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In bangkok or pattaya, find a sport bar. They will definitely show you some football/soccer games. I guess for american football, higher chance to find one in pattaya.

Some places are to be enjoyed with a companion rather alone. I guess koh samui is one of them? Never been there but i went to phuket with a guy, and not regretting my decision. Went to chiangmai alone, wished i had a guy with me. I did have a blast in PP alone though.

Real market for rich mature retired farangs for a "husband" (and not in paying per meet but doesnt mean its cheaper sense)

Ah, now you are in a bit of a pickle lol. You could pretend to be lost lol

Imagine what you are missing lol

Still too early, u can still go to jupiter now lol

Show mamasan the picture from the video, you silly goose lol

Hope you are already in moonlight enjoying their show lol

Go there after midnight, or if you have energy, after your moonlight visit. Since goodboy open late, usually most of the customer crowd move there at around midnight, so you will have a busier bar without much pestering by mamasan.

Chapter 3: You Are Special Before I went back to sleep, I texted good morning to Vinapu. He expressed interest in checking out my hotel, the Conrad, and said he would be passing by around 11:15 am. I set my alarm, but apparently, he arrived much earlier and was waiting for me in the lobby. I called him at 11:10 am and went down to usher him to the lounge for coffee and catching up. We didn’t have much time to chat yesterday. Afterward, we did a room tour, and then I went back to sleep lol. Woke up a few hours later and went to Prime for a massage. I had a dinner meeting with an ex-forum member and his BF. When I tried to book my massage, I could only book a 90-minute oil massage so I wouldn't be late for dinner. The good thing was that dinner was at Mango Tree, which is a stone's throw away. I arrived there slightly early, and not long after, the ex-forum member appeared. Vinapu was invited, but he appeared to be nursing his jetlag. Just when we were about to finish our meal, I got a message saying he had just woke up. So, we made a plan to meet at Midnight Bar before our nightly adventure. I went back to the hotel to freshen up before heading back out to Midnight Bar. We both have the hots for one of the waiters there. I never fail to either buy him a drink and tip him, or just tip him if he is already occupied with a customer. Charming guy, and he always comes over and treats his regulars well. I've never offed him except for that one time for karaoke with jason1975—the first guy I've offed for karaoke only lol. In case you are wondering, yes, we have discussed the possibility, but it hasn't materialized for whatever reason. Vinapu arrived not long after. We agreed to visit Tawan tonight. Tawan is doing well considering it's a Sunday night and the low season. Plenty of boys, at least a dozen, and I saw 2–3 new faces, some worth a second look. One guy in particular looked like a guy who had just completed his short-term temple stay. He seemed kinda familiar, and much later on, I came across his video lol. If I had seen the video while I was still in Thailand, I would've grabbed him. We stayed for the show. If Xboy is the most progressive show bar in Pattaya, I dare to say Tawan is the lesser equivalent for a Bangkok show bar. Meanwhile, I finally got to see live how annoying the Tawan guys are when sitting next to our esteemed member in Tawan, and trust me, he did not exaggerate one bit. While I was, for the most part, left alone—except for one guy who sat in front of me—Vinapu was being harassed front, left, and center. And this is where his famous "I like girls" response backfired. Now the boys (who mostly like girls) sat next to him and opened his phone to show him straight porn lol. I agreed when Vinapu said to me that they were doing a disservice to themselves, driving away a regular customer with that kind of behavior. Before we left, we both tipped the best-looking newbies. After Tawan, we left for the next bar, Dreamboy. I already had someone in mind, VT from day one. I had promised him I would take him next time, so here I am fulfilling that promise. He was glad to see me; I bought him a drink and asked if he wanted to go with me. We stayed a while for the show before heading back. I asked my guy if he wanted something to eat, and he said yes. I can't recall if it was Foodland or 7-Eleven, but I said my goodbyes to Vinapu, who was not done hunting for the night. VT left after breakfast. Since this was only my second time with him—and I might add, the first proper night, as the first time I took him was partially spoiled by my own mistake (left my phone in a Bolt taxi)—I tried my best not to doze off for too long lol. After VT left, I continued sleeping until way past 1 pm.

Then you shouldnt stay too long in banana. Their boys offering is low, so if you already saw them on stage at one point, thats it. My last visit, less than 10.

Banana drag queen used to be the best ones compared to other bars. I said used to, because before my july/aug trip, they were decently dressed with elegant costumes. But on my recent visit, suddenly they start wearing very revealing and crude costumes. Definitely not for me lol

They wont get in stage but you can always buy them drink for closer inspection

You know that waiters can be off too right? Especially if they have numbers badges.

This alone makes me regret that I didnt checkout this bar on my last trip. Will be checking this out next trip for sure.