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It's called Chongfah Beach Resort. It's a small resort in a slightly more quiet part of town but just a short walk to the more lively areas. Highly recommended.

Does Phoenix have boys on site, or is it advisable to book ahead?

Yes only 80 baht extra which I thought was quite reasonable. The massage itself was 450, with most places in the complex charging 400. Thank you! Yes I think I lucked out on this part of my trip, let's hope my luck continues.

Some updates from recent times: I've been traveling a little, nothing super exciting so feel free to skip over. Khao Lak Khao Lak is about an hour's drive north of Phuket International Airport and it is quite spread out along the coast. I stayed in the Bang Niang area where there are of plenty of restaurants and bars, and there is a night market as well. I ended up booking an ocean-front villa in a small resort which the view was amazing. I did a cooking class at the resort which ended up just being a private class for myself and the guy took me to the market to buy some stuff before I did the class. It was pretty fun and they were impressed at my spring roll wrapping abilities, but that is because I've done it before lol. I didn't meet up with any guys here (the usual apps are active though, but not a whole lot of choice) and there is a gay bar nearby (Meeting Point Bar), but I did not patronise. The tourists here were predominantly caucasian and non-english speaking. I think this area is very popular with Germans as many of the signs around the resort were in German. Koh Yao Yai This island is about a 20 minute speed boat ride off the east coast of Phuket. I stayed at Santhiya Resort and it was absolutely massive - they have these songthaews that take you around the resort as not only is it big, but it has some really steep inclines/declines. I think I booked one of the average rooms but I was surprisingly upgraded to a pool villa which I had my own private pool, as well as a massive bedroom/sitting area and dining room. A little too much for just me, but I appreciated it. The view was also amazing. Because the resort is huge, I didn't bother leaving it and instead just did some of the activities that were provided - I did a yoga class and a Muay Thai class, but just mostly relaxed and swum in the pool for the time I was there. There are things you can do outside of the resort but I didn't bother. On the apps were mostly tourists and mostly not even nearby, so if you come here I would suggest to BYO. Other than that, everything was streamlined quite well and the hotel has their own pier and speed boats to shuttle you from the Phuket to the resort. Phuket A destination that I've been to a few times in the past but decided to revisit. Firstly I stayed in a beautiful resort in the Kamala area, nothing too exciting here, again I just chilled out and enjoyed some peace and quiet. Next I headed to Patong for a few nights. I stayed at the Royal Paradise hotel, in the centre of the action. I've heard they are not very guest friendly but it didn't bother me as I was just planning on going to the massage places. The hotel itself is okay, decent enough and nice views, but the bathroom could do with a little updating. They do provide you with a voucher for a free (non-alcoholic) drink though. In the massage scene there was one guy that I wanted to see (I've been seeing him since 2019), and 2 more that I've seen before and wouldn't mind seeing again. This is at 4 Massage. When I went there in the evening 'my guy' was not around, but they said he would be back in 5 minutes, which then changed into an hour and a half so I decided not to worry, as the other 2 guys that I've been with before were also not there. I then messaged a guy (on Grindr) from a different shop (Gentle Massage) who had messaged me earlier in the day. The shop is a relatively new addition to the lineup and the guy told me that some of the guys from Blue Dolphin had moved over to this new shop. The guy was quite sweet, gave me a decent massage and then I bottomed for him. He was a little on the thicker side so my ass was out of action for a couple of days after that. Whilst walking back to the hotel I ran into 'my guy' walking in the opposite direction. It was funny as I was looking at him and then he was looking at me and then we realised we knew each other lol. He was surprised and happy to see me and told me off for not letting him know I was coming. He is quite sweet as well, and whilst talking and catching up we were holding hands in the middle of the road. I said I would see him another time as I just finished a massage. The next day I decided to go to Blue Dolphin and there were quite a few guys to choose from, but I asked who could bottom (because I was not up for bottoming) and then there were about four or so left. I chose a twinkish looking guy and paid an extra 80 THB on top of the massage fee for a room with an ensuite. This guy was also really sweet, gave really good service and spoke clear English. The day after I finally caught up with 'my guy' and the massage literally went for a few minutes before we got into the afters. In the past I bottomed for him, but that night, he bottomed for me. It was quite nice having that familiarly of someone that you've been with before, and whilst Patong really isn't my most favourite of places to visit, I go there mainly because of him. I told him this and he told me next time just to stay somewhere else and he will come to me, because there are some quite beautiful places in Phuket. In regards to the massage scene, the quality is definitely better in Bangkok, but there are a few gems in Patong. A lot of the guys are also on the apps so they will contact you, and there were a few I would like to try next time. I have found that the guys seem more genuine and less 'cold' than some guys you may come across in Bangkok. But this is just a generalisation. I'm back in Bangkok for about a week before I go on another short trip outside of Bangkok. On another note, the SRT red line has a maximum fare of 20 THB and accepts credit cards at the gates, just like the MRT, however there are specific gates for credit card users. Handy for those traveling to/from Don Mueang Airport.

