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I went on a small sauna binge in mid January to mid Feb. I'm turning 66 this summer and not sure how long my health and available cash will last so decided to go for the sort of splurge I've always wanted to do at Thermas and Aquarius in Istanbul. Lots of hot men at Thermas, but somewhat unfortunately very few customers so I had to do a lot of fending guys off. But the solution was just to spend a lot of time in the massage rooms with different guys., They were all great, with not surprisingly one of the Venezuelan guys being my best time. I like guys that have, or can put on, a rough edge. I think it purely natural with him. Honourable mention to a gentle looking hot Colombian who turned into a beast when asked. One thing about Barcelona was the hotel rooms seemed very expensive and in the end I just got a room and a bathroom in an apartment a few blocks from Thermas. On the flight out of town, the woman sitting next to me said there was a really big tech convention in Barcelona that week. I was in Istanbul at the beginning and the end of my trip. Despite the shortcomings of the sauna, I love the Kurdish men there and they've become much more physically engaged in the activities I like. There's a guy I first met there about 10 years ago. At that time he was in the front lobby area in street clothes when I walked in and it was like love at first site. I wasn't sure if he was a masseur, but I stared at him and he nodded back. And he's been there every time since. I still get that rush the first time I see him. The icing on the cake was Marrakesh where an escort on Hunqz with his own apartment set me up with himself and two other guys. All sub Saharan (Nigeria, Ivory Coast and Senegal) and all so hot. That's been a fantasy for a long time and I was so happy that it came true. Of course the whole trip cost a lot of money, but the money in itself wasn't an issue and I did some of the things I've always wanted to do.

Thanks for the insight into the business side of things. It's more organized than I thought it would be.

Was staying in an airbnb last month in a quiet coastal town north of Sousse. Only a few young men. Only on my last day was spent in Tunis. Holy cow, there were so many hot young men there. No sex, but enjoyed the sights.

Did you see him. Met him on the first night of my last visit and became obsessed. He was so hot. Didn’t see him again during rest of trip.

I am just finishing my first trip to Tunisia. I am very timid and had no sex. I made a big mistake in renting an Airbnb on the coast north of Sousse about a 20 minute drive. I spent one afternoon in Sousse, where I realized I'm not confident enough to find a guy. In the small shopping area along where I stayed a guy hanging around said sex twice to me, but I kept walking. He was out there the next day and approached me and said sex again. I looked around and shrugged like where and nodded at a little grocery store. I just shook my head. There was just something dodgy about him and I didn't trust him.

I've been watching a lot of Nigerian porn and there's gay stuff. What's interesting to me is the amount of touching between men in the straight porn. From a guy in a threesome reaching over to put the other guy's dick back in the woman to full on sex. There's a lot of stroking the other guy's butt cheeks suggesting to me there's a lot more anal going on between Nigerian men than I would of thought. A mostly straight male escort told me once there's no difference fucking a girl's ass and a guy's ass. So much so he stopped anal with women because it reminded him too much of work. I should add though there seems to be less of the bi-ish stuff in the porn which is too bad.

Some of the most beautiful men in the world, imo, along with Iran and Afghanistan. Why, oh why.

I love it when the same word means quite different things in North American English and British English. Homely is one. I had no idea on a biking trip in Australia what a fanny is there and in the UK when I asked a middle aged British woman if she had found her fanny pack. Fortunately a bilingual Anglo speaker quickly intervened.

I did three bookings there last month, everything went smoothly, rooms were comfortable and bright. Two of the bookings were with Faber (not sure of the spelling) I am a little in love. He's hot.

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That's the company my bank red flagged, not because there's a problem with the company,the bank just doesn't like customers doing it.

I did once to Colombia from Canada,$100... but it was a hassle and I won't ever do it again. My bank red flags the money sending service and I got a call from the bank before they would release the money and a lecture about what a stupid thing it is to do.

My Uber driver/guide took me to Santa Elena this week to see a flower farm. Unfortunately most of the flowers had been knocked down the day before by a hail storm. But the owner was a delight to meet. He's been carrying one of big flower saddles on his back in the annual parade for about 50 years I think. It's his life.

Also interesting in that I was born in Canada at a time when mothers were being told for sanitany reasons circumcision was better. So lots were cut at that time.

You know, for whatever reason that's something I almost never notice, or not to the extent that I would remember. It's interesting though.

