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Just wants to share that when im home, i also have regulars i went to, usually from neighboring countries. There is one in particular that usually let me know whenever he is in town, but we dont have any contact whenever he is home. The rest of my regulars here work either in massage centers or used to work there and then went freelance, but almost no one contacted me just to chat, but usually available when i contacted them. One of them said that a lot of their customers have family/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend etc, so they usually wont contact them out of respect of their privacy. One of my regular from thailand used to work in a center and did gave me his contact, and later added me to his line. At that time im not a line user, so it always gets ignored, and somehow i lost his contact and heard he isnt coming back, working at farm or something. Few month after, saw his ads at gboysiam that he is in bkk, then about a year or so, he came back to the massage center. Went to him again and this time around he never gives me his line but nevertheless his service is still as good as ever. These few month, authority are gearing up on catching illegal workers here and that center have been raided few times, and i havent heard from him since.

Just as we quickly forget nonperformers, boys quickly forgets the non regular. And its true that previously, line make it hard for you to backup data, so its easy to lose chat history if u change to new phone, but now they already have easy backup system. That said, it wont protect the boy from losingg contact if their phone broke, they forget password etc or simply didnt know how to backup chat. My regular asked me why i didnt put picture in my line, i guess because he changed his phone and lose chat history so when i text him for my next visit, he dont know who i am until the day we met lol. On the show, my regular didnt do shows, so i have no such problem, but some of my off before, did asked me to wait for him to finish shows before i can off him, which i am us ok with, other times it was me who asked if i can stay for the show first before going back and boys usually ok with that too, and dont mind sitting with you in the regular cloth after u have paid the off fee.

Another great thread with a lot of personal experiences shared. I have limited experiences since ive been to bkk only 3 times, but i have made one contact through line on my second visit. Ive only been to his bar once, and then on subsequent repeat, its always him coming to me at my hotel, and i pay both off fee and tips before he leaves. On my third visit, ive pre-arranged with him a week before my flight, but forgot to remind him the day before and no details on when i want to meet him either. I line him few hours before, he says he couldnt coz he has another customer, but i managed to meet him two more times on that trip so all is not lost. Regarding keeping contacts, after my second visit, he has been texting me quite often, almost every other day, then to once a week then to just some ocassion like holiday. I guess since i dont visit thailand as often, he stopped bothering me after my third visit lol. I am still going to line him on my next visit for sure though.

Did any of the guys you off from this bar do long time vinapu?

If only the mamasan were pushy like that when i was there, it was admittedly when moonlight just opened for less than a month, but it seems like they dont even want us to buy drinks for model at all. Almost none of the model were seen sitting with customer when i was there, even after show ends.

This is where we are different vinapu, i prefer the boy shorter or equal my height, maybe a tad bid more but not too tall.

Hunky twink is called twunk lol and pretty twink is called glamour twink

Its easy to find pictures of twink vs muscle vs bear. Just google in the many gay porn websites

Yup definitely sounds more indonesian, but i can understand eitherway hehe

Apps?

There is 0% chance of contracting the virus if your partner is not carrying the virus. So out of your 30 guys, perhaps a significant number of them dont have it, or yeah you are simpy lucky. I dont know about hiv susceptibility of a person to the virus, itll be an interesting read if there's a research done on it but that will means exposing the virus to willing volunteers.

Its simple. Its about statistic and probability. So we are talking about sample size. Using coin toss as example isnt a good idea since success and fail has the same exact odds. Let me use another example to explain the logic. Throwing a die, you got 1/6 odds to get one number. If success criteria is u getting number 6, then your odds for 1 event is 1/6, and failure is getting any other number, and the odds Is 5/6. Now if u have 100 number of events, meaning u throw the die 100 times, and success criteria is for you to get number 6 at least once, then this is where cumulative probability comes in. To put it simply, you have much higher chance of getting 6 one time the more number of tries you are given. Now to put back into perspective without going into the math, success criteria is getting infected by HIV at least once. Odds is 8% for 1 event. If u have 100 tries (sex encounters) odds that u get infected at least once, will be higher the more tries u have. Sadly, the reality is, it only take one time for you to get the virus and u are with the virus for life. Its a reminder for me and for all of us here that probability is just that, probability. It does means u can still get infected the first time u try but it can also mean you will never get infected at all even if u never where condom nor take prep. It is calculated based on historical data or experimetal data, and its just a way to emphasize the likelihood of one getting infected. Now if u think luck is always with you, i cant stop you, but know that for 30% thai guys, the luck isnt with them, so good luck to any of you who think prep is enough protection.

