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You can locate prospective short timers by a much more basic—and less expensive—method than apps and bars. If walking in and around the Silom-Surawong area, don’t be shy about directing a smile in direction of young man who catches your fancy. Don’t be surprised if you get a smile, or even head turn in response. Many pedestrians who populate this area, especially in the evening, are likely on same business as you. Even if just sitting at bar on Patpong, scan the passing faces of solo young men. And don’t forget that waiters and bartenders are offable as well as those performers you’ll find upstairs. And on any given evening, the staff from Dreamboy hang around outside bar, hoping for just such an event.

Just booked a biz fare out of Chicago on ANA for late September that was actually 25% less than my May departure. Be persistent and flexible and you have a good chance of finding that sweet spot. Regardless of the price of fuel, short-term cash flow needs can create temporary bargains.

I was staying at the old Dusit Thani hotel on the evening of the fatal GSM fire in Chinatown. The sirens of passing fire vehicles droned on for over an hour. According to press accounts, one guest from Singapore was killed and 36 were injured. The blaze was reported at 8:30p.m. and raged for hours. Photos show patrons being rescued from an aerial platform with only towels wrapped around them. The article makes mention of DJ Station.

From Bangkok Post The 300-baht tourism fee faces a delay in implementation, beginning in the fourth quarter at the earliest, while the cancellation of Thailand Pass is expected from July 1, according to the Tourism and Sports Ministry. The ministry also plans to propose on June 17 the Centre for Covid-19 Situation Administration (CCSA) terminate Thailand Pass registration for international visitors from July 1. “Fee collection for tourists arriving by land requires further study, such as determining if the fee amount should be less than 300 baht because the average length of stay for these visitors is only 1-2 nights," said Phiphat Ratchakitprakarn, Tourism and Sports Minister.“ "Eliminating the Thailand Pass system means tourists don't have to buy travel insurance anymore, which should help make travel more convenient," he said.

I think worldwide inflation is already taking its took on the long haul travel market. Carriers are beginning to acknowledge that fare increases are having negative effect on bookings 2-4 months out. They’re finding just how much the consumer is willing to pay, especially for premium seats. This creates a cash flow problem in the near term. Airlines are caught in an ever tightening bind due to rapidly rising fuel prices. In the past they relied on hedging but that runs the risk of committing to higher prices now without knowing if world events might result in change in fuel costs going forward. From the customer point a view, there appears to be a window of opportunity to find promotional fares now for travel in the fall.

Hope to have an answer to that question before week’s end.

The long is no, do not pay anything in advance. I’ve been asked a few times to tip in advance and always refuse.

A great question with a not so great answer. But city hall is a good place to begin looking. it was in 2003 when the responsibility for fire suppression was shifted from the Metropolitan Police to the newly formed Bangkok Fire and Rescue Department. But 80% of the members of force held police ratings and chose to remain members of that force while continuing to work in the fire service. How fire safety laws are promulgated, and what agency is given enforcement powers has much to do with the outcome. The city’s building department has wide authority to oversee many of the conditions that could create a hazard to life and property. After the fact, it appears that the police have the responsibility for determining the cause of fires. The fire department appears to be primarily a response asset in the greater scheme of things in Bangkok. This article from the Bangkok Post in 2012 claims that 82% of buildings ignored fire regulations: https://www.bangkokpost.com/learning/advanced/1228742/fire-safety-82-of-buildings-ignore-fire-regulations We’d certainly like to think that that the record has improved in the succeeding decade. For those who’ve been to any crowded venue, your chance of surviving a fire depends on a handful of critical factors. Some of these include the capacity and availability of the exit ways, the presence of automatic water sprinklers, activation of a fire detection system to provide early warning and the response time of the fire department. But I think it’s wise to bear in mind Floridarob’s experience the next time you find yourself in a crowded venue when your mind is understandably on other things.

You’d have been crazy not to. Has the potential to become another Coconut Grove catastrophes.

A fire broke out late this afternoon at DJ Station on Silom Soi 2. The fire department knocked it down fairly quickly but smoke filled the area. It reportedly originated in electrical equipment. Soi 2 was closed off this evening.

Reminds of similar prejudice against blacks: “Yes, but not in my backyard.”

I can’t think of anyplace else on the globe where the struggle for gay rights was won outside of the political arena. Gay rights and gay pride are inseparable concepts.

From Thai PBS World Bangkok governor says Pride Month should also cover political diversity Pride Month should not just be confined to sexual diversity, but should cover other diversities, such as politics, to put an end to division and promote mutual understanding, said Bangkok Governor Chadchart Sittipunt as he participated in a Pride Month celebration at the Bangkok Art and Culture Centre today (Saturday). Political diversity means acceptance of various political opinions, without having to fight with or hate each other, he said. The governor planted a rainbow flag, with activists for gender equality and feminists, to mark the launch of Pride Month which, he said, will be one of the 12 monthly festivals in Bangkok. He also said that the city administration, under his governorship, plans to extend health services to cover LGBTQ+ groups, providing them with medical counseling.

Anything is possible, Maybe he is shriveled up old man with sagging biceps. But I think not. Whenever I’m prompted to see defects in my old fantasies, I’m shocked back to reality by looking in the mirror.

I’m simply saying—as a gay man who has repressed his sexuality— I now can appreciate the cost of those years. I’m heartened by the courage I witnessed on Silom yesterday by those who believe that change is indeed possible. To quote T.E. Lawrence, “Nothing is written.”

