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Personally, Ive had a few guys id consider having long term arrangement, and one guy, I did get into the conversation but he did mentioned he does not prefer to be tied. Not directly to me nor to my request, but i cant recall exactly how, but he told someone (customer) asked him to be "boyfriend" but he sort of dismissing the idea because he doesnt want commitment. I did asked about if he had one before, and he told me yes, long time ago (before he met me), with a local guy, and he did receive monthly stipend, for about a year. There is another guy who told me he used to get a sponsor before too, when i asked about him missing from the scene. And other times when this came out, is when one of the their Bar friend went missing, I would ask about them, and sometimes, their answer is he got a sponsor. These are all a good conversation starters to bring up the topic and not directly discuss the arrangement if and when you are ready to talk with Cam about the topic. This way you can sense whether he likes the idea or not, without directly offering him hope. Or you can also wait it up until the guy themselves brings it up.

I wonder how his liver fare, even at a generous 300 baht tips per drink, thats 33 glasses of alcohol consumption per day.

To add a bit, thai durian is very different than the one in malaysia, at least to me, who likes durian. There are lots of durian variants, and their taste can varies greatly, so is their prices. In Malaysia, the most popular expensive variant are musang king and black thorn.

You are not alone. Lots of the time, guys i like are mostly top only. Granted, i prefer manly men and those working the scene thats manly are usually str8 or top.

Those who never tried durian always says onion smell when they first come into contact with durian, but I for one can never understand where the onion smells description comes from. And yes, we have onions here too and that smell wont get me longing for durian for sure hehe

Maybe you havent tried the good kind hehe

U dont know what you've been missing out then. Durian is my favorite fruit of all time.

I had sort of the same experience but it was a genuine "im only available tonight if you want to meet", coz the day after, he has a trip with a customer for a week or so. Granted, this was my regular and he told me this when i asked him for future meet, instead of pressuring me for another off. That said, its fair for us to find another boy as much as them finding another client, unless you are already in an sponsor/bf/exclusive arrangement with the guy.

Wait, i thought you like older asian men?

Hope you will enjoy KL! And Melaka!

Sounds like a perfect night is having L and D with you in the middle, facing L backside hehe.

Actually, mention of wanted to go to some club is a hint no? He might be waiting for you ask if you can join hehe.

Sounds like you want S or SS type massage place though H places guys wont refuse a no penetration services. Kissing on the other hand, not always easy to tell who will do it, so if it is really important for you, mention it upfront to the mamasan at H place, and perhaps you will get one that is willing. S or SS place, the person in charge wont entertain question about extra services, so its up to the masseur, so itll be harder to negotiate before choosing

Did u make the reservation directly with the hotel? Or using third party app/website?

Late to the party, but for me personally, word itself, without intent, carry different weight when it comes to identifying a person. The word gay itself is still very offensive in many culture, religion and countries, even though many have accepted it. For this particular word, oriental, that is used in the thread here, I can definitely see those who didnt know it, view it as a normal word to be used as an adjective. Heck, in Malaysia, a famous cafe (kopitiam) here is called Oriental Kopi. And one of the famous 5 star luxury hotel brand here is called Mandarin Oriental. So is the luxury train Eastern and Oriental Express. Apparently, it is okay to use it to refer to inanimate object.