Thats tam, used to work in jupiter, one of the star there and coincidentally is the guy vinapu talked about lol

Wow, muscular men in dreamboys pattaya? Are they just for the show or offable too?

Haha yup, bangkok at the top isnt a surprise but recently people are asking about other destinations and this list might gives some opportunity to visit other places around. I also surpised that 3 cities in thailand made top 20, not an easy feat.

3 Thaliand cities made top 20, the other two are phuket and pattaya. Kuala Lumpur is ranked 7th, above Tokyo.

https://newsroom.mastercard.com/press-releases/big-cities-big-business-bangkok-london-and-paris-lead-the-way-in-mastercards-2018-global-destination-cities-index/ Big Cities, Big Business: Bangkok, London and Paris Lead the Way in Mastercard’s 2018 Global Destination Cities Index PURCHASE, NY – September 25, 2018 – In a world of rising nationalism, international travel takes on greater importance—breaking down barriers, broadening our horizons and driving economic impact felt throughout the world’s cities. For the past decade, Mastercard’s Global Destination Cities Index has offered important analysis of travel to and within cities. This year’s top cities are Bangkok, London and Paris, once again underscoring the importance of robust infrastructure, both business and leisure attractions and strong local culture. The Mastercard Index, which expanded this year to look at global 162 cities, is not simply a ranking of the top travel destinations. Based on visitor volume and spend for the 2017 calendar year, the in-depth analysis also provides a growth forecast for 2018 and—for the first time—a view into average length of stay and amount spent per day. With the global economy buzzing, the annual growth of international overnight visitors to the Top 10 destination cities was up in 2017 except for Seoul, which saw a dip. The forecast for 2018 indicates across-the-board growth, with Istanbul expecting the largest uptick in visitors. With roughly 20 million international overnight visitors, Bangkok remains in the top spot this year and is unlikely to be bested due to a strong projected growth of 9.6 percent for 2018. Interestingly, visitors tend to stay in Bangkok 4.7 nights and spend $173 per day, on average.

My first language is malay.

Definitely there is even a travel advisory issued for malaysian citizens against travelling to those deep/far south region in thailand (Pattani, Yala, Narathiwat, Songkhla). There has been cases that malaysian citizen being hit by stray bullet in those area. Though the movement there is more ethnic related, and just so happens their religion is islam. They are just culturally very different than the rest of thailand, and even their language are more similar to malay than thai. Hatyai on the other hand is still safe for travel, and some of thai MB in KL also use hatyai as their place to stay while resetting their visa before coming back here. One of my favorite guy from dreamboys comes from trang, a city north of hatyai, south of phuket. My take is if u want to travel there, just avoId the far south region, and u should be fine.