For me, I am adamant to watch the fireworks that are being displayed in front of IconSiam. I spent quite a lot of time on google maps researching/searching for hotels along the river that would give me a good view however they were mostly booked out or ridiculously expensive (would have loved a room at Lebua but extremely pricey). Then I thought about standing on the bridge that crosses the Chao Phraya River near Saphan Taksin BTS station or just going to IconSiam but both options would most likely be super crowded so I opted out. Then I started looking for hotels that were a little further away, that were still in my price range, that I could still see the fireworks - Furama Silom was an option, however I found out that you can't use the balcony, so no point, so then I settled on Pullman G, requesting a room on the river side. No balcony, but I should still be able to see the fireworks. Not overly exciting but that is where I will be.

I'm just speculating, but maybe had something to do with the BiB?

Same same but different. It does get quite busy with office workers around lunch time though.

Alternatively, you can peruse rent.men, however prices generally tend to be higher.

Perhaps after business hours?

I'll be in Phuket of all places, in a 5 star resort away from the hustle and bustle. First ever Christmas I will be spending away from my family.

The only tailor I ever went to in BKK was on my very first trip to Bangkok in 2016 - State Tailors (in the State Tower building/Lebua hotel). It was my tour guide that took me there, no doubt he would have got a kickback, but the suits that were made for me fitted perfectly and I still have them today, although I don't wear them much anymore because I got a bit fat

The theme song is forever burnt into my brain. Not that I mind, just reminds me that my happy places are nearby.

I'm certain it may have been a continuation from the previous night!

