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Tomcal

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  1. I know a wealthy American who didn’t learn the first time and ended up paying 2 different guys 5 years apart! the law as i understand it, is that if a partner is living with you 1 year he becomes entitled to 1/2,your assets(Brazilian). so either pay them a monthly check as a houseboy/butler/gardener or kick them out before the 12th month! Because the boys all know the rule!! and in this persons case, both guys exited at 1 year and one day to go live with their girlfriends, and sue for 1/2 the assets!
  2. i don’t know any of the more attractive popular guys that go for $100.r... and i think i have a pretty good pulse on the market there! just saying! (you are talking $13.40 US difference between $100.R and $150.R) I know for a fact that some clients lie when they say how much they pay...i guess they are embarrassed they pay more!
  3. Very true! i would guess 1/2 last less then a year, another 25% last 5 years, and then there are the ones that are there until their grandchildren can support them! One guy at 117 i met in 2001 still works there!
  4. I should add that we were talking about his major in college and what kind of career he wanted to have and in the course of that he said “ i know i will not start off making as much as i do prostituting myself(his words)but i hate doing it!” He works to help his Mother and grandmother with rent and usually works one to two nights a week. i asked him how much he makes and that’s when he told me how much he made. i asked him “on average how many Programmas he does a night, 2 or 3?” He said “no usually 4 or 5”.
  5. I was talking to a sauna guy tonight, he is 20 yrs old, a sophomore in college, extremely gdlkg(imo), 8” dick and really a nice guy! so he has all the major assets! he told me when he works at 117 or MR he does usually 4 or 5 programmas a night and usually goes home with $700 - 900.R on a good night! while he looks 20, he is not a twink, well developed body, semi Muscular, i would enclose photos but we know where that road leads!i
  6. I don't think Badboy ever posted photos..at least not nude ones so let's not put him under the microscope. I have stopped posting all pics and will soon stop posting as well, as I think I have imparted all the knowledge I have to give, and their are new posters that are more then up to the job! I have noticed in the last year there are newer posters who are knowlegable and write well(Numazu1). One point, gays are often most criticized and attacked by other gays who feel the power of the keyboard warrior! I am always suspicious of someone who has been a member one day and starts critiquing in their first posts(are they really new or just chicken to post under their first name on here to make a point!?), other long term members/posters, imho. anyhow, guys try to enjoy what information this forum can provide you. and if you are in Brazil or Mexico and see me say Hi! 1
  7. FloridaRob speaks fluent Spanish(and Portuguese)has lived on and off in Mexico for years and currently owns 2 restaurants in Mexico, so he doesn’t have “to learn a bit of the language” nor does he “stick out like a gringo sore thumb”...expect for his pale never see daylight skin!(he’s Irish!) só I take his recommendations seriously...i may not follow them all the time but i find his advise to visitors is pretty right on!
  8. For many years this site had 90% of their “Models” from the saunas! Both videos and stills! then sometime it went off line in the last year and now it is back on but w/o the previous years models around 150 or so. The new owners bought the site but not the vids/photos of the models so now it has only a dozen or so(not very attractive imho) models on it! my question is does anyone know if their another site that has the other 150 guys on it? Many would be known to the guys that went to pointe and 117 from about 2006 - 2015
  9. Short answer is NO! it has cold(but scenic winters) the sauna on it’s best night is poorly attended, it is a majority white population of german, Polish and Ukaranian immigrants. A friend of mine visted last month and said he was bored by the second day, sex wise one the worse cities to visit imho.
  10. Photos posted on this site are being shared with sauna guys! There is a member here that has been doing it for at least 2 months. One of our regular posters was contacted while he was in Rio yesterday to say that the guy had seen the photo and even thou it did not show his face or him naked he was upset! This is the second time in the last 6 weeks this has happened. So it has to be a member on here who is doing itl I am going to stop posting period, and go back to sharing with guys I know personally and only correspond through email. there is always some jerk that ruins it for everyone else.
  11. https://www.wsj.com/articles/in-mixed-race-brazil-sperm-imports-from-u-s-whites-are-booming-1521711000
  12. There is a sauna about a 1/2 hour outside of centro that i have not been to, but one night i had a party at my place and a young guy who is the cashier there came over and told me about it! Florida Rob has been there, i was told it is good only on the nights it has the “everyone is naked” theme and it does not have escorts
  13. First ForidaRob moved there 4 years ahead of me so that started the slide in to debauchery!! well it all arranged! 3 of us are arriving Thursday within a 1/2 hour of each other all on different airlines(Merida is a small but international airport!) the other guys arrive the next day! I told the cleaning staff to do their work thursday and then don’t come back for 2 weeks!(all of these guys are very neat and no one leaves their shit laying around), i am actually the messiest! the one i am actually close to being in love with(but not yet)! But he is already planning out the 12 days we are there since he already has visited and knows the venues!