Day 4 - Silk Farm, Senteurs d'Angkor, Blue Hatha, Phare circus. Today is our lazy day. We started the day quite late, told the tuktuk to be ready only at 10am. We went for breakfast around 7.30am then gave the hotel pool a try. The water is a bit salty, maybe its one of those salt water pool, not sure since i havent tried any before. At 10 or so, we head for the silk farm to see their workshops. Its a interesting experience though we went on a sunday, so no guides works today, we are free to roam the place ourselves. Some of the workers are still around to demonstrate some of their tools. And best of all its free and again no pressure to purchase anything, though their shops have wide variety of stuff that is worth a second look. We went to Senteurs d'Angkor next, where they show how they make those incense, perfumes, candles, and the cases to put them in. There is also a free- tasting for their coffee and tea, with spices. We were ushered by one polite lady explaining what each of the station do. And another free to visit place, with shops to purchase their products. We then head for lunch, and after lunch, decided to hit one of the recommended spa in trip advisor. We went to at least 3-4 spa, most are either too expensive, or dont have masseurs/fully booked. Our tuktuk driver even brings us to the massage place where the masseurs we had yesterday work at, and guess what, the center charges way more than the hotel. We dont want to wait, so we decided to went our separate ways. One decided to go back to hotel for massage. Another wants to go to the market to buy some stuff, and i wanted to find another massage place on my own, which means i want to go to Blue Hatha. Have set my eye on this massage place since day 1, and since its close to hotel, i figured ill have time to go and this is the time. We agreed to meet back for dinner and Phare circus at 6.30pm and i arrived at blue hatha at 4pm, enough for a 2 hour massage. As i arrived at the place, i went in the porch area and one of the masseur asked if i want massage, and i said yes. He went inside and called out all the guys. I went in and sit at the couch, while around 10-15 guys standing in front of me, akin to arena, except i dont recall anyone were shirtless. I have to admit i feel a little bit uncomfortable having that many guys staring at me lol. I chose the one that fits my type, pointing at him and immediately the rest of the guys disperse. I shouldve spent a little bit more time feasting of the views but i was feelingg a bit uncomfortable lol. Anyway, the guy i took is about my height, a bit build but not well defined, which i dont mind, and have fair skin, handsome looking guy, looked more chinese, maybe more lao than cambodian. Went in, room very basic with thin mattress on the floor, but have ensuite shower/toilet, no hot shower, but at this weather, i really dont mind. He asked me to lie down on my front, and he striped down to just underwear, starting the massage. Massage skills is acceptable, not my best but not the worse too. I am more enjoying his hands touching my skin rather than his massage lol. After a short while, maybe 15-20 min, he positioned his dick on my feet and of course I reciprocate until it gets hard. But i took 2 hour session, so when he asked if i want extras, I politely say yes but l said later after massage. And as expected from cambodian, no pressure to proceed to extra after that, until maybe a good 1 hour of massage, with few intermission of my feet rubbing his rock hard dick. He then asked me to turn, massage my legs a bit then we proceed with the fun. And he does everything. He is gay, and towards the end, he open his phone to watch gay porn which i dont mind as he rarely look lol. After i came, i cuddle with him while he jerk off, and shortly after he came. We chat a bit before cleaning up and shower again separate. Worth to mention that the whole session took nearly 2 hours too, if u include shower time. I learned with the little english he has that he is from phnom penh, used to work maybe a market, family small business. And he used to work in pattaya for 1 year in an bar called sun bar but went back since he got not many customers. And he also said he has friends in pattaya too. Now he got me very tempted to visit pattaya on my next visit lol. Like some of the posters here said, if u want cambodian guys, go to pattaya. I am glad i manage to visit this place. Price is still usd 10 per hour, and i tips quite generous too. If i am around the area again, id definitely will pay a visit again. I arrived at the hotel around 6.10pm, and cleaned up again before heading out to dinner and then head to Phare circus. We are early when we arrived at the place, so we got to be a the front of the line we started lol. Ive read that some place are obstructed by the poles, so we are glad to be seated quite close to the center, at the second row at the front. All i can say about the show is its a must visit for anyone who visit siem reap! Especially gay tourist like me haha. Lots and lots of eyecandy doing incredible acrobatic, dancing, and very funny too. Lots of the guys went shirtless too, exposing more skin that some of the gogobars nowadays lol. At least half are muscular fit body, two are just perfect! They have 3 different show that they change maybe after 10 days or so, with the schedule released at their website. The show last 1 hour but i do feel the time fly very fast. As a bonus, all of the cast stays at the end for pictures with the audience, and guess what, half of them are still shirtless and sweating. I tried hard not to touch them lol. This show is a perfect end of the day!

Hmm

Definitely will consider these places my next trip there, maybe with more temple lover friends or perhaps solo lol Thats sounds a like neat plan too. Thanks, i just write things as it is, dont have the creative writing style as english isnt my first language. So i just wirte what i can remember from the trip. By 5-6pm, those who guard the entry point no longer there, at least at phnom krum, we werent asked to show our ticket at all. I did offer the first day masseur at men usd20, he asked for usd25 which is very reasonable still for me so i agreed.

