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The first time I went to Thermas many years ago, I started by going to the wrong sauna, maybe Casanova. There were lots of hot guys, but everytime I approached one I got a shake of the head. I was like wow, these guys are fussy. O

Hello, thank you for the info. I'll be in Athens next month. I'd be the one wanting to give the BJ, did you get the impression that would also be on offer. Dave

I'm curious about the belief that people are generally on a spectrum when it comes to sexual desire... so some men are happy to have gay sex in some situations, but generally are straight... while some others are truly repulsed.... and vice versa.... I remember an American co-worker in Europe telling us in a bar how much he liked licking another guy's asshole, but the thought of licking a women's vagina was disgusting...and people at a nearby table exchanging glances. It's been my impression straight guys in some countries are more willing to do male escorting than straight guys in other countries. I noticed that Canada did not make the top ten which was kind of surprising, but also not surprising. My feeling is Canadians are more conformist than some countries... ie the United States, and more reluctant to step out from what's considered normal, even if they would like to.

My experience in Colombia was many of the guys didn't look that great in photos... but more than made up for that with their overall masculinity, sexiness, nice dicks and wanting to provide a satisfactory experience.

Some really hot guys on Romeo there... but few responded, and most of those only wanted to know "how" I got their number.

You are correct, there are editing programs that let you easily isolate the part you want to be public, and blur the rest.

I am Canadian and this is not really my business, but I have concerns about retired Canadian citizens with dual citizenship who move permanently back to their other country where they can live much more comfortably on their government pension. I don't judge them for that, I'd probably do the same thing if I could. But still, it rankles. There are claims that ex-pat citizens return to Canada only to receive free medical treatment. Not sure about that since provinces require people to remain residents to get their government medical insurance. Unless somebody rats them though, if they have an address in Canada it's unlikely anybody in the system would ever know they live abroad.

reminds me of the Gilmore Girls episode set at Spring Break in Florida.... "pardon me for thinking a banana eating contest was about eating bananas."

I notice this in Canada with social media making a big deal about protests and anti-protests attended by about a dozen people attacking and defending trans people and all of them arguably there only to get attention on social media. And unfortunately the trans people have become the lightning rod for all the different subsets of people who hate homosexuals, immigrants, women.... basically anybody who they can blame for their own unsuccessful lives or insecurity. The great majority Canadians continue to dislike confrontation in society and prefer to mind their own business despite their own personal likes and dislikes.

I don't know anything about the British justice system. I did cover a lot of court cases in Canada over a thirty year period as a news reporter. The terms like innocence and somebody being "cleared" are often used by the media when they should be used only rarely. You're right people are presumed innocent when the trial begins and they're still presumed innocent when the trial is over if they're not convicted. But presumed innocent and truly innocent are completely different. Presumed innocent is a legal term... the word innocent has a much broader meaning including what is actually the truth. That's because in Canadian courts in a not guilty verdict... the judge, or jury, usually find there was not enough evidence to convict the accused beyond a reasonable doubt. In the U.S. OJ was cleared in criminal court, but convicted in civil court. So is he innocent or not? I have seen on occasion a judge say at the end of the trial that he/she/they "accepts the evidence of the accused completely," or in its "entirety." That's the closest I've seen to somebody being cleared.

I can understand that. Fellow Canadians can disagree with me, but I feel we have an aversion to seeing romantic intimate moments between couples in public, including kissing (ie more than just lips touching briefly). So much so that somebody sucking dick would cause less discomfort that a couple sucking each others tongues.

Horrible murders happen every day in Canada, my home country. I wouldn't advise anybody to stay away because of that.

A stripper I wasn't remotely interested in at Flash club in Toronto wouldn't leave, and then I accidentally knocked my drink over and it poured off the table onto him. I felt guilty as if I had subconsciously knocked it over. He was also very upset. I haven't been to Flash in a long time, but I had some really good times in the little lap dance rooms.

On my trip to Colombia last winter all of the guys I met except one had no trouble getting hard so I just assumed they were taking pills.

Based on my experience arranging a meet with one guy, getting a number of guys would take a better man than me when it comes to persuasiveness. Or a lot of money. Maybe paying a guy who works at a place where many models are doing shows and get him to find the guys.

