the speech at Ebenezer Baptist Church, where Dr. King served as co-pastor with his father. Joe Solmonese, the president of the Human Rights Campaign, a gay lobbying group, said he thought Mr. Obama’s speech was the first time a presidential candidate had brought up gay issues in front of a nongay audience without being prompted to do so. “This is dramatically refreshing,†he said. “It’s a great day when we can look at a field of candidates and determine that we are comfortable with all of them on gay rights and move on to other issues.†Still, many gay leaders said they are unhappy that none of the Democrats have embraced the cause of gay marriage, even if they understood the political calculus at play. “There’s a feeling that supporting gay marriage would be politically unacceptable,†said Mr. Geto, the Clinton strategist. “Still, we’ve come a long way. Four years ago, civil unions created such a huge firestorm. I think things will be different one or two election cycles from now.â€

How many invitations do you need, Townie? You know, we're not all in the paper business. I ordered engraved invitations and they came back blank. So I hired a calligrapher, and then the writers went on strike, so I'm still left with blank invitations. How about sending one of your boys out here to help me...he could lick the, umm, envelopes! To Mr. Townsend P. Locke, and the 14,902 MERmen, You are cordially invited to the 4th Annual ******** Theater Night, to be held on the sixteenth of February, 2008, in Palm Springs, California. RSVP http://www.samflaxny.com/prodimg/532279.jpg

Sorry we won't see you this year in Palm Springs, KYTop. I've been trying to get my old friend Townsend Locke to return ths year, but no luck yet. Maybe it has to be sponsored by Brandon Baker before he will come...or else we'll just have to set up a paper convention!

"There were parts of the movie that absolutely scared the crap out of me." I hope that you left the seat clean!