I'm now travelling outside of Bangkok, so here are some notes from recent times. It's been a little quiet on the guy-front whilst I've been in recovery, so not too much excitement to report on as of yet. I tried out a couple of hotels (that I haven't tried before) in the general area - BnB98 - I found this whilst perusing google maps. It's in the same small alley as Pula Silom and G.O.D nightclub, and I thought I would give it a try since it didn't look too bad and is well-located. This is a strange one though - you can book via the usual channels (booking.com/agoda) however there is no reception (there is a cafe downstairs that is run by the same people as the hotel - I think). Basically they will send you a one-time-code to open the room and inside is a door card to use for the remainder of the trip. Since there is no reception, my passport details were not taken so I am not sure how they get away with not reporting your stay to immigration (as hotels usually do). Anyhow, the prices are reasonable and there are also some cheap rooms with shared bathrooms. I was booked in for 4 nights, but I lasted 1. My issues - the door did not have any secondary lock from the inside. Since there was no reception, the front door is always open so anyone could just go up into the building. It is so noisy - I could deal with it being so close to the BTS, I could deal with the noise of the nightclub nearby, but I couldn't deal with the man singing karaoke at 6am. The bathroom blinds also didn't fully cover the windows so it's possible someone in the building opposite may have gotten an eyeful if they were looking close enough, and there was no room safe. Some of these things I already knew from reading the reviews, but I just couldn't do it! I thought it would be good to be right up in the action, but I think I would prefer to be slightly a distance away. Or a better hotel with more amenities. Silom Convent Garden Hotel - I actually read about this hotel in a report from Vinapu so decided to try. I ended up getting a very good deal on one of their bigger rooms whilst booking direct online, which the receptionist told me was an error on their side and I should not have gotten it for that price, but he had to honour it since I already paid for it. This place is closer to Chong Nonsi but still in walking distance to all the fun places. The place is quite dated and falling apart slightly but is still fine, and what I especially liked about my particular room type is that it had a washing machine, which was very handy. I probably wouldn't stay there again, but it was good to try somewhere on the other side. It is also right next door to Sauna Mania, and a short distance to Arena for those who are interested. Massage - Senso - I visited here hoping to see the guy that I met in January who I had an excellent time with, but he was not to be found and the manager hadn't heard from him either (I ended up messaging him later on Line and he confirmed he wasn't working there anymore and told me where he was now working). Anyhow, as I entered, another guy entered at the same time as me, however he left shortly afterwards. Perhaps he wasn't keen on the lineup? or the price? The pricing structure is new, compared to how it was previously - a 90 minute massage will cost 3300 THB and is an all-in price that includes both the massage and the tip. I forget how much the 60 minute option cost. I asked the manager to tell me who can do both top and bottom (as I like to flip-flop) and he pointed out who was able. The line up was mostly hunks, but there was this one twink guy that I had my eye on so I ended up choosing him. I had only been to Senso twice before, once in January as already mentioned, and once last year, and I briefly wondered if the guy I chose was the same guy as last year but I couldn't quite remember, and for some reason I remember him being taller. Anyhow, we went upstairs where I firstly had a shower and he then had a shower, and started with the massage which tbh wasn't super sensual but it was okay, and then the afters started which was pretty satisfying. We flip-flopped a few times which was lots of fun and afterwards we had a shower together where he helped me wash the massage oil off. It was at this point that I saw his tattoo of his name that I put 2 and 2 together and it was the guy that I had last year. I didn't recognise him, but in all fairness, he didn't recognise me either lol. We later confirmed when I tried to add him as a friend on Line, he was already my friend. I had a satisfying time, but the guy I had in January, I felt I 'connected' with him more. And the sex was way hotter. So that's me updated for now, will write again when I have more to write about!

This is the google maps link: https://maps.app.goo.gl/EPDh6Uf5som2rFWu9?g_st=com.google.maps.preview.copy

I asked if half-and-half pizza was possible and she said yes (and I'm pretty sure I read it in the forum too), one half is your favourite and the other half I can't remember the name but I think 'Madrid special'

I certainly did 😂 it was too delicious 🤤

Omg you guys, so I went to the famous Madrid for lunch today and the pizza was among one of the best I’ve ever eaten. Highly recommend!

Absolutely 😅

Ah yes good idea! I've been to the train market once before on my very first trip to Thailand. I think once is enough for me. Right, thanks!

A few tidbits whilst I am out of action: - Whilst walking down Surawong Road last week around lunchtime, an older lady tried to entice me to go to her bar with "many young ladies" and then whispering "blowjobs", whilst I had to respectfully decline, I would like to know where are the boy bars that are giving blowjobs at lunchtime! - A photo I took at the BTS station, I have no idea what this is advertising but it looks damn sexy: - I know Jason has already covered the Crete Party in great detail, but another photo won't hurt: - I'm currently staying near the Wongwian Yai BTS station and on Grindr there seems to be quite a high concentration of African/African American men. I wonder why there are so many in this area? - I'll be back in Silom in a week or so, so hopefully more stories to come!

What an amazing trip report! I thoroughly enjoyed reading about all your adventures and am so pleased to have met you and hung out a couple of times. Had I not been out of action, I would have loved to join you for more adventures. May our paths hopefully cross again in the future!

You have such a kind heart!