Completely agree, paborn. I am always filled with gratitude to the beautiful young men who are willing to be with me. Yes, it's for money. But I don't look down on people who sell their bodies for money, anybody who works for a living is basically doing the same thing, and are often forced to do things they don't like. There is so much hypocrisy and double standards. I've met straight guys on vacations who boast about finding women who will share their accommodation rent free with them in return for sex with the guy. Nobody looks down on them.

Ha, ha, google translated it as the hill of the six squares, but I get the impression it has a more nuanced meaning in this reference. For a future trip, is this a hike it's okay for a tourist to do alone on Sundays when it's busy. I'm asking because I was going to do a similar hike in Cali, but I read tourists shouldn't do it alone...I'm assuming for safety reasons.

Ferchos Masajes, it's a place you can send a Whatsapp message asking for photos of guys who are available that day. The two days I asked it was the same about 30 or 40 guys. You can message back with your choice and time and they confirm with the guy and message you back. You can meet the guy at a place that rents rooms for sex. I can't remember if having the guy meet you somewhere else is an option, I think it is. I can't remember the price. It wasn't much. Both times I think they tried to get me to transfer the money to a bank account, but I don't speak Spanish, so I'm not certain. I said that was impossible with my foreign bank account and went at the appointed time and the guy was there so I guess it's not a deal breaker. (Do you remember the, "that's a deal breaker" sketches on SNL. My favourite was, "if he says his brother's name during sex, that's a deal breaker."} Anyway, the guys in the photos are not male models. But blue collar guys are my favourite and the two guys I booked with great. I asked for tops so I don't know if you would get different photos if you asked for something else.

Well, I didn't make up the quote. It came from a comment you were responding to. I didn't realize doing that would attribute the comment to you. So you didn't make the statement, and I didn't make it up.

I met up with a guy from Chaturbate in Medellin and had a great time. But it took several paid sessions with him on Chaturbate and a lot more money than is typical in Colombia. I didn't resent it at all, he's in business and he did the best he could to get the most money he could. In the end, we met up and he more than lived up to what he agreed so no complaints. My impression is none of the web guys will commit to a meeting until you are in Medellin or at least Colombia. Probably because they've heard it a lot before from fakers, plus they want you to keep buying time with them online. Mostly because of all the effort involved with the one guy, I didn't follow up with any of the others I had hoped to meet. The blue collar type guys at Ferchos are perfect for me.

Interesting, I was at a friend's place and we saw two young guys walking by. I mentioned one of them was a new police officer in town, ( he was hot) and she replied they must be a couple. I asked why and she said, they look identical... ie haircuts, clothes, builds. I hadn't ever heard that before or since until here.

I am at the low end of expertise on this site when it comes to saunas, but the saunas I went to in Colombia are not like the saunas I've been to in Brazil. The Brazil saunas in the big cities had many young men looking for customers while the few saunas I went to Colombia had a masseur you could pay for extras or had one or two tops on call. The ones on call I spent time with all arrived in a relatively short period of time from when they got the call. So almost no choice, but they were all wonderful.

The Chaturbate guy I hooked up with definitely tried to get me to pay for as many sessions on his site as possible before settling on details after I arrived in Medellin. Then he convinced me to give him a bonus at the end of our meeting. Even still, for a two hour meeting it was a better deal than I'd get at home, and he was, for me, about as hot as a guy can be.

The two cities I was talking about were Pereira and Manizales. In Pereira I met a Venezuelan guy from the mileroticos escort site. I saw him twice. In Manizales, the Thermas sauna had two Venezuelan tops on call, to me both were fantastic. One was a big jock looking type of guy, the other was a lot more of a blue collar looking guy. The Pilatos sauna in Manizales had one Venezuelan top on call. Also very attractive and very eager to fuck, I had to keep fending him off because his dick was way too thick for me to accommodate. The saunas are the most convenient and had a room with a bed that was bigger than the regular cabins with a narrow massage type table. I also noticed in Colombia that the locker areas were also visible from the front counters... I assume to prevent thefts. As you can see, there wasn't a lot of choice at the saunas, but all of the men were really hot to me. Both cities are jumping off points for tourist activities. I stayed at a coffee farm outside Manizales for two nights. It was a wonderful place. Mileroticos escort site has lots of guys including Venezuelans. Others in this group can provide more information about Medellin, but I expect there are a lot of Venezuelans there.

Agree. An apology that's not sincere is worthless to me. But I would love a big pile of U.S. dollars.