Speaking as someone who was actually there on the ground, and saw the faces of those celebrating the moment, I can assure you it was simply not a case of glitz and lipstick. These were predominantly a cross section of young people reveling in the joy of celebrating who they truly are and enjoying themselves. They were unafraid to to be themselves—and I envied their courage. I come from that older generation of westerners who had to guard their sexuality for personal or professional reasons. Consequently we never experienced the freedom and exhilaration of being proud of our underlying identity. Bangkok provided the profound but temporary release from the bounds. I hope we can all celebrate the the fact that the young gays who gathered in Silom Sunday do not share our repression. Bangkok’s new governor is reported to be among those waving a gay banner. He provides hope and sustenance to those who braved elite society’s ignorance and discrimination on a given day inJune, 2022.

Speaking as someone who was actually there on the ground, and saw the faces of those celebrating the moment, I can assure you it was simply not a case of glitz and lipstick. These were predominantly a cross section of young people reveling in the joy of celebrating who they truly are and enjoying themselves. They were unafraid to to be themselves—and I envied their courage. I come from that older generation of westerners who had to guard their sexuality for personal or professional reasons. Consequently we never experienced the freedom and exhilaration of being proud of our underlying identity. Bangkok provided the profound but temporary release from the bounds. I hope we can all celebrate the the fact that the young gays who gathered in Silom Sunday do not share our repression. Bangkok’s new governor is reported to be among those waving a gay banner. He provides hope and sustenance to those who braved elite society’s ignorance and discrimination on a given day inJune, 2022.

Talking from experience, I had the distinct pleasure of running g my hand along Nicky’s back over three three years ago (as he sat beside me at Moonlight) and wrote about it in this forum. I described the muscularity. Trust me, he’s muscular. An esteemed member was impressed by my observation and offed him some months later and I believe he would agree.

From Channel News Asia BANGKOK: Thailand's capital saw an explosion of glamour, gilt, and glitter on Sunday (Jun 5) as the country's LGBTQ community celebrated their first Pride parade in almost 16 years - but attendees warned true equality was still distant. Bangkok's Naruemit Pride 2022 - Naruemit means creation in Thai - was organised by a coalition of non-governmental groups with the city's newly ratified governor Chadchart Sittiput also throwing his weight behind it. Allies and people of all genders, including drag artists, sex workers, feminists and even a few furries - people who are interested in or dress up as animal characters with human personalities - bounded down one of the megalopolis's main throughways for the first official parade since 2006. "I feel so happy," said grinning drag queen Johnnie Phurikorn, who had paired his red lipstick with an exuberant scarlet ruffled dress for his first Pride. "I feel glad and thankful to have this moment," the 31-year-old said, but added that his country needed to do more to support LGBTQ individuals. While the Southeast Asian nation has a highly visible LGBTQ community, many still face major hurdles and discrimination in the conservative Buddhist-majority kingdom.

Freshly in office at City Hall, Bangkok’s newly elected governor yesterday vowed a return to “normal life” including no face mask rules and later closing times for nightlife venues, the Thaiger is reporting. Chadchart on Sunday also proposed allowing night owls to remain at bars and nightclubs until 2am. Currently, the law requires they shut by midnight. Chadchart said the extended hours would reduce overcrowding, attract more tourists, and benefit the economy, as long as strict health measures are in place. “When alcohol sales were banned during the pandemic, many sought to drink in the streets,” Chadchart said. “I think it’s better to allow nightlife venues to open until later and regulate them.”

Just noticed yesterday that Olivia’s has reopened in a new location on Silom road in the vicinity of Soi 2 with a mostly all-male staff. Formerly with locations on Surawong and Soi Tarntawan (about where Tawan is situated today), the group of about 10 guys I think warrants further investigation. I’d been a satisfied customer of Olivia’s in the pre-Covid days and hope it lives up to the memories. All we’re sitting outside the shop Sunday, smiling in their blue polo shirts. https://www.facebook.com/OmassageKSPA/

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Have to confess that I was unaware of the Gay Pride parade that took place today. As I stepped off the BTS at Saladeang about 6:45, I was quickly made aware by the raucous crowd assembled on Silom opposite the Silom Complex. Police had closed off one side of the road and the street was populated with hundreds of celebrants. For a run down on other events associated with the 2022 observance of Gay Pride: https://www.lifestyleasia.com/bk/culture/events/pride-month-2022-events-in-bangkok/

Adam Massage on Soi 4 is open and has an all male staff. But I recommend talking with the guy you have in mind to be sure you’re on the same page before committing. It’s a well-run shop with adequate rooms and lock box (shower down the hall and tea/water after. 400 1 hour a week ago). Bangkok Massage remains closed. Unsure about Arena.

From the Thaiger: Thailand’s party-pooper-in-chief, Public Health Minister Anutin Charnvirakul, has made another spurious claim to Thailand’s media. He’s predicted that Thailand’s Covid infections could soar to 10,000, a day, now that Thailand’s nightlife has ‘officially’ reopened. He said that the numbers of new coronavirus cases could “soar” within 3-5 days after the country’s entertainment venues were given the official nod on June 1. From Bangkok Post: PHUKET: Mandatory wearing of face masks in public areas is back on the island province, just two days after the restriction was removed. Governor Narong Woonciew on Friday signed an order rescinding a previous one dated May 31 which allowed people to take off face masks while in open public spaces provided they maintain social distancing of at least 2 metres.