Day 3 - Temple day con't Forgot to mentioned we did had quick stops along the way to Ta Phrom, right by a river where what used to be a bridge were there, cosumed by the nature. Three huge trees with their massive roots weaping the structures, a nice little teaser to Ta Phrom. Anyway, back at hotel, we decided to try their massage service. Asked the reception and being told they only have 2 male masseurs, and fortunately one of my friend choose to sit out, and went to sleep instead. So i took 1.5hr body massage at my room, and my friend take 1 hour at the hotel's massage room, which only have one couple room without any curtains lol. We set the time, 3pm for me, 3.30pm for my friend. I received a call at a bit after 3pm from reception asking if im ready for my massage, to which i said yes, thinking the masseur will come to my room soon. Its been 20mins since the call and no one came, so i called the reception. Apparently he thought i was the one who wanted massage at the massage room. A bit of misunderstanding, so i ask them to send the masseur to my room but cut the time to 1 hour since we already have plans afterwards. Anyway, rhe masseur came to my room shortly after, average face, average body, looks gay to me, but not my type. The massage was actually great, exceed my expectations. And as expected from a gay masseur, he has no problem massaging my intimate area around the buttocks. The massage is a mixed dry massage without oil, lots of strong presses, and oil massage that is very sensual. He asked me to turn around and proceed massaging the front leg, hands, and chest area. Then he asked if i want massage around stomach area which i said yes. This was when his massage became more sensual, with his arms brushing across my dick, instantly make me hard, and exposing my penis. After a while he asked if i wanted sex. I was a bit shocked and since he isnt my type, i politely refused. And he went on drying my body with towels and gives me head massage and ends the massage with some stretching. We went over 1 hour, maybe 10-15min over. I give him tips, and he asked how long ill stay around and i said till monday, and off he went. I cleaned myself up and went to the lobby for our next temple visit. Its going to be sunset viewing at Phnom Krom, near Tonle Sap. After a disappointing sunrise, we were hopping for a redemption here, and boy the view here is just awesome! And more important of all, almost no tourist as well! We were divided between visiting here or Pre Rup, another temple said to gives great sunset view, but since that temple is easier and closer to town, so i guess maybe most of the tourist went there. There is a modern temple on top of the mountain too, and our tuktuk driver dropped us at the small town near the stairs going up. A bit of hiking to go to the place but it wasnt bad, around 20-30 mins. We were treated with views of the floating village during the hiking, turning golden with the sun setting down, and view of tonle sap on the other side of the mountain, for the sunset view. You do have to walk further into the side of the mountain for clear view. The sky is clear, but there are some clouds forming at the horizons, which makes the sunset more beautiful. I think some of the cloud makes a dragon head shape. There are a few tourist sunset boat and birds flying around adding some zest to the sunset view that looks like its a painting. Its now started to get dark, so we make our way back to the temple. And we were treated again to a superb view of the temple, with the moon shining brightly at the back of the temple, which is still illuminated by the sunset. And on the way down, the floating village is now dark, with lights thats also makes a nice view but not really nice to take photos with my 3 years old phone. We went for dinner back at town, and do little more shopping at the night market accross the river and then move toward pubstreet to soaked in the night life scene, which is mostly straight. Funny enough, one of the bars is playing a very catchy indonesian songs that is popular in malaysia too lol. Thats the end of day 3.

Kokopeli hits the nail on boyfriends, i guess by using this, we are all pedophlies huh?

Day 3 - Temple Day Woke up at 4am with wake up call from hotel, but went back to sleep and woke up again at 4.30am from my own alarm. Today's plan is to hit angkor wat for sunrise which is around 6am. After getting ready, went to the counter to pickup our packed breakfast and our tuktuk driver was already waiting for us. Its still dark outside, and unfortunately for us, it is still drizzling, a bit overcast too, cloud is everywhere. As we only plan to go to temple this one day, we bought the one day ticket so have no option to change the day. We went ahead, got there before sunrise, the main bridge to cross the lake surrounding angkor wat is being reconstructed, so they provide a floating bridge instead. We chose our position to wait until the sun is up, though we couldnt really see, just until its bright enough, then went ahead to explore the temple. The bright side of this is there isnt as much people around during this time, partly due to the weather, where people with multiple day ticket can choose a different day to experience the sunrise, and partly because its not peak season. We had lots of pictures taken all around the temple, many photo spots thats are just lovely, and we stopped to have breakfast at the back of the temple, where its almost deserted. After breakfast, we head to climb the top pagoda and more picture taking. We took our time taking pictures, we can even wait it out until no one is around, so most of our pictures dont have any other people around. At around 10 or so, the crowds started to build, as we can start seeing troops of chinese tourists marching and making noises. That's pretty much our queue to move to the next temple lol. We head back down the steep man-made stairs and head to angkor thom complex. Angkor thom is about few kilometers from angkor wat, and we past by the south gate where our tuktuk drop us so we can walk at the bridge and take pictures while he wait for us on the other side. We head to bayon temple next, the temple with the big buddha faces. But the crowd here are quite crazy, so we do a quick round, taking pictures while walking, only stopping at 1-2 spots to take pictures of ourselves. We then decided thats we should move on to the royal residence, and then walked to the elephant terrace and lepers king and meet with our tuktuk driver for our next temple, the most awaited one, Ta Phrom, the tomb raider's temple. This place is just amazing. Most of the temple are still in original states, and we can see some wooden structures being build to support the temple from collapsing. Huge trees surrounding the temple and some with their roots just wrapping around the temple walls and structures makes beautiful photo spots. Somehow we managed to went ahead of the chinese tour groups as most people here are mostly independent travellers with guide hired on site or without any guides. Some famous spots, there's a queue to take picture but not so long, maybe 3-5 people ahead of us at times. Definitely the best place of all the temple we had visit thus far. By the time we were done, its already close to 2pm, we decided to head back, and have our lunch before heading back to hotel. To be continued..