Last year in Paris I booked a guy off Hunqz who looked a lot like what I think a Romanian gypsy looks like or should look like, and what I find attractive. Skinny as a rail and a huge dick. And turned out to be a little scary.

Oh those Venezuelans!! Went by St Moritz in Bogota yesterday and there are two Venezuelan brothers working there. Wow, once I mentioned feet, they really started working me over with their feet, hands and cocks. Depending on your tastes they are really hot, really masculine. They were rough, but not too rough. It was heaven.

I go to the Super A supermarket in my town usually about once a week, they have a great meat section with reasonable prices, but I have a sense this is not the same thing. 🤔

The most terrifying words I've ever read. 🤡🤡🤡🤡

So, so true. My first Venezuelan was a male escort in Toronto. Incredibly good masculine looks, a fantastic athletic body and regular nice guy personality. I was laying on my stomach between his legs, mouth on his dick and eyes on his face and I was so overwhelmed with happiness I started giggling, he didn't like that, and I explained myself. He wasn't online in Toronto for long. I think foreign students there sometimes do enough escorting to get the money they need. And some even come to Canada for a short period to earn their tuition, etc for university back home.

This continues to happen relatively frequently in Canada despite police departments continually saying they're well aware of it. And it's not all whacked out drug addicts swinging axes at people as some like to portray the deaths. It's often harmless overweight men with genetic or injury related personality disorders that are reported to police as on drugs. In one Toronto incident it was a overweight man in his fifties with the mind of a 10 year old as a result of a car crash when he was a child....he was brain damaged and deaf when police mistook him for a suspect. When he couldn't hear them yelling at him they ran after him, he was frightened and ran too. They caught him, took him down on the sidewalk where he died in in handcuffs. His mother had taken him out for a walk to get ice cream. She caught up to them just in time to watch him die. It was determined to be a tragic accident. How could police know he might suffocate when he was lying face down on the sidewalk with his hands cuffed behind his back? One of the police officers responsible who saw his lips turn blue and testified at the inquest seemed oddly indifferent saying he didn't even realize the man had died until watching the news the next day. The mother said she asked one of the police officers if she could have a ride to the hospital where her son's body was being taken. He told her to call a taxi. (they do make exceptions for attractive women coming out of bars, one Toronto officer was convicted in two separate sexual assaults on women in his police vehicle.) Police in Canada are generally oblivious to their impact on innocent Canadians' lives. I think it's related to their bosses and unions telling them they're on one side and the public is on the other and all their actions are justified.

An acquaintance here in Canada who did prison time Arizona, drugs, told us it was all the pussy she could eat.

The only close to a Penthouse Forum experience I ever had was when I was staying in an apartment on a six week out of town work assignment. There was a tall lanky carpenter living across the hall and every morning I'd see him walking to work, work belt around his hips and I'd sigh with lust. One evening he saw me in the hallway and invited me in for a whiskey. We drank a lot of whiskey, to the point that I went and sat cross legged on the floor right below where he was sitting on the couch. Incredibly after a few minutes he reached a foot out to my lap.... I began stroking it and he suggested we get naked. As soon as that happened I leaned over and took his cock in my mouth... sadly he pulled away but leaned his head over to me so I rose up and put my tongue in his mouth. He pushed me away laughing.... and said he wanted to fuck me bareback and then I should fuck him. This was when HIV and AIDs were a lot more serious and I wasn't keen on the bareback... I was just trying to convince him on oral when his drunk girlfriend started pounding on the door and yelling to let her in. He told me to grab my stuff and go to the bathroom. He let her in and when they went into the living room I escaped to my apartment. The next morning I found my shirt hanging on my door. And when I saw him later that day I said, are we cool, and he said yes. But we never spoke again. I think the alcohol was enough to loosen his inhibitions, but I'd say he was mostly straight. He was so hot though, I hated his girlfriend.

While not an expert on gay British novelist/writer Quentin Crisp, he wrote that during the Second World War it wasn't difficult to find American soldiers willing to fuck him in alleys outside pubs in London when he dressed in drag. I've always thought a lot of straight men will fuck anything in the right circumstances... as I heard an elderly lady characterize men on a call-in show once, "if they can't eat it, they screw it." The look on the show host's face was delicious.

Reader's earlier post sort of answered my question... this is the type of fellow I am interested in. Older guys would be my best chance maybe.