  14. I originally planned on spending 12 days at my house in Mexico in mid January with my favorite guy from Sao Paulo who had been there last may. first a little recent history! I met him through a sauna guy i had known for 3 years, but he had never worked in a sauna. when I was in Sao Paulo a few weeks ago I asked him what he wanted to do and he said "could we go see lagoa?" I answered yes so fast I think I scared him! He is 25 and lived in SP his whole life but never been to the sauna! Since it was the weekend by the time we got there at 6:30 it was very busy We ran into a guy I knew from Rio and met two other guys I knew and I asked him if he was interested in going with any of them? He said Yes but only with you....so the 5 of us went up to a room and had a really great time, part of it was due to the fact we knew each other. the next night we repeated going to Lagoa again and met up with different guys. So when I was there I arranged for him to come to Mexico in January. it turns out he is good friends with the Brazilian who works in the travel agency in Cancun, who used to dance at the Boardwalk in Ft.Lauderdale and who I met 3 years ago! So he asked if he could come over for a week when we are there and given that he is gdlkg, and has a 9" thick dick, sealed the deal! So we figured the 3 of us would have a great time, then 4 days ago a Guy I met last year in Rio and was only with one night but we hit it off and have stayed in contact when he moved to Barcelona earlier this year! He called to say he was coming to Cancun but wanted to know if he could stay with us in Merida for a week when we are there? so I shared his photo with the two other guys and he got two thumbs up! and everyone said the 4 of us will all fit in a King size bed! Then tonight I got a call from a Mexican guy who lives in Mexico city and met at a party I had when I first got the house 2 years ago. He had a BF at the time but he was a pretty wild guy, he called to see when I was going to be in Merida and when I told him the date but said there were 3 Brazilians staying with me and he goes "great! are they hung?" lol I told him that while there are two master bedrooms everyone was staying in the one and there wouldn't be room for him this time. He goes "I can fit!" I said I would ask the 3 Brazilians and see what they thought...they all said "Its going to be 10 days of parties! we can put 4 more guys in the other bedroom!"
  15. When it comes to Mexico Rob is the expert! He lives there and has been to most of the places where you can find guys! Maybe even created a few new ones! :-)
  16. I talked to one of the sauna owners and he had heard the same story but no one I have talked to knew which guys were involved or who the client was, but assumed that they were trying to keep it quiet... 5 different sauna guys I know also heard the same story but unlike the incident that happened to the French guy 5 or 6 years ago, there has been no verification or names given
  17. Probably i have taken more guys back to my hotel and Apt. in the last 17 years , then most on this site. I have never had a issue, but a couple or steps i take to reduce a unpleasant issue from happening! 1) i never take a person back to my place alone the first couple times i am with him! I have usually 2 other to 4 guys staying with me all guys i know well! First rule never be with a person alone in your apt. the first time! Even if they are just friends not sex companions! why i always have a 2?’ bedroom apt!(aside from the fact that it is too difficult for 4 people to sleep in bed all night after the fun is done!) 2) Always make sure it is a sauna guy who ID is on record, and that several people know you are going back to your place together and he knows you have told them. 3) Almost all the guys i have met and stayed over who don’t work in the sauna i have met through sauna guys who are longer term friends of mine! 4) if it is someone you just have to go with that night because you are so obsessed then take him to one of the many sex motels! My current namorado i met through a sauna guy i have been seeing for almost 4 years! He brought this friend to Rio with him to spend 5 days with the 4 of us staying there together and it turns out we had a great connection and have been dating since!
  18. I just heard that a customer was murdered after going back to his place with 2 guys last Friday night...that's all I know so far.
  19. I got 12 messages from sauna guys today all of whom I know well and they all had heard about the incident!(they are bigger gossips then we are! lol) and to a person they said I was really dumb to resist!....I agree!
  20. I don’t believe they had any idea what type of phones we had! it was dark and there is no way he could have been able to determine has they all were in the grip of our hands! it was one Samsung and one iphone 7, mine is a 8+ but as i was just walking out of the building he would not have been able to tell what i had in my hand. also they were driving a newer model jeep!
  21. it was a Solid metal door...thank god!
  22. let me say I agree with the above comments 110%! i should have not been so dumb and just gave them what he wanted! i just didn’t have. time to think!

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