Hi everyone, I recently arrived in Bangkok and thought I would update with what's been going with me so far. The day of my arrival happened to coincide with the Crete Party (which is mentioned in a post in the 'Gay Bangkok' section, thanks to @bkkmfj2648) and seeing it was taking place in the hotel that I was staying at, I thought I would give it a go, despite the hefty foreigner price tag (5500 as opposed to 4900 for locals - although not too much of a difference) and I was in contact with @jason1975 to go together. The arrival time of my flight and the time that registration started was already a little bit tight for timing, but I would be able to make it work. Except that my departing flight was now scheduled to leave an hour late. Okay, so I resigned that I was going to be late. I contacted the organisers and they said this is okay. Anyhow, flight on Thai Airways Royal Silk class was smooth and was fed quite a lot of food, landed at 16:15, walking to immigration took a little while but immigration didn't take too long. I think I was eligible for fast track but I didn't worry about it. Luggage came out as soon as I got to the belt (usually I travel light but I thought I would take a suitcase with me this time as I am here for a while), raced down to the basement floor to exchange some cash as I only had 500B to my name, and off I went onto the ARL then switched to the MRT at Makkasan/Petchaburi all the way to Silom. Seeing it was a Saturday night I wasn't expecting the trains to be so full. Yes I could have gotten a taxi but I don't generally take taxis unless I really really have to. Anyhow, reached Crowne Plaza around 18:15, unpacked a little and changed my shirt (didn't even have time to have a shower, yes gross), and raced downstairs to the Crete Party to meet @jason1975 and @Raposa - first time meeting both and really nice people. I was only an hour and a half late and I didn't miss too much. I won't go into much detail about this part as Jason has already mentioned it in great detail in his trip report, but all in all it was a really nice way to spend my first night back in Bangkok. I had not been here since January of this year. After the party we went to Jupiter, and whilst not the most favourite of places, the guys are amazingly attractive and some of the shows were quite good. I did have my eye one of the guys, but I was already super exhausted and just really wanted to get back to the hotel and have a shower and catch up on some sleep. I said my goodbyes at around midnight and that was it for the night. I'd like to also mention that this trip that I'm currently taking is the longest one that I've ever taken - I'll be here for 2 months so I'm just going to take it easy and not be too rushed, and not centre my holiday so much around boys (although there will be quite a number I would like to meet). I'm staying in a number of hotels in Bangkok and also visiting common touristy places such as Pattaya/Jomtien, Phuket, Koh Samui as well as Khao Lak, Koh Yao Yai and Koh Tao (thanks to @bkkmfj2648 suggestion in another thread). The following day I had a 2 hour massage at Prime (1 hour Thai/1 hour oil) which was amazing and later on in the evening I met Jason and again other forum member for a drink at Hotmale beer bar which was fun and then over to Dreamboy where we had a booth seat near the front which is where I never sit (I prefer to sit right up the back) but since I am with company, it was good to sit up the front. Upon entering, my favourite boy waved at me and I called him down and we had a nice catch up, and he was happy to see me and happy to be offed that night. The bar was not very full for a Saturday night, but I guess high season is coming very shortly. We watched the shows some of which were new and some recycled but it was good to watch something that I would not be able to in my own country. It was good to gossip with Jason during the show. Boy came back with me for short time and then went to the gym afterwards. The next day I had another appointment at Prime, 0.5 hour scrub (which he got into every nook and cranny) and 1.5 hour oil which was actually quite sensual and good coverage, with no modesty draping. After lunch I went back to rest at the hotel and was planning to go to Karaoke with Jason and his boys, but I ended up having some stomach troubles so I thought it would be best to stay in, much to my dismay. Luckily it was short lived. For now, I've now moved into another area of Bangkok, away from Silom, as I've just had some minor surgery so I will probably not be too active in the next week or so whilst I recover, but I am here for a while so plenty of time for more shenanigans. There is just so much to do, and I am just so happy to be back in my happy place!

Le Meridien Bangkok and Hilton Pattaya. Done